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The eleventh principle [of the 13principles of faith] is that God rewards those who keep His commandments, and punishes those who transgress them.

  Rambam, Mishna Sanhedrin chapter 10

גמול משלם יתעלה שהוא עשר האחדוהיסוד מי ומעניש התורה, מצות שמקיים למיטוב הוא הגדול ושגמולו אזהרותיה, עלשעובר

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יפרקסנהדריןלרמב"םהמשנהפירוש

Each year as Rosh Hashanah approaches, we must reflect upon the previous year and consider each of our spiritual levels, striving to attain righteousness so that we may be granted sweet new years. And yet, as adults we understand that things are not nearly so black and white. While as children we can understand Rosh Hashanah by envisioning scales that concretely weigh our mitzvot and aveirot, as we encounter complex situations in the world we begin to see that things are not quite so simple. Those scales seem to have no recognition of the realities of this world in which events do not necessarily correlate with individuals' acts of good and evil.

As such, we continuously struggle to make sense of notions of righteousness and sin, reward and punishment. Theodicy stands as perhaps the most difficult theological question, but it is difficult to consider the notion of God's punishing us at all. As believing Jews, we stand before God on Rosh Hashanah in attempts to do teshuvah, at least partially so that we may avoid suffering. But to what extent can we understand how and why suffering occurs?

A study of instances of punishment and suffering in Tanach allows us to gain a sense of how certain voices have addressed this question over time. In particular, the stories of our kings, culminating in the destruction of the Beit Hamikdash, give us varied perspectives on how to understand suffering, as more than one book of Tanach focuses on that critical period in our history.

Most obviously, Sefer Melachim discusses this time period. Chazal tell us that Yirmiyahu wrote Sefer Melachim after witnessing the destruction of his country and people. He was a man who lived a life of great sadness and isolation, knowing what was to come but doing everything possible to prevent it. In fact, according to Chazal, Yirmiyahu wrote three books in Tanach, and

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while there is overlap among them, each has a distinct function and purpose: Sefer Eichah is a poem of lamentation, in which Yirmiyahu bemoans the fate Bnei Yisrael were forced to endure as a result of their abandonment of God and His ways. Sefer Yirmiyahu tells us Yirmiyahu's personal story, in which we encounter his attempts to save Malchut Yehudah as well as his hardships. Sefer Melachim is an account of the history of Bnei Yisrael that led to the destruction of the Mikdash, and Yirmiyahu tells it with a constant underlying question: What went wrong?

Consistently, Yirmiyahu feels that there is one primary answer to this question: Idolatry. In Yirmiyahu's own time, Hashem made clear to Yirmiyahu that avodah zarah was causing the collapse of the nation. We find in Sefer Melachim and even more so in the various prophecies by Yirmiyahu in Sefer Yirmiyahu that the navi beseeches his people to stop committing idolatry in order to overturn God's prescribed punishment.

And yet, in Yirmiyahu's account of history, reward and punishment do not always correspond to individuals' acts as expected. Yirmiyahu knows that God gave him the formula for reversing God's anger and setting things right, but his histories include kings who flagrantly disobey God but who avoid punishment. For instance, in Melachim I, 17: 23-28, the text describes Omri, a king of Malchut Yisrael. Omri was one of the most powerful and successful kings of Malchut Yisrael, establishing the area of Shomron as the capital of his kingdom and building considerably in his time. However, in Yirmiyahu's worldview, this makes no sense. Omri was not only "evil in the sight of the Lord," but he even "dealt wickedly above all that were before him" (v. 25). Omri was the worst that there had even been, and yet, God allowed him to flourish politically and even enabled him to begin a new dynasty, something that Malchut Yisrael had not seen consistently in some time.

By contrast, Yirmiyahu later introduces the reader to Hoshea, the final king of Yisrael. In Hoshea's time, Ashur invades Yisrael and exiles the ten tribes from the land. This calamity scatters the people of Yisrael and effects the phenomenon we call "the ten lost tribes." According to Yirmiyahu's "training," we should expect to find that Hoshea is a terrible idolater who flagrantly violates God's will, as the final straw who breaks the camel's back; however, Yirmiyahu describes the situation otherwise. In this instance, Yirmiyahu once again compares a king to his predecessors, and once again this comparison highlights a troubling issue. In Melachim II, perek 17 passuk 2, we do find that Hoshea was an evil king, "yet not as the kings of Israel that were before him." After years of evil and sin, the exile occurred during the reign of a man who was not quite as bad as those who ruled before. One may argue that Bnei Yisrael were so mired in sin that God had decided prior to Hoshea's rule that the time had come to bring the punishment, but this explanation does not resolve the issue that those of Hoshea's generation must have felt, and that Yirmiyahu must have felt when looking at the facts: Things fell apart when the king was not even as bad as those that came before.

