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Colada
A drink of Knowledge Wisdom and Change
"Each man (is) the architect of his own fortune."
Appius Caecus
E+R=O
Like the Law of Attraction this formula is also a Law, and it too has to be understand and obey. What do the letter mean you ask: E is for Event, R is for Response and O is Outcome.
All the Event in your life, YOU have may a CHOICE as to YOUR Response to that Event. That Response gave you the Outcome of Your Choice.
Go back and read that last 2 line again and take a minute to THINK about things that happen in your life. We know that hind sight is 20/20 and you do not want to live your life looking in the rear view mirror all the time, but be honest with yourself. If you had RESPONSED in a difference way would the Outcome had been the same? I Dare to say NO.
This Law essential says that you are 100% REPONSEABLE for what happen to YOU. If you do not like the OutcomeCHANGE YOUR RESPONSE.
What this means is that: if things did not come out the way you wanted them to, you can not blame anyone but yourself. You createdthe OUTCOME by how you RESPONDED to the EVENT.
Now you have to make a CHOICE. YOU can make any excuse that you want as to why the outcome was not what you wanted or you can take responsibility for the outcome. George Washington Carver put it this way "Ninety-nine percent of all failures comes from people who have a habit of making excuses."
The other choice of stepping up and admitting that you did create the outcome and ask yourself some tough questions, like : What did I do to get this outcome? What was I thinking? What was my belief? What could I have done to change the outcome? What do I need to do next time to get the results that I want?
This 100% RESPONSIBILITY by you will give you back the power to make a difference in your life to produce YOUR desired results.
Now the difference between living your life looking in the rear view mirror and CHECKING your RESPONSIBILITY, is like night and day. If you are living with I should have done this or that or I got 3 touch downs in the home game and all you do is TALK TALK TALK. Then you are living you life looking in the rear view mirror.
On the other hand if you take time at the end of the day to write down what you did and the outcome and you do the same at the end of the week and the end of the month and year with a GOAL of how could I have change the OUTCOME. So that the next time this come up I will get the OUTCOME that I want, then you are using the law to help you.
There are couple of ideas that come to mind that should help you to fully understand this law. If you keep doing what you have always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got and In Life You Either Create or Allow Everything that happens to YOU.
As you embark on this journey of drinking Coladas with me I going to be asking you to not only to think outside the box but to change somethings you are now doing, with that in mind please make a copy of this to look at when you are not sure:
Come to the Edge. He said.
They said: We are AFRAID.
Come to the Edge. He said.
They came. He pushed them. And they flew
Guillaume Apollinaire
Come Fly with Me........Jack Boston
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