Or Chadash Newsletter
 December 2012
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Yahrzeits
25th Anniversary Donations
Rabbi's Message
President's Message
Student Cantor's Message
Important Upcoming Dates
Hanukkah Gift Shop
Hanukkah Celebration Sunday, December 9
Hanukkah Celebration Continues, Friday December 14
Our New Eternal Light
Hanukkah Resources
Ner Shel Tzeddakah
In Our Community
Visit to Lower East Side
Super Sunday
Jewish Life Series
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Volunteers Needed for
Or Chadash Chesed (Caring) Community
Dear OC Friends,

For many months now, members of the Or Chadash Chesed (Caring) Community have been doing a tremendous mitzvah by delivering challah and homemade soup to our longtime congregant, who after many years of active participation in our congregation is now helped at home by full-time caregivers. Her daughter, who lives in California and visits monthly, reports that the comfort food we are providing -- along with occasional musical visits from Student Cantor Kathy Gohr and pet therapy visits from the Weils -- have been enormously helpful for her wellbeing. I'd like to invite other congregants to participate in this mitzvah. Details on the food and delivery are below.
 
If you'd like to participate, please use your email to sign up on the Volunteerspot.com calendar, which has assignments every two weeks through February. There are still several weeks open. You sign up with your email and you will get reminders in advance of your delivery date.
 
Just click here to sign up on VolunteerSpot. (As an alternative, I can sign up on the calendar for you. Call 908-574-5041 or email hannclan@comcast.net.)
 
Food and Delivery Details
If you haven't done this before, here's what we do: We provide a sliced challah (homemade or store bought) in a freezer bag. If it's not too much trouble to send 2 challahs, all the better.
We also provide 3 quarts of homemade soup, divided up into 2-cup servings in six freezable containers (try to avoid larger containers). Soup ideas: chicken (no noodles), butternut squash, minestrone, lentil, split pea, vegetable.
 
For information on where to deliver, please contact me or Rabbi Forman.
 
Please also let me know if you are aware of any other congregants who we could reach out to to benefit from our services.
 
Peace,
Leslie Werstein Hann
OC Chesed (Caring) Community
OC In the News
Click here to read how the Hunterdon Interfaith Outreach Council (of which Or Chadash is a participant) helped raise $42,000 for Family Promise.  Rabbi Forman's Discretionary Fund regularly contributes to assist this organization and supports the work of Family Promise, as well.  Please consider a gift of your own during this holiday season.

Shabbat and Holiday 

Service Schedule

Shabbat Window 
December 7: 7:30 PM Shabbat Torah Service  - The Talmud, The Maccabees and the Real Meaning of Hanukkah
December 14: 7:00 PM Shabbat Family Service in the Round with 4th, 5th and 6th Grade Participation. Everyone welcome. Dedication of our new Eternal Light.
December 21: 7:30 PM Shabbat Experience
December 28: No Service at Or Chadash
Donations

Hurricane Sandy Relief 

Myles & Caryn Albert

Steve & Susan Albert

Kurt & Susan Blaicher

George Eckelmann & Jane Engel

Chris & Leslie Hann

James & Stephanie Kassanoff

Christine Kershaw

Mark Kertsman

Alan Marrus

Fred Nover

Nisim & Alexa Parliyan

Charles Roth

Robert & Alice Schwade

Paul & Maureen Weiner

Gary & Debbie Weiss

 

We would like to thank all of those who donated the requested items directly as well. 

