Greetings!
In his book titled, Not a Fan, author Kyle Idleman has designated an entire chapter to what he calls, DTR. In case you are not familiar with what DTR stands for, it means Define the Relationship. According to Idleman, DTR is the official talk that takes place in a romantic relationship to determine the level of commitment. In other words, it's when a couple is being forced to come to grips with where things really stand. The reason this is so important is because of the expectations that one party in the relationship may have that the other may not be aware of or quite frankly, may not be willing to meet. And there is nothing worse than being in a relationship where one individual believes that things are further along than they truly are. In many cases, having a DTR moment forces one to come to the realization that his or her expectations for this relationship may never be fully realized.
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