June News & Events
30th Anniversary  
Hospicare Mugs on Sale at 15 STEPS 

Help celebrate Hospicare's 30th anniversary with a handcrafted pottery mug for sale now at 15 STEPS on the Ithaca commons. Made in America, these beautiful mugs come in a variety of shapes and colors--all with the distinctive Hospicare logo. We've been told that coffee, tea and other hot delights taste even better when drunk out of one of these mugs. Try it for yourself.

 

100% of the proceeds will go to Hospicare.   

 

Grief Support Group for Men 

 

Men and women often grieve in ways that may seem quite different from each other. Modern bereavement support recognizes this. To give men a space and a time to recognize their own grieving process, Hospicare is offering a one-evening grief support group for men only.  

 

This is an opportunity to connect with other men who are grieving the loss of a loved one. Local Therapist Alan Ledet, LMFT, will facilitate an informed discussion that will provide understanding and insight on how men grieve.  

 

The group "How Men Grieve" will be held June 13, 6:00-8:00 p.m., at Hospicare. Free and open to the public, but please register by June 10 with Donna George, LMSW, FT, (dgeorge@hospicare.org) or call 272-0212.

 

HELP Act 
Sign Petition to Support a Stronger Hospice Law 

 

Hospicare, and other hospices across the country, have been feeling the effects of the recent budget cuts and discussion about curtailing government spending. Over the next ten years we will be seeing significant changes to our reimbursement rates--in fact these cuts have already begun to affect Hospicare.

 

But there is something that can be done to ensure hospice services continue to be available to all in Tompkins County and across the nation. Recently legislators in both the House and Senate have reintroduced the Hospice Evaluation and Legitimate Payment (HELP) Act.

 

"Our priority is two-fold with the HELP Act," says New York Representative Tom Reed, one of the co-sponsors in the House, "to make sure [hospices] are able to keep their doors open and ensure our loved ones are provided with the same high-quality care patients and families depend on."

 

The National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization has created a petition, asking senators to co-sponsor the HELP Act. Help the act gain momentum by signing the petition to your senators asking them to support the act today.

 

 

Positive Responses Can Help Dementia Patients 

There are many forms of dementia that can affect people at the end of life. Often this type of disease can be disrupting and painful for family members as they struggle to communicate with their loved one. One tactic that can be very helpful in relating to dementia patients is to offer a positive response no matter how the conversation unfolds.

 

Hospice and Community Care offers these helpful suggestions for making someone feel special even when conversation has become difficult because of dementia issues.

 

Consider using the following "I care" statements:

  • This is so relaxing, sitting here with you.
  • I enjoy your company so much.
  • That's great advice; I'll have to use that.
To read more, click here.

Ride Around Seneca Lake  
American Legion to Benefit Hospicare 

 

American Legion 221 in Ithaca will be sponsoring a motorcycle ride June 8 to benefit Hospicare! These wonderful people have made all the preparations for an enjoyable day in Lake Country, and now they are looking for riders to participate. There is no preregistration.

The ride will begin at 9:30 a.m. at the American Legion Post, 1231 Danby Road, and proceed around Seneca Lake. Afterwards there will be a chicken barbeque at the American Legion. Their goal is to raise $2,000 so they can purchase a new bed for the Hospicare residence.

The cost to participate is minimal:

$15 per rider
$10 per passenger

Riders & passengers get a half-price chicken dinner afterwards for $4.00 each.

All proceeds from the ride, BBQ and raffles benefit Hospicare.
For more information contact the American Legion at 607-272-1129.

Save the Dates!

  • Women Singin': 6/4, 5:30-7:00 p.m. 
  • Evening Bereavement Support Group: 6/5 & 6/19, 5:30-7:00 PM
  • Tuesday Lunch Group: 6/11, Noon 
  • Wednesday Breakfast Group: 6/26, 8:30 AM
  • Women Swimmin' Boater Registration: on-going through July 31 
  • Illuminations: 6/6, 7:30 p.m.
  • How Men Grieve: 6/13, 6:00-8:00 p.m. For men only.    
  • Hospicare's 30th Anniversary Celebration: 11/8, 6:00-9:00 p.m.   

For more information on any of the above groups or events, please call 607-272-0212, or visit our Events page to download a PDF of our current calendar.

Our mission is to bring medical expertise and compassionate, respectful care to people and their loved ones at any stage of a life-threatening illness, and to provide information and education about advanced illness, dying and bereavement to the entire community.
In This Issue
Hospicare Mugs
Men's Grief Group
HELP Act
Seneca Lake Ride
Save the Dates
In the News
Websites of Interest
Support Our Mission
In the News

Rep. Tom Reed Supports Hospice HELP Act
New York Rep. Reed leads the fight to ensure payment reform does not harm hospices.

The Dying Need an Attentive Ear
A hospice volunteer writes about the patients he's known.

Susan Sontag, William F. Buckley, Jr. and Care at the End of Life

Do Baby Boomers have a different attitude toward medical intervention at the end of life? 

 

Bedside Manner: Conversations With Patients About Death
On NPR, doctors discuss the difficulties of talking with patients about their impending deaths.  
Websites of Interest

This website offers helpful information about medical tests that patients and physicians should discuss before having done. 

A selection of youtube videos featuring hospice patients, volunteers and staff who speak about their experiences with hospice. 

Prague Charter
The European Association for Palliative Care urges world governments to acknowledge access to palliative care as a human right. Sign their petition.
Donate
Help terminally ill people spend the end of their lives peacefully and without pain.

Our Wish List
Items to make patients and their families more comfortable.

Women Swimmin'
Visit our Women Swimmin' website: see how much we've raised so far and support a swimmer.

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