 

High Holy Days
Martin Segal

25th Anniversary
Larry & Beatrice Abrams
Ira & Estelle Breines
Darren & Elizabeth Loew
Paul & Meredith Weil

yahrzeit photo

Upcoming Yahrzeits

May the memories of the following individuals be for a blessing:

December 7 
Sheila Fisher-Cohen 
cousin of Gary Brodsky  
Bessie Kenyon 
grandmother of Susan Albert  
Edward Kurlansik 
father of Jack Kurlansik  
Shirley Levine 
mother of Dan Levine  
Irving Safier 
father of Cindy Lehrer  
 
December 14 
Marilyn Altshuler 
mother of Neil Altshuler  
Sylvia Borgman 
mother of Estelle Breines  
Harry Breines 
father of Ira Breines  
Esther Fish 
grandmother of Rabbi Joseph M. Forman  
Joseph M. Fish 
grandfather of Rabbi Joseph M. Forman  
Ken Kimberley 
friend of Sherrie Mazzocchi  
James Mazzocchi 
father in law of Sherrie Mazzocchi  
Isadore Suchow 
father-in-law of Hilda Suchow   
Steven D. Weinstein 
brother of Susan Albert  

December 21
Judith Scheinberg
mother of Annette Kahle
Anna Suchow
mother-in-law of Hilda Suchow 

December 28
Harry Hackel
father of Audrey Hackel 
Mary Landberg
mother of Dena Tocci
Anne Lerner
grandmother of Liz Tracey
Esther Senator-Gross
grandmother of Laura Senator
Florence Wolf Spitzberg Leonard
grandmother of Jim Kassanoff
Sylvia Wasserman
loved one of Shelly Weller
Albert Winter
loved one of the Mahalick Family 

January 11
Samuel Alpert
father of Evelyn Hersch
Morris Fetner
uncle of Bruce Zalaznick
Joseph Sandler
father of Jeff Sandler

January 18 
Suzanne Bacal 
sister of Jane Stein 
Hannah Blumenfeld 
mother of Ray Blumenfeld 
Frieda Eisler 
mother of Connie Smith 

25th Anniversary Donations
Or Chadash gratefully acknowledges the generous donations to the 25th Anniversary Fund received to date from:

Larry & Beatrice Abrams
Ira & Estelle Breines
Jeff & Christine Berg  
Jeffrey D. Charney  
Rabbi Joseph M. Forman
Darren & Elizabeth Loew
Stephen & Diana Propper
Paul & Meredith Weil  
Gary & Deb Weiss
Bruce & Betsy Zalaznick

Rabbi's Message

JMFWhat is the meaning of Hanukkah? There are many answers. Some are filled with the myths that entertain children; some are scholarly treatises on the history of the Greco-Assyrians and the Kingdom of Judea. No matter the comprehensiveness of the answer, every year I am asked by adults and children if the oil really lasted for eight days.

 

I have been discussing the real meaning of Hanukkah with our religious school students and wanted to share what they have been learning with our entire congregation. Rabbi Hara Person, the editor of the URJ Press, has written a wonderful synopsis of this topic. I share it with you in its entirety below.

 

Shalom and Chag Hanukkat Sameach,

Rabbi Joseph M. Forman

 

Will the Real Hanukah Please Stand Up

Hara Person

 

Hanukah can be a confusing holiday. There are two basic versions of the story of Hanukah, at opposite ends of the spectrum. There is the nice kid's story about brave heroes, miracles, good guys and bad guys.

 

And from the history books, there is a story that involves violence, warfare, Jew fighting against Jew, and lots of ugly politics. So what do these two stories have to do with each other? What is the real story of Hanukah?

 

Click here to read the entire article.

President's Message
Jeff Berg Dear members of Or Chadash,

While this November has been a stressful month for many in our community, I want to thank everyone who contributed to our recent goods drive for the benefit of those suffering from loss from Hurricane Sandy - and thank Rabbi Forman for bringing this project to our attention and Betsy Zalaznick for all her help in organizing and communicating this to our community.  In addition to contributions from our own members, we received many donations from those in our community who also felt a desire to help those in need.
 
