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For the Week of January 17-24
Vol. 9, Issue 2
When the Past Holds You Back

"The good old days."

 

How many times have you heard that phrase? Perhaps you've even uttered it when reminiscing with friends or family. You remember the summers gone by when you would play in the pool or run around the block with your friends. You remember the delightful Christmases when the Christmas tree was dwarfed by the pile of Christmas presents. Movies were better. Homework was easier. Church sermons were deeper. People had morals. The world was safer. And on and on we could easily go about the good old days because it's so easy to slip on the rose-colored glasses and gaze wistfully in the past, especially when the present seems tough, daunting, scary and not at all what we expected. 

 

When we take the glasses off - if we ever do - we start to realize that the world really hasn't changed that much. We've colored the past with beautiful colors and conveniently painted over the dark stuff. We retain the good memories and repress the bad ones. As a result, our past becomes warped and distorted the more we tinker with it. 

 

The danger comes when we begin to believe that the distorted, idealized past actually existed and is a factual reality. This danger isn't relegated to us in today's 2013 America. It's been happening for centuries, ever since humankind began living.

 

I came across an example of this in Numbers 16:13. Here in this passage, Moses' leadership is being challenged by a priest named Korah and his followers. In response, Moses summons two priests named Dathan and Abiram in order to oppose Korah. Their response is found in Numbers 16:13-14, "We will not come! Isn't it enough that you have brought us up out of a land flowing with milk and honey to kill us in the desert? ... Moreover, you haven't brought us into a land flowing with milk and honey or given us an inheritance of fields and vineyards."  

 

This is a stunning distortion of the past. Thanks to Dathan and Abiram's rose-colored glasses and dissatisfaction with being in the desert, Egypt, the country responsible for the imprisonment, slavery and abuse of the Hebrews for hundreds of years, the reason for the Exodus of the Israelites to the Promised Land, has now been transformed into paradise, a land "flowing with milk and honey," a phrase only reserved for the Promised Land, where God was taking the Israelites to. This is a ludicrous retelling of Israel's past.

 

Dathan and Abiram couldn't see the future. They couldn't see past the present discomfort and latch on God's promise to get them into a good land in the future. Their rewriting of history had allowed them to gloss over a dark part of Israel's past, not to mention THEIR OWN enslavement. The days of living in Egypt became "the good old days." 

 

For their short-sightedness and their distorted view of the past as well as their opposition to Moses as a leader, they were literally swallowed up by the earth along with their households and their family line stopped there.

 

While we may not be swallowed up by the earth by having an unhealthy view of the past, our insistence of living in the past, whether true or rewritten, can certainly swallow us up, preventing us from getting to the future that God is guiding us to. The future God is guiding us to is always, and I mean always, better than what we've experienced in the past. It may be difficult at times; it may be daunting, but God promises us that at the end of all things, He will be with us through it all, give us what we need when we need it, and will bring us to the Promised Land, a land flowing with milk and honey. That's a future worth living in. 

 

- Matt 

Southwest Job Networking Group
Looking for more help in your job search?

Learn how to look for a job in this economy, find out tips on forming a resume, and spend quality time networking with others with this networking group!

Bill Moore, president of PacMoore, will be our featured speaker and job coach for our next session! You will not want to miss this!  

 

Our next meeting will be TONIGHT, Thursday, January 17 at 7 p.m. in room 252. If you have one, be sure to bring several copies of your resume with you. We will also have prayer warriors available for those who have needs. Any questions, contact Earl Vander Wall at earl@calvaryop.org.

  

Be sure to check us out on LinkedIn here!  

Love in Action
We're helping the homeless

On Saturday, January 19 at 7 p.m., we will once again be sending out Love in Action teams! We'll leave from Calvary and return at 10 p.m. Vans will be used to help transport supplies and people. Please contact Pastor Ron at ron@calvaryop.org if you'd like to participate.

NEEDED For the Homeless: Blankets, scarves, gloves, men's jackets Size XL and XXL. ALL donations can be used. Your kindness is much appreciated! 
Tuesday Evening Girlfriends Bible Study
Come and join us!

On Tuesday, January 22 at 7 p.m. we will begin a new seven-week Bible Study featuring Beth Moore, Priscilla Shirer, and Kay Arthur called Faithful, Abundant, and True. You guessed it! It's all about our Wonderful God! 

Besides the usual Beth Moore workbook lessons, we will have a weekly video, and a time of sharing and praying for one another. Come and join us!

The cost is $20. For sign up or questions send Sally Reeves an e-mail at  sally22@comcast.net.  
Girlfriends Flicker Chicks
Want to share in your love of movies?

Come enjoy a fun girls night in right here at Calvary Church! In January we will be screening Mirror, Mirror on Saturday, January 26 at 5 p.m. in room 212. Bring a friend and your favorite snack. Questions? Contact Luz at 773-299-5623 or luzl@calvaryop.org.
Want to Join Calvary?!
Our new members classes are starting soon!

Are you interested in becoming a member at Calvary? Or maybe you just would like to know more about Calvary? Join us at our new members classes! Classes will be held on the following Sundays: February 24, March 3 and 10 in Room 241 (the big conference room upstairs) at 9:30 a.m. For questions and more information, please contact Earl Vander Wall at earl@calvaryop.org or (708) 429-2200 x14.
 
