Niki Luscombe
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Welcome: Days of 30 heat, and lack of rain, begins to make London feel like Melbourne. Some rain finally for the garden in its ever changing colours, but presages a warm summer. Well made up for it on Bank Holiday weekend, and now a week of rain. Good for the garden.
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Outside the Box
Fascinating programmes on BBC4 Beautiful Minds. James Lovelock, the discoverer of the Gaia principle. A jovial happy man, but he had to leave the academic world, the bureaucracy, the systems. Some one speaking of him admiringly, said that whereas some clever thinkers think outside the box, James doesn't even recognize the box. A dying breed. All the really great inventors, discoveries, were people who thought outside the box, However that's becoming increasingly difficult to do, the system won't let you, or computer says no.
The Quaker and discover of pulsars, Jocelyn Bell was an absolute inspiration of wisdom, as a scientist she says she's not seeking for the truth, she is searching for understanding, and it changes over time. She certainly changed our view of the universe, just as surely as Heather Brooke changed forever, politics in Britain. It is amazing how much leverage one women can exert.
".... a program that requires you to interact with a computer as if it were a person, then asks you to accept in some corner of you brain, that you might also be conceived of a a program" Jaron Lanier: You are not a Gadget.
However recent privacy issues over Google, mean that people are waking up to what the computer does.
Lawyers in Australia are considering taking Google to court, as the first of many countries to look at the privacy issue. Who'd have thought that Big Brother was not hidden behind the TV screen watching you, but behind the computer screen? Orwell got it right, just not in the detail. |
Reframing
NLP uses a similar technique to thinking outside the box, it talks about re-framing. Its almost a cliche that people with life threatening illness, often re-evaluate their life to find, new meanings, and become a changed person. The cliche, what doesn't break you makes you.
So when disaster strikes or you feel let down, look at again what what happened. How can you capitalize on it? My next seminar at the Guildhall, Disaster Into Opportunity, CBL: search Events: City Business Library Here's some very useful questions "What were you trying to achieve when you did that?" "What is the learning from that?" "What will you do differently next time?" Which leads me into the advice from this month's Inspirational woman.
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Extract: OnlyConnecting with CE of WAMT
Niki Luscombe was recently appointed Chief Executive of Women and Manual Trades, a not-for-profit group that supports women working in the sector.
You came away feeling energized enthused after interviewing Niki. She is so open; generous with her experiences. Recently appointed CE of WAMT, Niki had done some amazing work in local government, but she had little choice other than to leave despite having spent two decades establishing her reputation. Although she took a salary drop she found it was well worth it.
"I have so much more freedom and opportunities to really influence the direction of an organization, and make a difference to people's lives.
I don't feel that organizations are always aware that they're perpetuating a glass ceiling." When were you first aware that women may get different treatment? I'm not sure that it's just about women, I've always believed in the human rights for everyone. I am empathic and compassionate, and have respect for people. However one incident which seemed to be about a woman getting different treatment, I'd been on secondment and my boss had missed me, he said "don't ever leave me again, the office always ran smoothly before you went." But I wanted to spread my wings. There was a suggestion of paternalism. He wanted to protect me, look after me, not taking risks. But I love risk taking. I love a high risk challenge. Would you describe yourself as a feminist?
I am a strong feminist, though I don't think some of my colleagues would think so, as they don't approve of me wanting to bring men into a building which until now is all women firms. I am a strong believer in the ability of women to achieve and succeed despite everything. They will make the compromises to get there eventually. Advice to young women starting out.
Always believe in yourself. Don't take "No" for an answer, even if you have to end on a "Maybe". When you've been knocked back, your confidence dented, always try to reflect if it is because of the circumstances and behaviour of people around you. Too often there are circumstances beyond our control.
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Self Belief
Crucial Ingredient, self belief, something entrepreneurs need by the bucket load. I am always impressed when I read about an entrepreneur who's had a bad time. One of the most successful entrepreneurs went bankrupt, but she picked herself up and started over. She re-mortgaged her house to get the black music awards off the ground (Kanya King) and, of course, the Martha Lane Fox story of learning to walk again, little by little, after her horrific car accident in Morocco.
Set the goal, make sure its within your control, then look at the actions you need to take.
It also helps to visualise yourself in the winning position, having achieved your goal.
That's how NLP is used in sport. Visualise yourself crossing the line, hearing the roar of the crowd, smelling the scent of victory. Put yourself there and set the anchor. You may not be wanting the sport scenario, but a different type of success, so set an anchor on a previous achievement.
Remember how it was; what did you see, hear, feel? Recreate that moment and set the anchor.
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Interesting Speakers This Month
Meanwhile the exciting speakers this month were Muhammad Yunus, at the RSA. Now there's a man comfortable in his own skin, and the principle of the Grameen bank, spreading like a virus across the world. His initial seeding was of small loans for groups of women, in Bangladesh. Interestingly the Independent failed to mention that it was the women who Muhammad Yunus finds to be credit worthy and trustworthy. (Independent, 10 June 2010). "Coming here, the man who lends cash to people banks won't touch." He made the women the owners of the loans and of the bank. Currently holding seminars in Scotland, he intends to roll out the program world wide. Interestingly in this country, the women seemed to disappear during the election. They were all kept indoors. Who needs a burka to keep women invisible? As Stuart Rose (MD of Marks and Spencer) "You've got a woman in the Red Arrows, what more do you women want? Glass Ceiling indeed!" However Breitling, down at Duxford, have gone one better - they have a team of women wing walkers! I love these flying metaphors, and how much freer to be a wing walker!
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In Southbank Sinfonia
As ever SbS goes from strength to strength. More brilliant rush hour concerts, a family day at Cardogan hall, and the War Requiem in London and .... with the Parliamentary choir. Support them with donations, or by coming to the concert. The next generation of orchestral musician. Some of last year's alumni have formed a group Idomineo, heading toward the Wigmore. Watch this space.
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Focus on Language
An opportunity to meet Clare Short at the book launch: "The Ultimate Weapon is no Weapon" at the LSE. Fascinating spending time with academics. The best was a tall military gentleman by the name of Shannon, a co-author. An American, tall tanned and speaking from his perspective of countries of Africa and other parts of the world where conflict is endemic. "Focus on the language," he said, "what is the language obscuring?" One of the audience asked if the arms makers weren't perhaps cleverer than the politicians. The politicians came in for a bit of shtick, especially as Clare Short's mobile kept interfering with the mikes. Another language focus was Margaret Throsby's guest Don Watson: He's got it in for mission statements, especially written by 8 year olds in school, the whole consumer culture. "Clients and customers, not passengers and patients." Don Watson III Author, public speaker and former political speech-writer in Australia. He writes about the misuses of language and meaningless jargon.
"Bendable Learnings: The Wisdom of Modern Management" is published by Knopf.
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Coming up: a riveting interview with Hy Money, first woman sports photographer, and chronicler of the history of the Palace, no not Buckingham, but Crystal.
As ever go well in the world, and remember the map is not the territory, you can change it and make it your own, but it's worth flying high to see it in perspective before you do. Any new reader of the news is entitled to a free coaching session. or a free training session for your company. Contact christina@wwom.org
It seems timely to quote from Marianne Williamson, often attributed to Mandela, and apt for the Entrepreneurs at CBL also in memoriam for Sarah Dodds. "Who are you to be amazing? Who are you NOT to be? Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world." Marianne Williamson |
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