In total, as a result of  a grass-roots effort that began only one week before distribution, almost three thousand dollars worth of baby products and cleaning supplies were delivered to Temple Shalom, Aberdeen Township, a redistribution site for affected Bayshore Communities.   Many members participated in our kick off meeting and helped solicit contributions but I would like to especially thank our shoppers - Cheryl Lifshitz and Caryn Tomljanovich - and our drivers - Beth Golden and Steve Sinoway and Cindy and Shayna Lehrer - for going the extra mile.  As a community, we should take pride in our actions to help our fellow New Jerseyans in need.
 
The needs of our community don't end there, though. On a happier note, Hanukkah is just around the corner and with it brings our tradition of Ner Shel Tzeddakah, Candle of Righteousness, where on the 6th night, instead of exchanging gifts, we donate the cost of gifts that day to a charitable organization.   This year we will be supporting the Sand Hill Youth Home and hopefully bringing some real joy into the lives of the children that live there.  Look below in the Ner Shel Tzeddakah section for more information on how you can help.
 
Wishing you and your family and early Chag Sameach.

Jeff Berg
President
Student Cantor's Message
Kathy Gohr I always love the first snowfall of the season. It brings with it a
sense of quiet calmness, almost as if the earth is going to sleep under
a downy cover of white.  Watching the big, wet flakes float down in the
night sky reminds me that the seasons are changing, heralding in a time
of shortened days and long, dark nights. My dogs have mixed reactions to this frozen form of precipitation. One of them is less than thrilled while the other two frolic together in the yard, scooping up mouthfuls of the stuff as they chase each other, kicking up showers of white in
their wake.
 
How fitting it is that as we enter our season of darkness we look forward to our Festival of Light, Chanukah, for it is in darkness that the presence of light becomes most apparent.  Next Saturday night as we kindle the first candle of our chanukiah, that one tiny flame will pierce through the darkness with a power reminiscent of the miracle of the rededication of The Holy Temple. We will retell the signs and
wonders of old as we gather with family and friends exchanging gifts, playing dreidl and eating our fill of "la-la-la-la-la-la-latkes."  But underneath all of the feasts and festivities the wonder still remains, reflected in the glow of the candles. Each night as the light grows brighter and brighter, so does our sense of awe, eventually growing
bright enough to dispel even the darkest of darkness in the world. This year may the light of Chanukah shine bright within your hearts, and may it sustain you throughout the coming year.

I invite you to join with us on Sunday morning, December 9th, at 11am and Friday night, December 14th, at 7pm as we gather as a congregation to celebrate.  On Friday night our 4th, 5th and 6th grade classes will be participating in services. There will be music and merriment with more than enough light to chase off the winter chill. There will be
latkes galore with all the trimmings.  I look forward to seeing all of you!

Bles-sings,
Kathy
Important Dates to Remember
Sunday, December 9 at 11 AM - Religious School followed by Hanukkah Celebration with Menorah Making, Edible Dreidles and Sufganiyot. Parents are encouraged to join us.

Sunday, December 9 at 10:30 AM - Temple Tots - A Hanukkah Celebration - Please note NEW TIME AND DATE.  Click here to let us know you're coming!

Tuesday, December 11 at 7:30 PM - Step Up For Israel Film Series - Film #3 Israel and the West.  Guest Moderator: Rabbi Jeff Salkin from the NJ office of the Anti Defamation League.
   
Friday, December 14 at 7 PM - Hanukkah Service-in-the-Round and dedication of our new Ner Tamid - Eternal Light.  Everyone is encouraged to join us.  4th, 5th and 6th grade participation.  Bring your menorah - especially if you made it yourself!  We will have lots of Latkas, too.  Please consider making a few dozen to share during our Hanukkah Feast following the service.

Haunkkah Gift Shop
MenorahPlease stop by our
Hanukkah Gift Shop!
 
Thursdays, December 6, 13
Sunday, December 9


Are you planning on visiting your child's classroom during Hanukkah to introduce his/her classmates to the holiday? We have a large selection of small plastic dreidels for just this purpose.
 
Do you also need gelt for your classroom visit? Gelt is $1 a bag (with 4 pieces/bag).