4th Sunday Family Worship Revised for 2013!
We're tweaking our 4th Family Sunday schedule...

The Worship Team, Youth Pastor, and KidsLife Ministries is praying over our families and seeking more relevant ways to worship as a church family and teach our youth the meaning of "big church" and how they can begin to serve their church family. For 2013, 4th Sunday Family Worship will be quarterly, NOT monthly. Both the children and youth will be very involved in the 9:30 and 11 a.m. worship services. Please mark your calendars for the following "Family Worship" Sundays:
March 24, Palm Sunday; June 30, VBS Sunday; September 29; and December 29. Questions? Contact Tiffany at children@calvaryop.org.  
VBS Save the Date!
We're unveiling the VBS dates!

The 2013 VBS Team would like to announce the date for this year's VBS! Kids and volunteers, mark your calendars for the 4th week in June! VBS will be held on June 24-28 from 9 a.m. - 12 p.m. June 30th will be VBS Sunday. Spread the word! Questions? Contact Tiffany at children@calvaryop.org.  

Local Community News

Andrew High School Orchesis Dance Company Presents "Let's Go to the Movies!"

On February 7th and 8th, the Andrew High School Orchesis Dance Company will be presenting their annual show! The company performs all styles including tap, ballet, jazz, hip hop, and contemporary.

 

It is the company's goal this year to sell out the show! This year marks a very special year because it will mark four years since the formation of the company. This means that selected seniors will be the first generation of girls to have committed all four years of their high school career to the company. Melanie Standish, one of Calvary's volunteers, is one of the seniors!

 

Once again, the show is February 7th and 8th at 7 p.m. in the Andrew High School Performing Arts Center. Tickets will be sold at the door for $6. In addition $1 from each ticket will go towards the Daybreak Center in Joliet. This organization aides families in need and provides shelter to the homeless. Andrew High School is located at 9001 W. 171st Street in Tinley Park, Illinois.

 

Hope to see you there!

  

Southwest Chicago Christian Schools News

Parents' Meetings  

Southwest Chicago Christian Schools has begun planning for the 2013/2014 school year! The following informational meetings will be held:

  • Thursday, January 17, 7pm - Oak Lawn Campus for prospective kindergarteners and their parents
  • Thursday, January 17, 7pm - Tinley Park Campus for prospective kindergarten parents

If you have a child who will be 5 on or before September 1, 2013 we invite you to attend. Application materials will be available that evening or by calling the Association Office at 708/388-7656.

  

Pancake Breakfast

Southwest Chicago Christian Schools is sponsoring its annual Pancake Breakfast on Saturday, February 2, at the Oak Lawn campus, from 7-10 am.  The proceeds go to help staff purchase items not covered by the budget. The food will be great, and it is always a great community building time. In addition, the PTL will be sponsoring a Book Fair. The proceeds from the book sale benefit the libraries at the Oak Lawn AND Tinley Park campuses. Mark your calendars and come out to support your schools!

  

Open Houses

The Oak Lawn Campus of Southwest Chicago Christian Schools will host an Open House for interested families and their students on Tuesday, February 5, 6:30 to 8pm. The campus offers Preschool through Grade 8 along with before & after school care. If you know of someone who may be interested in Christian education, please encourage them to attend. The campus is located at 10110 S Central Avenue. For more information call 708/388-7656.

 

The Tinley Park Campus of Southwest Chicago Christian Schools welcomes interested families and their students to an Open House on Thursday, February 7 from 6:30 to 8pm. The Kindergarten - Grade 8 campus also offer after school care. The campus is located at 17171 S 84th Avenue. For further information call 708-388-7656.

  

Roseland Christian School Ultra Foods Fundraiser

Ultra foods is partnering with Roseland Christian School to support our students. They will contribute 5% of your total purchases to the school. Ultra Foods' philosophy has always been to share with others for the good of the whole community. As you plan for your Thanksgiving meal, make sure to do your shopping at Ultra and then send the grocery receipts to us. 

  

Here is how it works: Shop for your weekly groceries and save all your Ultra Foods register receipts. Then submit the receipts to RCS once a month. RCS will group your receipts with others and submit them to Ultra Foods before February 15, 2013. This offer is valid at all Ultra Foods locations! For more information, go here

 

Eat Out For Elim!
Bring your appetites to the 3rd annual Eat Out for Elim fundraiser at Country House Restaurant, located at 5400 W. 127th Street in Alsip, Illinois! From 3-9 pm on Monday, January 21, anyone can enjoy a great meal at the restaurant or carry out their food, all of it benefitting Elim's children and adults with disabilities. And it doesn't stop there - we will receive 40% of the proceeds to support our children and adults! So come on out and tell your family and friends about the Eat Out for Elim night at Country House Restaurant!

Moraine Valley Church's Men's Conference

Moraine Valley Church located in Palos Heights IL is designated as the host church in the south western suburbs for the "NO REGRETS MEN'S CONFERENCE" Saturday February 2, 2013. Last year this conference hosted over 300 men at Moraine Valley Church and we are expecting considerable more this year!

