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12 Tips for "Enjoying the Ride"
1. Make peace with your past so it doesn't spoil all the fun in your future.
2. Don't try to win every argument. Agree to disagree. (Note to self!)
3. Each day do something nice for someone.
4. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what they've been through.
5. Develop a network of friends to support you in "enjoying the ride."
6. Don't take yourself so seriously...keep a sense of humor.
7. Use your "resiliencey resources." ie - spend time doing your favorite activities. (See some of Sarita's faves in the photos to the right)
8. Smile. Laugh. Play.
9. Create a list of FUN things to do, then start doing them.
10. Don't take things personally. It's usually NOT about you.
11. Ask for what you want. If you don't ask, you don't get.
12. Remember...no one is in charge of your happiness except you.
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