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Sarita's Five Favorites from the book -"The Rules of Love: A Personal Code for Happier, More Fulfilling Relationships"
Rule #9: You can't change people
Don't think you can change someone. You won't. You'll just make both of you miserable. The other person may choose to change certain behaviors, but won't be able to change their basic personality.
Rule #16: Don't paint new partners with old brushes
Most of us have a past. Don't let that get in the way of the next partnership...personally or in business.
Rule #28: Accept the differences; embrace what you have in common
Better yet, don't just accept differences...see the benefit in it. The best teams contain people with different strengths.
Rule #43: Know when to listen and when to act
Sometimes people just want you to validate their feelings of upset, anger or hurt by listening and acknowledging with an occasional "uh-huh." If you're not sure, ask: "Do you want my advice or do you just need to get it off your chest?"
Rule #95: Know when to let go
If they're no longer contributing anything positive to your life, and nor are you to theirs, make a conscious decision to end it. Explain that you feel the partnership isn't benefiting either of you. |
Where can you see Sarita speak locally?
San Diego Presentations open to public
Mira Costa College - Community Services Workshops
Click on titles below to register or get more info:
"If You Can't Say Something Nice, What DO You Say?" Friday, March 13
A constructive confrontation and conflict resolution workshop based on Sarita's book.
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I look forward to collaborating with you in the near future. Enjoy your Valentine's Day!
PS - Click on the ruby red slippers below to offer your support.
NOTE: These are not Sarita's salsa-dancing shoes! :) These are related to Sarita's new role on Oceanside's YMCA Board of Directors. Those hit hard by economic downturns are hoping you'll help.
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