Exceptional Horsemanship
September 2013

Exceptional Horsemanship Newsletter
Greetings!

THIS is what it's all about!!!!!
If I was hearing this story from someone else, before I witnessed it with my own eyes, I probably wouldn't have believed the person unless it was someone like Guy McLean. Here goes: I was bareback on Bache for about a ten minute ride (as the heat was around 109) and just working on softening, carriage and lightness at the trot. I notice Black Diamond all the way across the arena suddenly decide to come on over and participate. She had pa de deux written all over her face. Now Bache has only had this happen to her once before so it would be gooBached for her to get a little more experience with it and of course, I/we have to participate in order for Black to accomplish her offering. So, I kept trotting. However, Black is well aware that once some task or skill is moving its way to the been there, done that page it is no longer treat-worthy. Therefore, she is required to add a twist if she wants a treat. I kept trotting. Here she comes across the arena at a trot, breaks into a canter, veers slightly so that she could... wait for it... JUMP THE TIRE PILE! and then come along side and - I kept trotting - and around the arena we went--then a halt and backup.
Treat worthy?  I think so!
That's Black on the left and Bache on the right.
Where the heck is my motion detector arena mounted video camera!!!!!!

If you'd like to keep up on Black, Bache and Peka's antics and progress along with the horses I have in for training, "Like" my fb page as I post happenings there. I don't have room for for everything here and as it only comes out once a month, it would be old news in many cases. Recently, I posted a 30 second video on a great knot to tie a horse up and a story about Black and Bache forming a pa de trois with a horse I have in training. That horse is the most fabulous silver dapple and I've posted pic's there, too. He was a chocolate in May when I last saw him and when I went to pick him up a week ago... WOW!
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So... Are You Horseman Material????

ANYONE CAN DABBLE!

Commitment vs. interest

The over-used word: passion.

About makes me want to puke when so many people tell me they have a passion for horses. As I'm watching them have their trainer keep the horse amenable for them to ride. And while I'm watching them 'lead' the horse with a chain over its nose. And while I'm watching them compete in a show when they barely can stay on unless the horse is perfectly behaved a la trainer because they've only been riding a couple of months. That's buying a lifestyle-not horsemanship. I'm sort of okay with folks doing it while they strive to become horsemen, but that's not what I  usually hear from them and not what I'm talking about here.

 

Passion: From the Latin verb pati--meaning to suffer. Strong and barely controllable emotion. An intense compelling emotion, feeling or desire for something.

Commitment-state or quality of being dedicated to an activity. An engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of movement. 

 

Interesting definition there with the "restricts freedom", eh? Give that some dwell time. I had to when I came across it.

There is a difference between interest and commitment.

Anyone can dabble.

Rev. Robert Schuller says there are four kinds of people: 1) cop-outs -- These people set no goals and make no decisions. 2) holdouts -- They have a beautiful dream, but they're afraid to respond to its challenge because they aren't sure they can make it. 3) dropouts -- start to make their dream come true, but quit when the going gets tough. 4) all-outs -- set their goals and never quit.

 

To be committed you can't just do the best you can, you have to do everything you can.

When you're committed you accept no excuses, only results. Honing your craft, developing your skill - these things don't come easily. Part of being a good horseman (or a good anything for that matter) is continually humbling yourself to become better at what you do.

I have an insatiable curiosity to enjoy new experiences and pursue fresh challenges with my horsemanship-every day, every horse, every time.

What suffering are you experiencing as you strive to become a horseman?

This does not mean you have to have 30 years of skills. This means having the commitment to execute what you are capable of doing exceptionally well. That may be a forward step with impulsion and softness. It may be a side-pass bareback with a string. Or it may be a smooth jump over a log while on trail that you've never done before because you've done your precise and clear instruction and relationship building at home. Or anything else that you pay attention to and commit to and work for-dare I say suffer for.


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Upcoming stuff:
My friend Franklin, who lives in Corfu, Greece, is a like-minded horseman--as in like me, of course :). He believes in the same concepts and principles which is why I'm suggesting that you follow the link here and check out his new ebook.
I always say that you can't do something well with your horse if it's not already in your head. So, pick this up and give it a read
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Leap ahead with your horsemanship! Learn new skills, tasks, ways to be creative. Live horsemanship. Call or email me to schedule a lesson, training session, phone or email lesson/consultation today.

Don't forget to check the blog for more training and put in your questions and comments!
Sincerely,
ME

Lauren Woodard
ExceptionalHorsemanship.com
Lauren Woodard
Scottsdale, Arizona 85254