 

Sunday, December 9 Hanukkah Celebration
Our Sunday Hanukkah celebration includes a songfest led by our Religious school students and Student Cantor Kathy Gohr, latkes, arts and crafts including edible dreidels, origami dreidels, make your own menorah and more!

Our Hanukkah celebration begins at 11:00 AM. Parents, please remember to be at the synagogue no later than 12 NOON to be with your child.

* Remember to bring a food item or supermarket gift card to support the Flemington Food Pantry.

**The Brotherhood will once again be cooking up latkes. If you are interested in helping, please contact Darren Loew   
PLEASE NOTE: Religious School will be held on Sunday, December 16th at our typical times (9:00 AM for our 3rd and 4th graders, and 10:15 AM for our K & 1st and 2nd graders.) 

 

Friday Night, December 14 Hanukkah Celebration

Service, Ner Tamid (Eternal Light) Dedication and Oneg


Hanukkah Window7:00 PM (note the service time) We will gather as a community to light menorahs for Hanukkah and enjoy the sounds of Shir Chadash, our community choir led by Student Cantor Kathy Gohr, and dedicate our new Ner Tamid - our Eternal Light.
 

Our 4th, 5th, and 6th grades will lead us in the blessings of the Hanukkah and Shabbat candles. Don't forget to bring your Hanukkah menorahs! Everyone is encouraged to attend this very special Hanukkah Shabbat service.

 

During the service we will dedicate our new Ner Tamid (Eternal Light). LatkeAfter services we will have a special celebratory oneg with latkes and special Hanukkah desserts - make your own sufganiyot - jelly donuts. 


We need LOTS OF LATKES!!!!


Do you like to make latkes? Frozen?
Sweet potato? Zucchini? Pureed? Shredded? With onions? Gluten Free? We like ALL kinds. We need Lots of Latkes!
 

Please contact Cindy Stoter and tell her that you will bring 3 dozen latkes. Thanks for your help.

Dedication of Our New Ner Tamid - The Eternal Light
Ner TamidA Bit of History
The Torah portion Tetzaveh describes the kindling of the lamps in the Tent of Meeting, which accompanied our ancestors through the wilderness experience. The words Ner Tamid are used together in Exodus 27:20 but do not translate correctly as "the eternal light" which we find in every Jewish sanctuary throughout the Western world today. Instead, in this case the words tell us that the lamps were to be kindled regularly. This common error reflects humorously on the story of a rabbi who was giving a tour of the synagogue sanctuary to a group of children, one of whom approached the rabbi after the session to say the she really enjoyed the part about the internal light. Unlike the translation error, her comment was not a mistake. She had stumbled upon a profound truth. The most powerful light is the one that we find within, the one that represents the spark of the Divine in every human being who was created in the image of God. Our Jewish obligation is to be in touch with our internal light regularly!

This beautiful Ner Tamid is given by Susan Ingram in memory of her parents, Edwin J and Janet S. Loewy, who were dedicated to synagogue life, founders of Nassau Community Temple in West Hempstead, New York and active leaders and regular devoted worshippers. 

The Artist Claude Reidel
Claude Riedel has been  designing and creating stained glass windows and sculptures for the past 30 years.  He has works in hospitals, nursing homes and private residences. Over the past 20 years he has gradually concentrated his efforts on creating cermonial art for synagogues, and now specializes in making Ner Tamids.  His designs keep the focus on  "the light of God"" and its refracting, shimmering, infinite layers of energy. Everything in his work is meant to celebrate  and enhance the light of the eternal. 

"All the elements of my pieces are hand made and unique.  The chain is my own design and cut for me. I often intersperse pieces of  glass or crystal in parts of the chain to 'lighten' the weighty feel.

The metalwork is usually solder with a copper patina.  This darkens slowly over time. I add my own special texture to the metalwork. 

My pieces combine ancient forms (the shape and texture of the metal work) and the soft, naturalistic and expressive line and texture of the glass shapes.