  

The No Regrets Conference is a single day men's conference which happens on the first Saturday of February. The conference consists of two general sessions in the morning and afternoon with key profile speakers. The general sessions feature a time of exciting worship sponsored by Harvest Bible Chapel, testimony time and a keynote address. In the middle of the day, we will have live feeds and local speakers from surrounding churches dealing with key topics men need to hear on being transformed. We had numerous men tell us that last year's conference had a huge impact in their lives. We are praying for a repeat this year.

  

The No Regrets Conference starts at 8:30am and ends at 4:00pm, lunch is provided with the individual ticket price of $25. Tickets may be secured on line via morainevalleychurch.org. If you need more information or have additional questions please feel free to contact Steve Gemeiner at 708-921-9833 or contact our church office. We look forward to seeing you at the Men's conference this year February 2!

In This Issue
Southwest Job Networking Group
Parents' Night Out
Love in Action
Girlfriends' Bible Study
Reggie McNeal Seminar
Girlfriends Flicker Chicks
New Members Class
4th Sunday Family Worship News
VBS Save the Date
Art of Marriage Conference
Local Community News
What's the What
This Week @ Calvary!

 

THURSDAY (1/17):

- 7:00 a.m.  Men's Barnabas Bible Study

- 1:00 p.m.  Men's Bible Study

- 6:00 p.m.  Praise Band Rehearsal

- 6:00 p.m.  Girls' Biddy Basketball

- 7:00 p.m.  Stephen Ministry

- 7:00 p.m.  Job Networking Group  

- 7:15 p.m.  Girls' Junior Basketball

  

FRIDAY (1/18):

- 2-9 p.m.  Stitch 'n Time & Sassy Scrapbookers

- 5:30 p.m.  Parents' Night Out 

- 6:30 p.m.  Lit 'n Latte (offsite)  

  

SATURDAY (1/19): 

- 5:00 p.m.  New Hope Fellowship Service


SUNDAY (1/20):

- 8:00 a.m.  Worship Service
- 9:30 a.m.  Worship Service
- 9:30 & 11 a.m.  The Loft Sunday School
- 9:30 a.m.  CrossTraining
- 11:00 a.m.  Worship Service
- 6:30 p.m.  Jr./Sr. High Youth Group 

 

MONDAY (1/21):  

- 7:00 p.m.  Girlfriends Bible Study 

- 7:00 p.m.  New Hope  

    

TUESDAY (1/22):

- 6:00 p.m.  Praise Band Rehearsal

- 7:00 p.m.  People God Chose Bible Study

- 7:00 p.m.  Girlfriends Bible Study 

- 7:00 p.m.  Grief Share 

  

WEDNESDAY (1/23):

- 9:30 p.m.  Coffee Break Bible Study

- 6:30 p.m.  GEMS

- 6:30 p.m.  The Hangout 

- 7:00 p.m.  Choir Rehearsal 

 

THURSDAY (1/24):

- 7:00 a.m.  Men's Barnabas Bible Study

- 1:00 p.m.  Men's Bible Study

- 6:00 p.m.  Praise Band Rehearsal

- 6:00 p.m.  Girls' Biddy Basketball

- 7:15 p.m.  Girls' Junior Basketball

  

FRIDAY (1/25):

- 9:00 a.m.  MOPS & More

  

SATURDAY (1/26): 

- 9:00 a.m.  Reggie McNeal Conference 

- 5:00 p.m.  New Hope Fellowship Service 

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January Articles from Chicago Christian Counseling Center

1. ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder): Part I: Some Myth Busters

by Dr. Janet Irvine, Clinical Psychologist LINK 

 

2. To Teens about Teens - An Honest Conversation

by Gregory Rodriguez, MA LCPC LINK 

 

3. Unity (Marriage Tips Series)

by Marilyn Ciaramitaro, MSW, MA, LCSW LINK 

 

4. Coping with Mental Illness in the Family

by Elizabeth Elgersma, MSW LCSW LINK 
Did You Change Anything in 2012?
We would like to take this time to remind you if you are a member of Calvary and have an updated home address or phone / cell number or email address change, PLEASE LET US KNOW! It is important to keep our church records up to date and we rely on YOU to make this possible!

Let us know any changes by calling us at (708) 429-2200 or emailing us at calvary@
calvaryop.org
Looking For a Job?

Resumes, cover letters, networking, social media networks, job search agents, job clubs, career switching. All are terms connected with job searching. Need help with any of these?

 

Call Laura Vande Werken at (708) 633-6580 or email her at selfhelpjobs @sbcglobal.net.

Prayer Opportunities
INTERNET INTERCESSORS:
Would you like a group of faithful people to pray for your concerns and joys? You can send an email directly to our email address at prayer@calvaryop.org and we will pray for you!
Help Us Stock Our Food Pantry!

We ALWAYS have a need to keep our Food Pantry well-stocked. There is a bin in the foyer by the north doors where we accept donations. People are welcome to drop off donated food and items at any time.

 

You can download a full list of what we need to keep the Food Pantry well-stocked here