There are many more examples of these sorts of injustices in Sefer Melachim. One of the most striking is that of Menashe. Menashe was king of Yehudah and the son of the great Chizkiyahu. Menashe likely could have turned the tide for Malchut Yehudah and saved the Beit Hamikdash had he followed in his father's footsteps, but instead, he fervently embraced idolatry and evil. As a result of his evil, God decrees that he will wipe out Malchut Yehudah:

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Therefore thus saith the LORD, the God of Israel: Behold, I bring such evil upon Jerusalem and Judah, that whosoever heareth of it, both his ears shall tingle. And I will stretch over Jerusalem the line of Samaria, and the plummet of the house of Ahab; and I will wipe Jerusalem as a man wipeth a dish, wiping it and turning it upside down. And I will cast off the remnant of Mine inheritance, and deliver them into the hand of their enemies; and they shall become a prey and a spoil to all their enemies; because they have done that which is evil in My sight, and have provoked Me, since the day their fathers came forth out of Egypt, even unto this day.'

Melachim II 21:12-15

הנני ישראל אלהי ה' אמר כהלכן אשר ויהודה ירושלם על רעהמביא שתי תצלנה שמעה ]שמעיו[כל קו את ירושלם על ונטיתיאזניו: אחאב בית משקלת ואתשמרון את ימחה כאשר ירושלם אתומחיתי ונטשתי פניה: על והפך מחההצלחת ביד ונתתים נחלתי שאריתאת לכל ולמשסה לבז והיואיביהם בעיני הרע את עשו אשר יעןאיביהם: יצאו אשר היום מן אתי מכעסיםויהיו הזה: היום ועד ממצריםאבותם כא:יב-טובמלכים

In this account, Hashem declares that as a result of the atrocities that Menashe and his generation performed, Malchut Yehudah will one day be destroyed. While there is no denying that Menashe's actions deserved punishment, there is one glaring philosophical question that arises from this story: Why is Menashe left unpunished? Menashe abandoned the teachings of his righteous father, Chizkiyahu, and he violated God's precepts in an extraordinary fashion, yet he ruled for 55years, the longest reign of any king of Yehudah, enjoying power and prosperity.

In this example and others, Sefer Melachim paints a picture of suffering that is at times justifiable and necessary, as a punishment for our abandonment of God and His principles, but one that is at times confusing and seemingly unjust. This tension exists throughout the sefer, and it seems that it exists because of the book's historical context. We must remember that Sefer Melachim was written by Yirmiyahu, the navi who lived and prophesied in the final years of the first Beit Hamikdash. He witnessed firsthand the suffering that his people were forced to endure, and this experience no doubt shaped him.9 This personal connection and this proximity to the event inevitably affect Yirmiyahu's perspective.

This perspective becomes even more prominent when it is compared to another sefer from Tanach that accounts for all of that same historical period: Sefer Divrei Hayamim. While Divrei Hayamim covers a much larger period of time than Sefer Melachim, the vast majority of the sefer discusses the same time period that is presented in Melachim; however, many discrepancies arise in their respective presentations.

9It is no wonder, then, that the entire sefer is framed by the history of the Beit Hamikdash. Sefer Melachim opens with the story of the David Hamelech's final days, but the story really serves to set up David's successor: Shlomo, the ultimate builder of the Beit Hamikdash. The sefer then describes Shlomo's planning, building, and dedicating the Beit Hamikdash. After Shlomo's death, the sefer explains how and why the kingship split into two separate entities: the kingdom of Yehudah, under the rule of David and Shlomo's descendants, and the kingdom of Yisrael, under the rule of varied individuals who mostly did not follow any familial descent. The sefer then recounts hundreds of years of history leading up to the Assyrian exile of Malchut Yisrael, and later the Babylonian exile of Malchut Yehudah, coupled with the destruction of the Mikdash.

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Sefer Divrei Hayamim focuses specifically on the kings of Yehudah,10 so Omri and Hoshea do not figure prominently, but the example of Menashe serves to show how very different the presentations are. In Divrei Hayamim, the text describes Menashe's evil deeds as it did in Melachim, but it also gives a reason as to why Menashe was not deserving of the horrific punishments that future generations ultimately receive:

And when [Menashe] was in distress, he besought the LORD his God, and humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers. And he prayed unto Him; and He was entreated of him, and heard his supplication, and brought him back to Jerusalem into his kingdom. Then Menashe knew that the LORD He was God. Now after this he built an outer wall to the city of David, on the west side of Gihon, in the valley, even to the entrance at the fish gate; and he compassed about Ophel, and raised it up a very great height; and he put captains of the army in all the fortified cities of Judah. And he took away the strange gods, and the idol out of the house of the LORD, and all the altars that he had built in the mount of the house of the LORD, and in Jerusalem, and cast them out of the city. And he built up the altar of the LORD, and offered thereon sacrifices of peace- offerings and of thanksgiving, and commanded Judah to serve the LORD, the God of Israel. Nevertheless the people did sacrifice still in the high places, but only unto the LORD their God.  Divrei Hayamim II 33:12-15

