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"War," said General Sherman, "is not the glory that boys make of it." He termed it even worse; the antithesis of Heaven. The ramifications of conflict transcend the battlefield, often impacting the lives of civilians and neutral parties in ways that are both unpredictable and terminal.

In this week's portion, Moshe is commanded to wage war against Midian, the nation whose daughters seduced the Israelites into a quagmire of sin and Divine retribution. If Hashem asks His nation to war, victory should be assured, yet this war would have devastating ramifications that would not occur through failure on the battlefield, but rather with the success of victory.

Hashem speaks: "Take vengeance for the Children of Israel against the Midianites; afterward you will be gathered unto your people" (Numbers 31:2).

The term "gathered unto your people," does not refer to a victory parade where people gather to pay homage to a victorious conqueror. Rather it means the same thing as it meant when the Torah tells us about many of our forebears. "And he gathered unto his people and he died."

Yes, Moshe was told to fight a battle for the sake of Israel's honor and then he would die. This battle was to be his last. With mission in life accomplished, and the shell of his holy body would be interred while his soul would join his Heavenly father in Heaven.

Though success on the battlefield would be his death knell, Moshe did not tarry. Immediately, in the verse after the critical directive, "Moses spoke to the people, saying, 'Arm men from among yourselves for the legion that they may be against Midian to inflict Hashem's vengeance against Midian.'" (Ibid v. 3) Moshe did not tarry nor did he bide his time with strategic planning. He prepared his nation in prompt fashion for what would be his final battle. What is interesting to note, however, is that despite the fact that Moshe's command was immediate and succinct it differed slightly from the original directive that Hashem issued.

Hashem said, "Take vengeance for the Children of Israel against the Midianites." Moshe said, "to inflict Hashem's vengeance against Midian." Why did Moshe change the directive?

There is a legend told about a certain Rabbi, who was constantly tormented by the prime minister of a despot nation.

"All right, Rabbi," he taunted, "you seem to have the answer to everything. Since you are so smart," he smirked, "tell me, dear Rabbi, when will you die?"

The Rabbi knew he was in a bind. If he were to identify a date in the distant future, the king could immediately prove him wrong with a call to the executioner. Of course, if he predicted an imminent demise, the angry king would surely fulfill it.

The Rabbi, thought for a few moments and then, with a vision of clairvoyance, he smiled.

"I do not know the exact date your honor, but I can assure you one thing: I will die one day before you."

Needless to say, the Prime Minister, made every effort to keep the good Rabbi alive for a very long time.

When Moshe was told about the directive to wage war, he moved with gusto. He gathered the troops, appointed Pinchus as a general, and motivated his army for the war that would precede his own demise.

But to the people who knew of G-d's directive in its entirety it seemed almost like a death sentence. Why should they fight, knowing that as soon as they avenged their honor and accomplished the mission, the missive of Hashem will be fulfilled and Moshe would die?

Therefore, explains the Malbim, Moshe told the nation, "We are not doing this for your honor." He knew that if it was for the Jews' honor they would have tarried in their mission while knowing the deadly toll their success would have on their beloved leader. And so "Moshe spoke to the people, saying, "Arm men from among yourselves for the legion that they may be against Midian to inflict Hashem's vengeance against Midian" (Numbers 31:3).

Perhaps for human honor, Moshe could have stayed his demise. The people would have even laid down their arms and not fought, despite the humiliation they received through Midian. However, when the honor of Hashem is at stake, then no mortal impediment, not even the passing of the world's greatest leader, can stand in the way.

 

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    AMIT Graduate and Principal to Speak at Congregation Beth Shalom Seudat Shlisheet

    July 22, 8pm

     

     

    Zoma Tede, now 27 years old, is a graduate of the AMIT Gould Junior and Senior High School for Girls in Rehovot. One of eight siblings, she was born in Ethiopia and arrived in Israel in 1991 when she was six and a half years old.  An outstanding student, she recently finished her internship at Kaplan Medical Center in Rehovot and in August will enlist in the IDF as a military physician. Her future plans after her military service are to pursue a residency in ENT surgery.  "At my AMIT high school," she explains, "I received important tools that enabled me to believe in myself, fulfill my dreams, and be the best in every area in my life - all thanks to an amazing staff of teachers."

     

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    Holy Words: Parshas Matos

     

    Kedushah, at least the Torah's conception of it, eludes our quick comprehension. Sacred space, sacred time, sacred objects - these are so intuitive that almost every religion has them. But the Torah goes well beyond the intuitive. Sanctity to other people is assumed to be innate in some things, or created through contact or association with something already sacred. According to our Torah, however, sanctity can be manufactured at will. Take an ordinary object, and simply designate it as , and it becomes . (When this happens, the object is changed profoundly and essentially. We do not simply look at it differently, or treat it differently. More than its legal status has changed. We understand that the object has turned into something new and different.)

