"Intention is like an arrow flying toward a target."

I find the word "try" to be a bit trying. It's taken me a while to realize that any time I try to do something, there is a part of me that really doesn't think I can--or doesn't even want to--do it. Do you find the same to be true?

The definition of "try" is: "to make an effort to do or accomplish something; attempt, strive. Causing strain, hardship, or distress." Trying, striving, attempting, making an effort--none of these words inspire or motivate me to want to move forward. The underlying assumption behind these words is that I can't really do it and will probably fail "trying."

I see two distinct areas that often involve the word "try". The first is how we use the word "try" in our speaking. If I say to you, "I'll try to call you this weekend," you probably wouldn't receive a call from me. The lack of intent behind this statement is kind of wimpy!In recent years, I have made a decision to eliminate the word "try" from my vocabulary. Now I might say, "I plan to call you mid-afternoon on Saturday." And then, I write it down and follow through with my word. If something comes up and I can't follow through, I contact the person to re-negotiate the date and time.

The second "trying" area involves trying to please someone. Have you ever tried to please someone? Do you find yourself trying to be different in order to make your boss, your parent, a relative, or a partner happier or to like you more?  

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