אלהיו ה' פני את חלה לווכהצר אבתיו: אלהי מלפני מאדויכנע תחנתו וישמע לו ויעתר אליוויתפלל וידע למלכותו ירושלםוישיבהו כן ואחרי האלהים: הוא ה' כימנשה מערבה דויד לעיר חיצונה חומהבנה הדגים בשער ולבוא בנחללגיחון שרי וישם מאד ויגביהה לעפלוסבב ביהודה: הבצרות הערים בכלחיל הסמל ואת הנכר אלהי אתויסר בנה אשר המזבחות וכל ה'מבית חוצה וישלך ובירושלם ה' ביתבהר ויזבח ה' מזבח את ויבן ]ויכן[לעיר: ויאמר ותודה שלמים זבחיעליו ישראל: אלהי ה' את לעבודליהודה לה' רק בבמות זבחים העם עודאבל אלהיהם: לג:יב-יזבהימיםדברי

In Divrei Hayamim, we learn that Menashe underwent a dramatic process of teshuvah, which helps us to reconcile his great success with his earlier terrible behavior. The inclusion of this story is representative of the tendency of Divrei Hayamim to present history as correlating directly with people's behaviors. Divrei Hayamim's guiding principle is that of Torat Hagmul, the idea that God rewards righteousness and punishes evil. As such, the very same historical stories that seemed unjust in Sefer Melachim are presented in Divrei Hayamim so that they make sense according to this philosophical principle.

Having said that, it is very difficult to understand how such a significant detail could have been omitted from Melachim. If Menashe truly turned his life around and did teshuvah, then why did Yirmiyahu not write that information in his account?

Ultimately, we can only speculate as to the answer, but it seems likely that its omission is once again related to the book's historical context. It is difficult to appraise history when one is so close to it. People have very emotional responses to the disasters that they feel very acutely. It is quite possible that Yirmiyahu was not able to view Menashe, an extreme evildoer who caused the

10This is a product of the sefer's historical perspective, as is the sefer's very different perspective on suffering, though it is beyond the scope of this article. In brief, this focus is due to the fact that Ezra, the author of Divrei Hayamim, was primarily trying to convince the remnants of Yehudah and Binyamin (Malchut Yehudah) to return to Yerushalayim to rebuild the Beit Hamikdash.

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deaths of many, as having truly done teshuvah. As such, when presenting the kingship of Menashe, he presented the information that he truly believed was representative of Menashe's reign and the part that he played in the destruction of the Mikdash.

This is representative of the tension that exists between trying to understand human suffering while recognizing our limits in understanding, particularly when we find ourselves in historical proximity to the event. For example, even if we ourselves are not survivors of the Holocaust, the terrors of the Holocaust are still an open wound. Perhaps for that reason, when Harav Ovadia Yosef in 2000stated that the victims of the Holocaust were in fact reincarnations of people who had sinned in previous lives, he faced a tremendous backlash. The pain of the Holocaust is too near and too great to tie it neatly together with a bow. The idea of characterizing the victims of the Holocaust as being in any way deserving of what they experienced was too difficult to consider. Similarly, if one tries to give a pat reason as to why September Eleventh occurred or why any of our loved ones may suffer, it is extremely difficult to accept. A person's readiness for reasons and explanations is limited when one is so close to the painful situation.

By contrast, Divrei Hayamim was written in a very different time period than the destruction of the Beit Hamikdash. Chazal explain that Ezra wrote Sefer Divrei Hayamim during the period of Shivat Tzion. During Shivat Tzion, the king of the Persian Empire, Koresh, gave Bnei Yisrael permission to rebuild the Beit Hamikdash. Ezra was one of the leaders of the time and it is clear that he saw this as an opportunity to correct his nation's history. Unfortunately, Ezra found that much of his nation was not interested in uprooting itself in order to rebuild Yerushalayim and the Beit Hamikdash. As such, Ezra's Divrei Hayamim is a consideration of the history leading up to Koresh's proclamation, in an attempt to convince Bnei Yisrael of the importance of taking hold of the moment and returning to Israel.

Perhaps for this reason, Divrei Hayamim is so focused on Torat Hagmul. While Yirmiyahu is too close to the situation to gain a real perspective on the big picture, Ezra is able to look at the broader perspective.The wound is no longer raw and he is thus able to take a larger view of history and use it as an impetus for change. He emphasizes the benefits of clinging to God and the perils of abandoning Him. He uses his nation's history as a learning tool so that it will shape Am Yisrael and motivate the nation to choose wisely.11

11There are many more examples for how each of the two books follows these patterns. In one striking example in Melachim II, perek ,23the text describes Yoshiyahu's dramatic acts of teshuvah and his reinstatement of the brit with Hashem. Toward the end of the description, the text states:

