AGING MATTERS
December 2012
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A Wonderful Benefit for Veteran's and their spouses for assisted living and in-home care 
  
The Aid and Attendance (A&A) Pension provides benefits for veterans and surviving spouses who require the assistance of another person for activities of daily living (ADL's), such as eating, bathing, dressing, transferring and managing medications. It also includes individuals who are blind or because of mental or physical incapacity. Assisted care in an assisting living facility also qualifies. So, how do you know if you can qualify?  Are there financial qualifications?  How long does the process take? Darrell Jeffries, of Pension Consulting Services, answers these questions and others in an interview on The Aging Boomers.  Darrell provides us with a clear understanding of the benefits offered to veterans and their surviving spouses. 
 

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We would be happy to meet with families and their loved ones and answer their questions about assisted living, dementia care and residential care homes.   


Greetings! 

 

Welcome to the December edition of Aging Matters.  I would encourage you to read and share the timely article on observations to make while visiting with parents and other loved ones this holiday season.  

 

You might also be interested in an interview conducted by a colleague that will give you a clear understanding of the benefits available for Veteran's and their spouses.  This important benefit makes it possible for many seniors to get the care they need that otherwise would be unaffordable.

 

As 2012 draws to a close I wish you and your family a most joyous holiday season and a happy and healthy new year!


Warm regards,

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Mary Buszuwski, CSA
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4 Key Observations 

To Make With Parents 

This Holiday Season

 

With the holidays approaching, many have made plans or are making plans to visit with their parents and other loved ones.  Some family members haven't been together for quite awhile, and this is an exciting time of year to celebrate being with one another.  While visiting and enjoying the season, it is also important to recognize the things that may have changed since the last visit.  It is important to observe your parents and their surroundings to determine if they may need additional help living independently.

 

Observation 1 - Changes in Parents

  • Appearance of Home - Does it seem like the home needs more maintenance than usual?  Offering to help with whatever needs to be done around the house will give you a pretty good idea of those things that are not getting done.
  • Weight - Does it seem like they've lost weight or are frailer? 
  • Hearing - If they're giving you answers to questions that don't make sense, they may need their hearing checked by a professional.
  • Medications - Are they taking their medications consistently?  Check to see if medications are organized properly and try to determine if they are taking them in a timely manner.
  • Balance - Does it seem like they are tripping or stumbling frequently, losing their balance? If there appears to be a balance problem, medications or incorrect prescription eyeglasses could be playing a role, so visit the appropriate doctor.
  • Driving -Have your parents drive if you go for a ride and take notice of how they are on the road.
  • Bills - Are they paying their bills?  Has the mail even been opened? Are there over-due notices?

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