    Moreover, a verbal designation suffices to make the transformation. Holiness comes about simply through words.

    The first verses of our  convey an even greater surprise. Words - ordinary words whose aim is not to create holiness in some object - are also holy! The Torah instructs us to carefully uphold our vows. What happens when we fail to do so? We are not described as abrogating our vow, or violating it, as we might suppose. The Torah calls it a "desecration" of our word. By what argument are they holy, that they can be desecrated? Nothing changes intrinsically through a vow. The one who took the vow must relate to its object differently - but no one else must.

    Can words alone be this holy?

    Some details of the  are also jarring. The  addresses "the heads of the tribes." Nowhere else in the Torah does Hashem direct His mitzvah to them. The halachic implication of this is well established, as cited by Rashi. Those similar to the recognized stature of the heads of the tribes, i.e. those who have recognized expertise in the area of , are the ones who as single individuals are empowered to revoke vows. Why, though, would the Torah teach us how to revoke vows before explaining the vows themselves?

    Some powerful imagery from Rabbenu Yonah provides a partial answer. The  - one of the ministering vessels used in the  - plays a major role in the process of the . The  offering takes on the full status of  when it is introduced into the . Since the  is holy, it has the capacity to invest its contents with holiness.

    By extension, a Jew's mouth can become nothing less than a We should not be surprised, therefore, that the contents of the mouth - the words that it forms and releases - should become sanctified as well.

    Why would the mouth rise to the level of , more than any other part of the body? Surely we serve Hashem with every part of ourselves, and every bit of energy He gives us! The mouth, however, stands out from other parts of ourselves. It is with our mouths that we perform so many of the mitzvos that are constant and unceasing. We use our mouths to study Torah, the all-important mitzvah which devolves upon us at all times. Prayer is a constant preoccupation; some of the remembrance-mitzvos like remembering Amalek, and remembering Shabbos through Kiddush are performed by oral declaration. The mouth excels among all the organs of the body in its service of G-d. It truly is a ministering vessel, constantly enabling our !

    As attractive as this thought might be, it appears to suffer from a fatal flaw. While the mouth can become a  for some people, for too many others the vessel is flawed and damaged. Not everyone succeeds in turning his mouth into a constant tool of Divine service, and yet all Jews can make binding vows!

    Earlier, we puzzled over the Torah's addressing the  to the heads of the , and to placing the reference to them front and center, before even setting forth the basic components of vows. The  make an observation that sets off a cascade of associations, leading to a solution of our problem. Immediately preceding our , the Torah lists all the holidays of the calendar and their special offerings. The celebration of these holidays depends upon the leaders of the community, the larger group from which the "heads of the tribes" are drawn. The chief  meets and declares which of two days is Rosh Chodesh, and when to insert the intercalated month of the leap year into the calendar. The holiday observances are completely dependant upon these actions of the court. Moreover, these actions are really not actions at all, but verbal declarations. Once again, the power of words surfaces and displays its importance. Mentioning the "heads of the tribes" at the very beginning of our serves as a logical bridge between two similar Torah sections. Both of them demonstrate the value and power of the speech of those who have turned their mouths into instruments of holiness.

    The connection between these sections can be appreciated at a deeper level.  teaches that the Divine Word is directed each day to humanity, but is only received by the heads of the community and the masters of Torah. (When Chazal taught that Yiftach in his generation is like the Shmuel of his, this is what they had in mind. Despite Yiftach's lesser stature relative to Shmuel, he still served in a similar role. As the de facto head of his generation, Hashem's Word came to Yiftach's generation through him.) Others benefit from the Divine Influence through their connection with Torah leaders.

    The mouths of ordinary people, despite being unperfected vessels, nonetheless can generate holiness because their leaders receive the Divine Influence, and use it to produce . The leaders sanctify Rosh Chodesh; they sanctify the holidays; they sanctify ordinary speech. Some of that power is shared with the ordinary members of the community. This power manifests itself in the institution of vows, which allows the holiness of words and speech to create new requirements and restrictions which should not be desecrated.

    Any person's vow can be undone by the Torah scholar. He serves in the same capacity as a father regarding the vows of his daughter, and the husband regarding the vows of his wife. Because the daughter and wife to some extent answer to the authority of others, those others are empowered to restrict certain vows. Similarly, all Jews derive their power to make vows from the Torah leaders to whom they subordinate themselves. Their vows are contingent upon them. When they do not approve, these leaders can make the vows disappear.