כהְוָכמֹהּוֹלא-ָהיָהְלָפנָיוֶמֶלְך,ֲאֶׁשר-ָׁשבֶאל-יְהָוהְּבָכל-ְלָבבֹוּוְבָכל-נְַפׁשֹוּוְבָכל-ְמאֹדֹו--ְּככֹל,ּתֹוַרתמֶֹׁשה;ְוַאֲחָריו,ֹלא-ָקםָּכמֹהּו.כוֶׁשּה. ְמנַ ִעיסֹו, ְכ ִה ֶׁשר ֲא ִסים, ָע ְּכ ַה ָּכל- ַעל, ָדה-- ִּביהּו ַאּפֹו, ָרה ָח ֶׁשר- ֲא ָּגדֹול, ַה ַאּפֹו ֲחרֹון ֵמ ָוה, יְה ָׁשב ֹלא-ַאְך

25And there was no king before him who was like him, that turned to the LORD with all his heart, and with all his soul, and with all his might, according to all the law of Moses; neither after him arose there any like him. 26 However the LORD turned not from the fierceness of His great wrath, wherewith His anger was kindled against Judah, because of all the provocations wherewith Menashe had provoked Him.

Once again, Yirmiyahu's text emphasizes the unfairness of the world, that Yoshiyahu's great and extraordinary acts were not enough to overturn the fate that was pronounced in Menashe's time. Melachim then continues to describe Yoshiyahu's death at the hands of Par'oh-nechoh, an unfortunate end for such a great and righteous king.

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In this manner, we find a second approach to understanding suffering. With distance, one is able to reflect on the past and use it to move forward. In one famous example, we are taught that the cause of the destruction of the second Beit Hamikdash was sin'at chinam, baseless hatred. Today we learn this and we consider it as a means of correcting our behavior so that we will not repeat the same mistakes. Among those who took this lesson to heart was Menachem Begin, former Prime Minister of Israel. When asked at the end of his life what his greatest accomplishments was, Begin stated that it was avoiding civil war in Israel twice. In the years leading up to the establishment of the State of Israel, Begin headed the Irgun, a group that believed in actively fighting the British Mandate in Palastine. The majority of Jews in Israel at that time however sided with the Haganah, which, under the leadership of David Ben Gurion, believed in defending the Yishuv against attack but generally opposed military offensives against the British. A number of times armed confrontations arose between these two groups that could have led to civil war amongst the Jewish people, and each time Begin made sure that would not happen He even commanded his fighters to go quietly when Hagana members came to arrest them and turn them over to the British. In Yehuda Avner's Prime Ministers, he quotes Begin as explaining his reasoning:

Twenty centuries ago we faced the bitter experience of the destruction of the Second Temple, the destruction of our capital Jerusalem. And why? Because of our senseless hatred of each other, a hatred that led to civil war and to our utter ruin: bechiya ladorot-generations of tears. And, therefore, I long ago took a solemn oath that no matter the provocation, no matter the circumstances, I would never be a party to civil war, NEVER! )80(

Begin understood that our history serves us best when it teaches us to correct our behaviors so that we may better do God's will.

Today, as we approach Rosh Hashanah and as we feel the gravity of God's judgment to come, we must take the messages of both Melachim and Divrei Hayamim to heart. First, we must recognize that we may not be able to see God's plan and things may seem unjust. As is clear from Melachim, we are entitled to our pain and it is not realistic for us to expect ourselves to accept all of God's decrees without question or protest. And yet, ideally, we should hope to be able to use the message of Divrei Hayamim as well, so that we may be able to learn lessons from pain and use experiences to help us to grow and learn from our mistakes as we move on.

Accordingly, Divrei Hayamim presents this story with a somewhat different emphasis. While it also acknowledges that the Korban Pesach of Yoshiyahu was unlike that of any other, it does not juxtapose this concept with God's continued decree to destroy the nation, and it even provides an explanation for why Yoshiyahu dies as he did. (Divrei Hayamim II :35)21-22

ְלָך ַדל- ֲח ֵלנִי: ֲה ַב ְל ַמר ָא ִהים, ֵואֹל ִּתי, ְמ ַח ְל ִמ ֵּבית ֶאל- ִּכי ַהּיֹום ָּתה ַא ֶליָך ָע ֹלא- ָדה, יְהּו ֶלְך ֶמ ָלְך ָו ִּלי ַמה- ֵלאמֹר ִכים ְלָא ַמ ָליו ֵא ַלח ְׁש ַוּיִכאֹא, ַוּיָב ִהים; ֱאֹל ִּפי ִמ נְכֹו, ֵרי ְב ִּד ֶאל- ַמע ָׁש ְוֹלא ֵּפׂש, ַח ְת ִה ֵחם-ּבֹו ָּל ִה ְל ִּכי ֶּמּנּו, ִמ ָפנָיו ִׁשּיָהּו ֹא י ֵסב ֵה ְוֹלא-כב ֶתָך. ִחי ְׁש ְוַאל-יַ ִּמי, ִע ֶׁשר- ֲא ִהים ֱאֹלֵמ ְמגִּדו. ַעת ְק ִב ְּב ֵחם ָּל ִהְל

21But [Par'oh Nechoh] sent ambassadors to him, saying: 'What have I to do with thee, thou king of Judah? I come not against thee this day, but against the house wherewith I have war; and God hath given command to speed me; forbear thee from meddling with God, who is with me, that He destroy thee not.' 22Nevertheless Josiah would not turn his face from him, but disguised himself, that he might fight with him, and hearkened not unto the words of Neco, from the mouth of God, and came to fight in the valley of Megiddo.

