Exceptional Horsemanship
November 2013

Exceptional Horsemanship Newsletter


What mental change would it take from you to consider questions like "will my horse come along with me at liberty in a large arena while I'm riding another horse and get up on a stump when I point at it?" And how would I go about getting there?
The more you start thinking differently, the more your horse will too. As you experiment with new ideas, your horse will come up with some doozies and it will fuel you to continue. Curiosity is intellectual hunger. Get hungry!
 
What some folks are saying about my new book "Balky, Balky, I Ain't Goin' " Balky cover that's out. 
Lauren Woodard has done an exceptional job with her new book. Wisdom, humor, good advise, fun and more. Get it!  "Balky, Balky, I Ain't Goin' " is a winner. -- Franklin Levinson
 
Hi Lauren, Just a note to commend you on your book. I got your book today, started to read and couldn't put it down till I finished. So now I am truly motivated to get started again and have yet another tool in my tool box to work on. Can't wait. Wish you we're here! --Lynn Gost
 
Lauren's knowledge is worth every penny, word, cuss word, and OMG moment!! Tenille Ewing
 
Sharon Brunhofer-- I got your book and thought I would read on vacation just next week..it's so killing me to wait till then! Wish you much success with it! 
 
Alison McKee-- I need this book! Took me 40 min. to get my horse over a walk through last weekend. I thought that was a little excessive. LOL! We did have success, I just would like a little faster success. So, I'm sitting on my horse thinking, I need Lauren's book!!! 
 
Just finished Lauren Woodard's latest book - Balky, Balky, I Ain't Goin'. Awesome! Was just going to read a bit and save the rest for later and couldn't put it down. A whole new look at what balky looks and feels like as well as a very doable approach to working through it that anyone can do. And, of course lots of Lauren's humor. Get it on Amazon in book or kindle format. What you'll learn you can easily start to do on your trail ride this weekend! --Diana Gogan, Fire Horse Ranch 
Hope you've jumped to Amazon to get your copy right now!
And... Amazon sent out an email to folks on a list I don't happen to be on. A friend of mine is and forwarded me the email suggesting books for the sports enthusiast and my two books were first and third. Made my day. 
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A shout out to TUCSON. There are a lot of you folks on my website and newsletter. Let me know if several of you want to get together for a workshop or some such. You're just down the road.

This video is for your viewing displeasure. While I KNOW how well and how much horses think and I know many folks think horses don't, it's still amazing to me how people can NOT know their horse or frankly, care. This guy doesn't give a rat's patoot about his horse as the approach to the jump shows. His horse is meerly a vehicle. Word has it the guy was nasty to the horse in the warm-up, too. Obviously, since he and the horse "aren't getting along well". 
video   Let me know what you think.
      
So... Are You Horseman Material????

Oddity: Helping people is tough! Many people want a certain something from their horse, but they're not willing to explore how to get it. In their mind, they want the horse to be this wonderful, fun, safe, understanding, responsive being and yet the person doesn't do what the horse needs to produce this.
If you think slow progress and no progress are fun, that's your call. Staying with what you already know leaves you where you already are. Horses are so much smarter than that and yet folks are fine pretending the horse needs soooooo much time to understand a request. If what you're doing isn't producing good or exceptional results, consider changing. I know... too hard... wrong answer. But, I see people all the time spend unproductive time, sometimes years accomplishing very little. This from people who claim to want something so much different, to ride trail or feel safe and have fun in an arena. But they want to do it their way and their way isn't working well. Many times they don't have the knowledge or skills to get where they want, but they don't want to have anyone else's vast knowledge infringe on them. Ego? No one will EVER know as much from their own trial and error as they will know with a teacher--in anything! I don't see any value in an ego in horsemanship. One of the results folks get the most from this "I want my horse to love me so I'll never ask anything he doesn't already know" approach is: YOU ANNOY THE HORSE BECAUSE SHE'S SO BORED. Learning by definition is stepping into something you don't know. Therefore it will be uncomfortable.  Get comfortable being uncomfortable. When you feel uncomfortable, get excited and think, "Woot, I'm in a learning opportunity!"
Story Time.
I work with a horse whose owner has a few horses that I don't work with. Of COURSE this 4 yr old I'm on Curbsides perfectly. Well, the owner was getting ready to ride another of her horses while I was sitting on this horse standing nearby, completely still, watching this unfold. She walked her show horse to the mounting block. The horse is swishing hither and yon no where near the block while she tries to hold on to the reins and climb the steps. She yelled at him a couple of times and tried to pull him over. Nope. She got down and moved the mounting block to beneath the stirrup where the horse was currently standing. When she got back up on it, he moved again but this time he moved over the mounting block knocking her off. She moved the block again, climbed up, got a foot in the stirrup and he immediately turned sharply and walked off while she threw herself across the saddle and tried to shimmy on.
My reins were just laying on the horse's neck and my arms were crossed with a less than delighted look on my face, as you can imagine. I said, "My kingdom for a video of that fiasco. I'm seriously offended!!! Why don't you just stick a knife in me?" I asked.
I told her I was pondering writing this up in this newsletter and she said, "Go ahead. I know it looked terrible, it won't hurt my feelings." So.
As I said, people can be really hard to help.

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There's a difference between techniques and technique.
For exceptional results, think "how and how can I".
        
Upcoming stuff:

Grabbing the clip. 
The key is not to prioritize what is on the schedule, but to schedule your priorities."
 Stephen Covey
 "awareness" - the need for calm.  maintain boundaries in order to create focus, both in yourself and your horse.  ladder jumping - the art of waiting   timing/feel   come
  • "You get out of the horse what you put in - the way you put it in." - Ray Hunt

              
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Sincerely,
ME

Lauren Woodard
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Lauren Woodard
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