The word "radicalized" has been taken over by our attempt to explain the growing phenomena of terrorism and extremism in our world today. Hearing the term, I always have some kind of "yeah, but" reaction as if to say: "Yes, but we want to be radicalized, too!" -- not in the ways of violence and death, but in the ways of peace and life.
I love the meaning of the word "radical" that has its origin in the word "root". The image that comes up for me is digging deep into the soil with my hands to get to the root. Somehow, getting to the root of such things as feelings, assumptions, judgments, concerns or fears is grounding and leads to empathy, clarity, focus, courage and commitment.
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Fearless Conversations our intent is to get to the root of our connection with one another by talking with one another, even if we have fears about doing so. To get to the root is to get to - and honor - what is most basic, important and essential to one another.
May we be radicalized! Each day may we get to the root of our goodness so that we can unleash the power of that goodness to create peace in our world.
May our conversations root us in hope, confidence, trust, harmony and collaboration.
May we be rooted in curiosity so that we can welcome new ideas and possibilities and opportunities for collaboration and understanding.
May we deeply and generously listen to one another so that we are rooted in what matters most to ourselves, family members, friends and colleagues.
If we feel the impulse to speak or act out of judgment of others, may we root ourselves in our own breath; breathing deeply restores us with fresh ease, calm and openness.
In times of sorrow or when we are overwhelmed by the challenges of life, may we be rooted in our connections of empathy, tenderness, support, understanding, and comfort.
In 2016, may we support one another in being radicalized in the ways of "extreme" peace, love, empathy and life.
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