According to this account, Yoshiyahu's attack of Par'oh Nechoh was actually an act of disobedience against God, and for that reason he was killed as result.

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It's the Thought That Counts

Rabbi Mordechai Torczyner Rosh Beit Midrash, Yeshiva University Torah Mitzion Zichron Dov Beit Midrash of Toronto

 

 

The will to goodness is everything; all of the skills in the universe are וכל הכל, הוא הטובהרצון

only the means of completing it. אלא אינם שבעולםהכשרונות

 

Rav Avraham Yitzchak haKohen Kook, Orot haTeshuvah 9:1

מלואיו

ט:אהתשובהאורות

Is Teshuvah in my Thoughts, or in my Speech? Lulav. Matzah. Talmud Torah. Tzedakah. Teshuvah.

When the Rambam (Hilchot Teshuvah )1:1adopted Rabbi Meir's phraseology (Mishna, Yoma )9:3describing a process of "performing teshuvah," he framed our understanding of the mitzvah as action-based. This is cemented by his description of viduy as a verbal enumeration of our failings.16 Just as we wave a lulav, ingest matzah, study Torah and give tzedakah, so we perform teshuvah with our speech, listing our sins and articulating our regret.

Of course, speech is crucial: Speaking our sins aloud makes the admission concrete, and compels us to confront the reality of our criminal record. But is there no intrinsic value in the thoughts which lead to these words? Is my regret merely a hechsher mitzvah, preparation and catalyst for the declaration which is the mitzvah? Or are my thoughts also an "act" of teshuvah?

The Talmud itself indicates that thoughts can constitute teshuvah: If a man proposes, "Marry me on condition that I am a tzaddik,"

then even if he is fully wicked, she is married; perhaps thought of teshuvah in his mind.  Kiddushin 49b

רשע אפילו צדיק שאני מנתעל תשובה הרהר שמא מקודשתגמור בדעתו מט:קידושין

 

 

They said regarding Rabbi Elazar ben Durdaya that he omitted no zonah in the world.... He then sat between two mountains and hills and asked, "Mountains and hills, pray for mercy for me!" They replied, "Before we ask on your behalf, let us ask for ourselves!"... He then asked, "Heavens and earth, pray for mercy for me!" They replied, "Before we ask on your behalf, let us ask for ourselves!"... He then asked, "Sun and Moon, pray for mercy for me!" They replied, "Before we ask on

שלא דורדיא בן ר"א על עליואמרו עליה... בא שלא בעולם אחת זונההניח אמר וגבעות הרים שני בין וישבהלך אמרו רחמים עלי בקשו וגבעותהרים על נבקש עליך מבקשים שאנו עדלו עלי בקשו וארץ שמים אמרעצמנו... עליך מבקשים שאנו עד אמרורחמים ולבנה חמה אמר עצמנו... עלנבקש שאנו עד לו אמרו רחמים עליבקשו

 

16Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Teshuvah .2:2Indeed, the Rambam's Hilchot Teshuvah never identifies regret as a stage in teshuvah; he only mentions that one's viduy declaration includes a statement that one regrets his past deeds.

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your behalf, let us ask for ourselves!"... He then asked, "Stars and constellations, pray for mercy for me!" They replied, "Before we ask on your behalf, let us ask for ourselves!"... He then said: The matter depends only upon me. He placed his head between his knees and cried out in tears until his soul departed. A voice emerged and declared, "Rabbi Elazar ben Durdaya is prepared for life in the next world!"

Avodah Zarah 17a

אמר עצמנו... על נבקש עליךמבקשים אמרו רחמים עלי בקשו ומזלותכוכבים על נבקש עליך מבקשים שאנו עדלו בי אלא תלוי הדבר אין אמרעצמנו... עד בבכיה וגעה ברכיו בין ראשוהניח ואמרה קול בת יצתה נשמתושיצתה הבא העולם לחיי מזומן דורדיא בןר"א יז. זרהעבודה

But these sources are puzzling: The transforming effect of verbal confession is clear, but why should the cycling of a synapse suffice to translate "fully wicked" into "tzaddik"? If a listing of sins is critical to teshuvah, how could Elazar ben Durdaya earn the next world, not to mention ordination, for repentance which amounted to internal thought and an animal wail?

Teshuvah: A Return to Greatness

Rav Avraham Yitzchak haKohen Kook proposed a concept of internal teshuvah, repentance played out on a stage within the heart. While Rav Kook acknowledged our obligation to speak in confession and act in correction, he emphasized that our first step is to think in contrition.