I use multiple layers of only clear glass to  capture the purity, perfection, wholeness and infinite radiance of the eternal spirit.

The arms represent the three major functions of the synagogue as a House of Assembly, a House of Prayer, and a House of Study.  They also symbolize the three pillars which sustain the world:  Torah (Sacred Study), Avodah (Divine Service), and Gemilut Chasadim (Deeds of Lovingkindness); or, as otherwise formulated:  Emet (Truth), Din (True Judgment/Justice), and Shalom (Peace).

I am inspired by the Kabbalistic description of the source of light (God) as radiating from a "primary mystic center"  in ever expanding layers of radiant translucence.  I feel comforted by the permenance of the "source" and inspired by the ever expanding facets of that light as it shines on and fills us all.  In the telling of the 16th century Kabbalist, Isaac Luria, God created the world : "By forming vessels of light to hold the Divine Light.  But as God poured the Light into the vessels, they catestropically shattered, tumbling down toward the realm of matter.  Thus, our world consists of countless shards of the original vessels entrapping sparks of the Divine Light." Tikun Olam releases that energy into our world.

My own history resonates with these images as my Grandfather was taken away to Buchenwald on the Night of Broken Glass-Kristalnacht-and my work is an effort to take some of those shards and make them into something whole and holy.

The light of creation radiates in ever expanding layers from the central souce, just as your Ner Tamid moves from the outer arms of "shattered glass, to a middle layer of biblical  fig leaves rimmed with energy which then hold  the central  "flame"  of the eternal light.

In your prayers and meditation let the comfort of the eternal light remind and inspire you to light  and tend to the Ner Tamid in your own heart: bringing light to darkness, generation to generation, to openness instead of concealment, to study rather than blind faith, to clarity versus mystery.  May each of us be in touch with our own internal Devine light and share it with the world in peace.  
 
Sincerely,  Claude Riedel
 
Hanukkah Resources
Ner Shel Tzeddakah
As part of our 25th Anniversary Commemoration, we have been asking everyone to catalog their mitzvahs with a goal of reaching 25,000.  While we all can find lots of opportunities daily to perform mitzvot, the 25th Anniversary Committee, together with the Social Action Committee, believes that as congregation, we can pull together to perform a congregation-wide mitzvah to create a really big impact.
 
Similar to years past, we have reached out to our community - this year Hunterdon Youth Services, more affectionately known as the Sand Hill Youth Home in Raritan Township - to help make the holidays special.  As most everyone knows, the Reform movement has created a tradition of not exchanging gifts on the 6th day of Hanukkah known as Ner Shel Tzeddakah, Candle of Righteousness.  On the 6th night, instead of exchanging gifts, we donate the cost of gifts that day to a charitable organization.  
 
If we join together with a common goal to support one charity, we know the difference we can make.  Our congregation has a history of making big impacts like our most recent baby and cleaning supplies drive to benefit those in need of a hand following Hurricane Sandy.  Now for Ner Shel Tzeddakah, our goal is to pool Or Chadash's collective resources to help allow the children at Hunterdon Youth Services to have a wonderful and bountiful holiday. We are a generous congregation, and together we can make a difference.
 
Please send a donation to OC approximating the value of the gifts that would otherwise be exchanged on the sixth night of Hanukkah.  We will provide the donors with a "certificate" to use in lieu of the Hanukkah gift for that night.  Whatever you give will help those in need and make them feel a part of the community.   

We hope you will click here (need new wufoo form) to participate in Ner Shel Tzedakkah! Thanks in advance.

Tikkun Olam - Social Action
Lo Alecha Hebrew
It is not incumbent upon us to complete the work, still, we are not permitted to abstain from it.
Pirke Avot 2:16 

In Our Community

Refuah Sh'leima (Get well) to... 
Seth Parkoff, brother in law of Leslie Hann
Eileen Berkelhammer
Raoul Rabiner, father of Betsy Zalaznick
Pat Wolf, mother of Leslie Hann
Evelyne Hersch
Don Corey, father of Faith Fuhrman

Condolences to...
Joseph and Carolyn Sansevere and their children Matt, Robbie and Megan, on the death of their father, father-in-law and grandfather, Michael Sansevere.
 