    Torah leaders are what make the vows possible in the first place. It thus makes perfect sense that the  should be addressed to them, and begins with them. By directing the Divine Influence to us, they potentiate our speech, giving mere words the ability to be spiritually significant. (The Gemara tells us that the laws of the Sage releasing people from vows are not so well sourced in the text as other laws. They "float in the air." In truth, these laws do not need to be made explicit. Without the Sage, there would be no significance to the vows we make. It is intuitive that the Sage have a key role in validating or dismissing them.)

    Non-Jews cannot make halachically significant vows. They can, however, consecrate animals as offerings in the Temple. Clearly, their speech can direct objects to the "ownership" of the Temple estate. These objects then have changed status relative to everyone. Their words, however, cannot create personalized transgressions that apply to no one else but the person who uttered them. Such power only come through the chief Torah personalities, with which non-Jews have no connection.

    Our words, it seems, are supercharged with holiness-generating capacity, drawing from the Divine Word itself, which is brought near to us by our association with Torah personalities. Comprehending this source of all vows gives us new appreciation of the gift of speech, and our responsibility to use it wisely.

     

     

     

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    Chabad of the Five Towns presents Beauty of Family Purity for Women class. Join renowned Kallah teacher Mrs. Sara Morosow and you will gain insights into the sanctity of Jewish family life through a four part series on Family Purity. Subsequent classes will be held on August 3: Harmony in the Home, August 10: Sanctity in Marriage Part l and August 17: Sanctity in Marriage part ll. The classes will be held at the home of Mrs. Audi Hecht, 44 Woods Lane in Woodsburgh. The cost is $15 per class or $50 for all four classes. RSVP is appreciated. Please call 516-295-2478 Ad Mosai? What have I done today to bring Moshiach? May Hashem comfort the Kletzky family and all who mourn.

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    Monday, August 1, 2011 -- Mincha at 7:55 p.m.

    Followed by Shuir and Refreshments

     

    Topic: "Narcissism: Nowadays, It's All About Me"

     

    Location: Agudath Israel of the Five Towns

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    The "Ohel Sara" Amen Group 

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    Rosh Chodesh Av

    Monday, August 1, 2011

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    9:00 AM   Hallel

    9:30 AM   RABBI DR. TZVI HERSH WEINREB  

     

    Additionally: Please join us Wednesday mornings at 9.30 am after davening to review hilchos brachos.

     

    We will read from Rabbi Forst's book.   All are welcome.

     

    This learning should be a zechus l'ilui nishmas Menachem Mendl ben Mordechai Yaakov.

     


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    CALL FOR VOLUNTEERS (Beth Shalom)

    This summer season, the Congregation Beth Shalom Shirley & Harold Bogdonoff Bikur Cholim is continuing to arrange for several members who need assistance going to and from Shul.  Our teen volunteers are off to summer camp & we invite adults to lend a hand. 

     

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    We thank all who participate in this important mitzvah!

     

     

     

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    I am starting a shiur/study group on Shemiras Haloshon.  It will take place once a week, for 4-5 weeks beginning THIS COMING WEDNESDAY, JULY 20TH, 8:30 P.M.

     

    There will be a short hashkafa shiur, learning & discussion of the halachos and a relevant story for starters.   We are hoping to have a live call at the end of the class to a Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation Posek to ask a live question.

     

    I hope it will be fun, as well as meaningful.  I would love you to join us.   Please bring a friend.

     

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    In response to our successful Ulpan classes, the YIW Adult Education Program in conjunction with Ha-Ulpan is pleased to offer a ten session Intermediate/Advanced course which will meet on Wednesday evenings (7:30 - 9:00 PM), from July 6 to September 7. The class is led by our inspiring teacher, Mrs. Erellah Katz and include a fee of $150.  

     

    If you are interested in registering for this class, please contact Gail Elsant at momdame1@aol.com 

     

    We look forward to a successful summer semester. L'Hitraot!

     

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    The Avraham Yonah Reading Group


    There are many people in our community who are home bound or for various reasons cannot get out often and seldom have visitors. The Avraham Yonah Reading Group is a volunteer group consisting mostly of women, who go to these peoples homes and read to them. It gives these individuals an opportunity to make friends, have consistent visitors and know that others care about them. 

    The organization is intended to help people who are home bound, elderly, ill and in treatment or anyone else who may benefit from this service. Volunteers will visit the individuals home for approximately 1/2 - 1 hour, and will either read a book, learn Torah, play a game or just talk with the person depending on their preference. There will be a different volunteer going each day of the week, depending on how many days are requested by the person in need. It is hoped that each volunteer will continue to visit on the same day of every week. 

    If you know of anyone who could benefit from this service, please contact us. 

    We hope you will be interested in volunteering to be a part of this wonderful chessed and join us in reaching out to our friends and neighbors who are in need and hopefully making a difference in their lives.

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