As Rav Kook explained, we are created as pure souls, but entry into a material realm dulls our sensitivity to the sacred and so makes us vulnerable to sin. We are challenged to assert our spirit over our material trappings, strengthening our holiest aspect and committing ourselves to life on a higher plane. This is the process of repentance:

 

Entities come into existence as a descent from the Divine realm to worldly realms -a form of descent and of terrible "death" -to which no earthly descent... can compare. This is engineered on the higher calculation of justice, which gauged the justice of existence before anything was created... But this descent has the foundation for greater ascent stored within... as it is written, "Before mountains were birthed and earth and foundation were formed, You were G-d for all eternity. You laid man low, and declared, 'Return, sons of men!'"  Orot haTeshuvah 11:4

מאלקיות ירידה בתור מתגלותההויות ו"מיתה" השפלה כמו שהיאלעולמיות, לא שבעולם... הירידות כל אשרנוראה, המשקל פי על מעשה זה וכל לה.ישוו את המשערת הצדק שפיטת שלהעליון נברא... יציר כל בטרם ההויותמשפט העליונה העליה יסוד הלא זו ירידהאמנם ארץ ותחולל ילדו הרים בטרם בה...גנוז תשב קל אתה עולם עד ומעולםותבל אדם בני שובו ותאמר דכא עדאנוש יא:דהתשובהאורות

Our pure thoughts are our return to greatness

Within this philosophy, perfection is always present, albeit hidden, within the human being. As Rav Kook promised,17 "Teshuvah always resides in the heart; it is stored in the heart even during the sin itself." This pledge did not originate with Rav Kook; its roots are in the Talmudic18

 

17Orot haTeshuvah 6:2 18Nedarim 39a

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statement that repentance was created before the universe itself. Embedded in the Divine schematic is our pristine core, and the route via which we restore it as our identity.

Certainly, the journey back to this truest nature of our soul involves actions, as described by the Rambam, but it is not defined by those actions. Rather, teshuvah -literally "return" -is a spiritual quest during which we retrieve the ethereal identity hidden beneath material layers. We seek the Divine message, and this search, taking place in our thoughts, is itself a revelation of our purity:

Via thoughts of teshuvah, one hears the voice of G-d ד' קול האדם שומע תשובה הרהורי ידיעל calling to him from within the Torah, from within his רגשי כל ומתוך התורה, מתוך עליוהקורא

 

heart's emotions, from within the world, its fullness and all therein... Thoughts of teshuvah reveal the depth of one's desire, and the strength of the soul is revealed in all of its glory through those thoughts. The greater the thought of teshuvah, the greater its liberation.

Orot haTeshuvah 7:3-4

בם... אשר וכל ומלואו העולם מתוךהלב, עומק את מגלים הם הם התשובההרהורי ידם על מתגלה הנשמה של והגבורההרצון, התשובה של גדלה ולפי הודה, מילויבכל שלה. החירות מדת היאכך ז:ג-דהתשובהאורות

 

The will to goodness is everything; all of the skills in the הכשרונות וכל הכל, הוא הטובהרצון universe are only the means of completing it. The content of תוכן נעשה מלואיו, אלא אינםשבעולם

one's will [to goodness] is imprinted upon his soul by the light of return that is affixed within, and as a result, the great flow of Divine inspiration is manifested upon him continually, and a will which is great in its holiness, beyond the trait embedded in other human beings, grows powerful within him.

Orot haTeshuvah 9:1

התשובה אור ידי על בנפשומוטבע גדול שפע עליו חל וממילא בו,הקבוע נשגב ורצון בתדירות, הקדש רוחשל של הקבועה מהמדה למעלהבקדושה, בו. ומתגבר הולך רגילים, אדםבני ט:אהתשובהאורות

This may explain how a man can declare himself righteous and be granted that status instantly, such that his proposal of "Marry me on condition that I am a tzaddik" is accepted on the basis of an intellectual decision -he has revealed his unsullied core, and therefore he is now a tzaddik.

This may also explain how Elazar ben Durdaya could, in the words of Rebbe, "acquire his world in a single moment," despite a career of immersion in immorality. The sinner had done nothing to correct his sin, but his immense regret displayed his native character.

To cite the words of Rav Kook:

One who feels within himself the depth of regret of teshuvah, and the exasperated desire in his thoughts to mend his flaws -those he is already capable of mending and those he is not yet capable of mending but for which he anticipates Divine mercy -can already count himself among the righteous.  Orot haTeshuvah 8:6

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התשובה נחם עומק בעצמו המרגישוכל אותן בין פגמיו, לתקון המחשבהוהתמרמרות שתקונם אותם בין בידו עולה כברשתקונם עליהם מצפה והוא בידו עדיין עולהאינו בכלל בזה עצמו את יכלוללרחמים, הצדיקים. ח:והתשובהאורות

 

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Using our thoughts to create our tongues anew  This idea can help answer a challenge put forth by the Chida,19 regarding the acceptability of our

verbal viduy.