Todah Rabbah...
Susan Ingram for her generous gift of a new Ner Tamid for our Sanctuary.

Max Altshuler, Michael Harvey, Lyra Tomljanovich, Amy Rosen and their families for ushering at the Saturday morning, December 1 service.

Max Altshuler, Lyra Tomljanovich , Sam Weiss and their families for ushering at the Friday, December 14 service.

Brenna and Samantha Kahle and their family for ushering at the Friday, December 21 service.

Religious School teachers Andrea Weinberg and Kate Metelitsa for leading their classes and sharing activities at the November family service.

Amara Willey for hosting the photography organizing workshop in November.

Dr. Tulsi R. Maharjan from the Rotary Club of Branchburg who spoke to our 5/6/7 grade students.  And also thanks to member Galia Barlow for making this connection for us.

Shelly Weller for once again acting as our master baker and helping our 8/9/10 grade students bake challah.

  

In order to help us be a more caring community, please share your lifecycle events with Rabbi Forman

 

Feel free to click on a hyperlink to send a note and let someone know you are thinking about them.

 

Did you miss this....

November Temple Tots

 

     Trip to the Lower East Side NYC.

 

Jason Podgorski - Bar Mitzvah

Jason Podgorski became a Bar Mitzvah on December 1.  He is the son of Carolyn and Ed Podgorski and younger brother of Rachel Podgorski. Jason is in the seventh grade at Readington Middle School.  He enjoys playing baseball, basketball, and golf.  Jason's Mitzvah project was playing sports with the kids in the Hunterdon Outreach Program.  Jason's Torah portion, Vayishlach, tells the story of Jacobs' name being changed to Israel.  Jason enjoyed celebrating his Bar Mitzvah with his family.  

Super Sunday is Coming on December 9
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Lifelong Learning
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JCC Place to Be

 

 

 

 

Step Up For Israel Film Series: Israel & The West, Tuesday, December 11 at 7:30 p.m., hosted by Or Chadash, Flemington. Discover Israel as a democratic nation with shared Western values, and learn how the media shapes negative opinions about Israel.  All are welcome...free admission.
 
Iris Krasnow will be the featured Jewish LIFE speaker on Wednesday, January 9 at 12 Noon. New York Times best-selling author Iris Krasnow will discuss her book The Secret Lives of Wives ,a composite of 200 interviews conducted with women married from 15 to 70 years.  This program is hosted by the Shimon and Sara Birnbaum JCC in Bridgewater and includes brunch.  The fee is $18/person in advance or $22/person at the door.  This program is co-sponsored by The Brandeis National Committee Somerset Chapter; Temple Beth El, Somerset Sisterhood; Temple Sholom Sisterhood. Call the JCC to register at 908-725-6994 x201.
 
Simcha Weinstein, The Case for Children:  Why Parenthood Makes Your World Better, Thursday, January 17, 7 p.m. at the Birnbaum JCC.   The best-selling author will discuss the benefits that parenthood brings to individuals and society and how parenthood makes your world  physically, materially and spiritually better. The fee for the program is $8/person in advance or $10/person at the door.  Call the JCC to register at 908-725-6994 x201.
 
A complete listing of Jewish LIFE special events and synagogue course offering for the 2012-2013 calendar year is posted on the JCC website:  www.ssbjcc.org   

Jewish Family Services

Jewish Family ServicesJFS is a non-profit, non-sectarian social service agency whose mission is to preserve and strengthen the quality of individual, family and community life based on Jewish values. We provide our services to a diverse socio-economic client population that includes individuals, children, young adults, families and the elderly.


 Click here for information on additional services.