We are taught סניגור" נעשה קטגור ",איןthat a prosecutor cannot switch sides to serve as a defense attorney. Based on this principle, gold may not be used for the garments worn by the Kohen Gadol when he enters the Holy of Holies to appeal for forgiveness; gold represents the sin of the Golden Calf.20 How, then, can a mouth which has spoken lashon hara offer acceptable viduy before G-d -is this not a case of the agent of sin becoming a defense attorney? If gold represents ancient idolatry and is therefore ineligible before G-d, then a tongue which was used for evil should certainly be unacceptable for viduy!

The Chida sought to resolve the problem by explaining that once a person repents, he becomes a new creature. Therefore, the tongue in his mouth is no longer the same tongue that sinned, and it may be used for viduy. However, others objected to this answer: If teshuvah is effective only via the viduy declaration, then the conversion of sinner to tzaddik does not take place until the viduy is complete!

Rav Michael Yaakov Yisrael, a 19th century Turkish Rav and author of ימין ,שנותanswered the objection, explaining that once a person produces thoughts of teshuvah, he is already recreated as a new person. Therefore, the tongue is "new" before we ever arrive at the viduy declaration. This mirrors Rav Kook's conception of teshuvah: Our thoughts of repentance are our return to greatness, restoring us to our spiritual greatness.

First, then, we engage ourselves in thoughts of repentance, returning to the pristine spirit inside, removing obstructions and awakening our spiritual talents. Only afterward do we embark upon the process of actualizing those thoughts through the speech of viduy and through the actions of correction.

We are promised that when we commit ourselves mentally to a path of repentance, G-d will take this as a down payment, and ease the remainder of our journey:

 

When one's thoughts are bound to holiness and to the desire for teshuvah, one should not fear at all. Certainly, HaShem will prepare all of the paths via which complete teshuvah - illuminating all of the dark spaces with the light of its life - is acquired.

Orot haTeshuvah 7:5

ולחפץ לקדושה קשור שהרעיוןכיון יזמין ודאי כלל, לפחד מה איןהתשובה, שהתשובה הדרכים, כל אתהשי"ת באור המחשכים כל את המאירההגמורה, ידם. על נקנית היאחייה, ז:ההתשובהאורות

May we commit ourselves to return to internal purity, and follow up with practical steps, and so merit a טובה וחתימה.כתיבה

19Cited in Sdei Chemed Maarechet Klal יח 20Talmud, Rosh haShanah 26a

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WITH THREE-DAY HOLIDAY/SHABBAT OBSERVANCES COMING UP,  

ORTHODOX UNION ISSUES WARNING AGAINST CARBON MONOXIDE POISONING FROM STOVES

            The upcoming Jewish holiday season, which includes three 3-day periods in which stoves cannot be turned off, presents risks of deadly carbon monoxide poisoning  in homes in which the holidays are observed according to halacha, Jewish law. The holidays occur Thursday and Friday, followed by Shabbat.

            The holidays are Rosh Hashanah/Shabbat, September 29-October 1; Sukkot/Shabbat, October 13-15; and Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah/ Shabbat , October 20-22.  In each case, stoves cannot be turned off from the beginning of the holiday, on Wednesday evening, to the end of Shabbat.

            The Orthodox Union's Safe Homes, Safe Shuls, Safe Schoolsinitiative issues warnings before holidays, such as Passover and Chanukah, when use of fire is part of the tradition.  With the three-day observances, the risks of CO poisoning are now the area of concern. As part of the initiative, the OU urges families to replace their smoke/carbon dioxide alarm batteries prior to the holidays.

            Examples of these risks occurred in the heavily Orthodox community of Teaneck, NJ during the two-day holiday (Wednesday-Thursday) of Shavuot in June in which 13 people were taken to hospitals Thursday morning with symptoms of carbon monoxide poisoning from stoves that had been on since Tuesday evening.  Fortunately, the injuries were not serious and most of the victims were quickly treated and released.

            The Teaneck fire department noted that the risk is intensified because modern houses are better insulated with fewer air leaks than in the past, and that with the air conditioning on, windows are kept closed.

            The department has noted "a spike in carbon monoxide calls in the Orthodox community," according to a reporter for the local newspaper, the Bergen Record.

            Carbon monoxide is an odorless, colorless and potentially deadly gas.  Because of the dangers, authorities in Teaneck met and came up with the following guidelines for carbon monoxide safety:

  • All homes must have working CO detectors.  We recommend the electric plug in models with a display and battery backup.  A basic unit is adequate however.  We recommend at least one on each level.
  • NEVER HESITATE TO CALL THE FIRE DEPARTMENT IF YOUR ALARM GOES OFF!  The fire department will respond quickly to check homes with multi-gas meters and remove the CO. 
  • Your house should have the hood above your stove vented to the outside.  A hood that vents back into the kitchen will not help reduce CO.
  • An alternate to the stove is an electric hot plate, UL listed, which has no flame, so does not produce CO.
  • An electric crock pot, UL listed, is another alternative, which is insulated and reduces the chance of someone burning themselves.
  • You should have a one foot non-combustible area around the stove and crock pot.
  • NEVER use an extension cord with these devices!  They require too many amps and could cause a fire.  The above devices should be plugged directly into an outlet.
  • If you must operate a stove, leave a window open near the stove at least one fist (approximately 4 inches), with a second window open at the opposite side of the house.  This will allow some cross ventilation and a supply of fresh air.
  • An electric stove with a warming drawer is another solution.  This would keep food warm without generating CO.
  • A future solution would be an electric stove that would turn on and off during the Sabbath and holidays as needed.  The community is always looking for manufacturers who are willing to work with us.
  • This is not a complete list, only recommendations.
 

 

 

 

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Wednesday: A chance of showers, mainly after 8am. Patchy fog before 11am. Otherwise, cloudy, with a high near 72. East wind between 9 and 11 mph. Chance of precipitation is 40%.

Wednesday Night: A chance of showers. Cloudy, with a low around 63. East wind between 7 and 9 mph. Chance of precipitation is 50%. New rainfall amounts between a tenth and quarter of an inch possible. 

Thursday: Showers likely, with thunderstorms also possible after noon. Cloudy, with a high near 75. South wind between 7 and 11 mph. Chance of precipitation is 70%. New rainfall amounts between a quarter and half of an inch possible. 

Thursday Night: A chance of showers and thunderstorms before midnight, then a slight chance of showers. Mostly cloudy, with a low around 61. West wind between 10 and 13 mph. Chance of precipitation is 40%.

Friday: A slight chance of showers. Mostly cloudy, with a high near 74. Chance of precipitation is 20%.

Friday Night: Partly cloudy, with a low around 54. 

 

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The "Ohel Sara" Amen Group
in memory of Sarit Marton a'h

 

 

cordially invites all women to attend our
Aseres Yemei Teshuva Learning Program
Sunday, October 2 - Wednesday, October 5, 2011

 

The schedule for Sunday is as follows:

 

Sunday, October 2, 2011
9:30 AM
Rabbi Yosef Chaim Schwab
Nine Types of Teshuvah
10:30 AM
Mr. Ari Schonbrun
Listen To The Whisper

 

Location:
2 Forest Lane, Lawrence, NY  11559
(Entrance on Broadway)

 

There is no admission charge for any of our shiurim

 

 


K'siva V'Chasima Tovah.

Ah gut gebencht and gezunt yahr.

 

 

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Introduction to the agunah crisis by Rabbi Mordechai Willig,

Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshiva University

Presentation on ORA's case resolution approach by Rabbi Jeremy Stern,

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Bikur Cholim Bake Sale 

 

Hi Ladies - I hope that everyone is well. 

 

Pls mark your calendars - Elaine and Yossi Farber will be hosting their annual Yehuda Memorial Bikur Cholim Bake Sale.

 

The bake sale is to benefit the Yehuda Mem. Bikur Cholim, which sets up rooms (near the hospitals) for frum people, who have family members in the hospital.


(Sort of unfortunately, I can tell you from multiple first hand experiences, that such rooms are crucial for those who have to be near the hospital, particularly on Shabos or Yom Tov, lo alianu)

 

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Dear Friend and Supporter,

We are writing you today to express our support and to solicit your participation in providing assistance for orphans, needy families, soldiers of the IDF and holocaust survivors in Israel for the High Holidays.

Each and every month throughout the year, the Jewish Assistance & Relief provides close to 7,000 Food Cards for needy Israeli families with a minimum value of $80 to as much as $600, and for the High Holidays the numbers go up to 10,000 families with assistance of at least $80 to help with the added Holiday expenses.

Highlights of the Food Card Program:
  
Recipients are chosen by local Ministry of Welfare offices based on specified criteria such as families that work but are struggling to make ends meet due to loss of a job, family sickness, economic hardships caused by the war on terror, etc.    

 

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A-Ok

 

A-OK is a new Far Rockaway/5 Towns initiative to promote good

will, love, friendship, and unity in our community.

 

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Everyone is cordially invited to our

Tehilat Naava 17th Annual Kumzitz

 

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The Avraham Yonah Reading Group


There are many people in our community who are home bound or for various reasons cannot get out often and seldom have visitors. The Avraham Yonah Reading Group is a volunteer group consisting mostly of women, who go to these peoples homes and read to them. It gives these individuals an opportunity to make friends, have consistent visitors and know that others care about them. 

The organization is intended to help people who are home bound, elderly, ill and in treatment or anyone else who may benefit from this service. Volunteers will visit the individuals home for approximately 1/2 - 1 hour, and will either read a book, learn Torah, play a game or just talk with the person depending on their preference. There will be a different volunteer going each day of the week, depending on how many days are requested by the person in need. It is hoped that each volunteer will continue to visit on the same day of every week. 

If you know of anyone who could benefit from this service, please contact us. 

We hope you will be interested in volunteering to be a part of this wonderful chessed and join us in reaching out to our friends and neighbors who are in need and hopefully making a difference in their lives.

To volunteer, please contact: 

Helen Wolff, Helencharlotte@gmail.com 516 569-4813

  

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