November, December 2008 Volume 1 Issue 10
In This Issue

It's Party Time

They're Here 

Coaching for Success

Favorite Books
 
EVENTS
 
Jo Smith Associates
Attract Perfect Clients
The University Club
Portland OR
January 20, 2009
www.josmithassociates.com
- - - - - - - -

An Address with PSU
President Wim Wiewel
City Club of Portland
Friday Forums
The Governor Hotel
www.pdxcityclub.org
December 12th 2008
 
Despite the Downturn: How the Legislature Can Move Oregon Schools Forward
City Club of Portland
Friday Forums
The Governor Hotel
www.pdxcityclub.org
December 19th 2008
 
Economic Forecast Forum
City Club of Portland
Friday Forums
The Governor Hotel
www.pdxcityclub.org
January 9th 2009
 
booksFavorite Books
 
At the end of 2008, I'm remembering my exhilarating 2007 trip to Rwanda, wishing I'd made such a trip in 2008, and formulating plans for an adventure in 2009.  In the spirit of remembering Rwanda, I just completed The House at Sugar Beach, In Search of a Lost African Childhood, by Helene Cooper.  Cooper relates her fascinating story of growing up the daughter of two Liberian dynasties, living in an extended family in a stratified country, escaping a "war-torn, third-world hell" and landing in, of all places, Knoxville, TN.  Cooper finished high school and college in the United States, became a US citizen and a foreign correspondent with the Wall Street Journal.  She visited the farthest corners of the world, traveled with Madeleine Albright and briefly covered the war in Iraq, before being drawn back to Liberia to revisit her homeland and reconnect with a "sister" of her childhood, a daughter of lesser parentage taken in by Cooper's family, but left behind when they fled Liberia.  Cooper's experiences range from the ordinary to the extraordinary and her biography allows us to share them - without the risks and deprivations she successfully navigated with equal parts of luck, determination and mastery.
manage
It's Party Time!
How to be a Great Holiday Host 
 
We're already in the midst of the party season, but it's not too late for a reminder about the role of hosting holiday events. If you're hosting a holiday business party, presumably the purpose is to express your appreciation for your business relationships and to strengthen those relationships so business will continue to flourish in 2009 and beyond. As a guest at others' events, you can mingle with or without intention and with little responsibility. As a host, however, you have the responsibility - and the opportunity - to make each of your guests feel welcome and comfortable, to serve your guests and their interests.

Paradoxically, in doing so you'll also serve your own interests by strengthening your business relationships and ensuring future business.

How can you make your guests feel welcome and serve their interests at your event? Here are a few suggestions:

First, designate firm members to serve as greeters (in addition to staff people who might be greeting, taking coats, providing directions, etc.) to welcome each guest, help them to food and drink, and introduce them to a colleague or another guest. In short, the job of the greeters is to help integrate each guest into the party. The size of your firm and guest list will, of course, determine how many greeters are needed to make sure this is done well. You can rotate greeters informally or on a pre-planned schedule, but it's important that you do whatever is necessary to fulfill this important responsibility and make this a great event for your guests.

Second, remind every firm member that he/she is a host and should 1) watch for stray guests who look lost and alone, strike up a conversation with them, and introduce them to a colleague or to another guest with a few facts of interest or commonality, 2) consciously connect people who might be valuable to each other (especially guest-to-guest) and 3) move from group to group to stimulate conversation and when appropriate, promote a guest, i.e., "Did you know John's company just launched a new water sports product?" For introverted firm members who hate to network, the rewards of shifting their focus from their own discomfort to the comfort of their guests can be substantial.

Third, have fun! Set a tone of gratitude and good humor. Happiness is contagious. As anyone who's hosted a holiday event knows, the investment of resources is substantial. Leverage your investment by making this an event your guests will remember for all the right reasons!
double
They're Here!
Leading Multiple Generations
 
Gen Y, the oldest of whom are now 27, is arriving in the work force en masse and we're hearing more and more about the challenges of managing and integrating this group that rivals the Boomers in size. 
 
Though some of the challenges are unique, i.e. different norms and methods of communicating, good management and leadership methods are effective regardless of generation.  Here are a few reminders:
 
1)  Recognize commonalities and build on them.
  Using lawyers as an example, lawyers love the law, they love intellectual challenges and helping their clients solve problems.  What binds the people in your firm, regardless of generation?  Examples can be broad, as those above, or they can be unique to your firm, such as loving innovation or loving tradition.  Whatever the members of your firm value, regardless of generation, provides an opportunity for strength.
 
2)  Recognize differences and embrace them.
  I believe it's the job of each younger generation to challenge society with such questions as "Why do we do this?" "How can we do that better?" and so on.  Instead of being threatened, it's the job of older generations to seriously evaluate the questions, suggestions, and norms of newcomers and to judiciously incorporate those that lead to improvements, even paradigm shifts.  What does Gen Y know how to do that the older generations don't?  An obvious answer is the many ways they use technology for communication.  Consider asking them to teach the older members of the firm. They'll appreciate the recognition and all will benefit.  In return, enlist your older firm members to mentor the new arrivals with experience that only they can pass along.
 
3)  Recognize that generational differences and commonalities are generalizations.
  They exist not in a vacuum, but are part of an overlapping weave of traits and behaviors.  People are unique and they uniquely reflect multiple influences.  For example, preliminary research indicates that personality trumps generation in determining behavior.  Other factors that influence behavior include gender, race, ethnicity, geography and much more.
 
4)  Use good management and communication skills to manage individuals.
  Know the people who work with you, especially those who report to you.  It isn't enough to know their job description and their skills.  Know what they want to achieve, what they want to learn, what motivates them.  How can you help them achieve their goals while simultaneously meeting the needs of the firm? Utilize and grow their strengths. Welcome suggestions and remember that we can all learn from each other, regardless of lines of authority.  Praise often and publicly and correct sparingly and privately.  These are methods that respect people and are effective without regard to generation.
 
Build on commonalities, embrace differences and manage people well and your multiple generations will be a priceless asset.
coaching
Coaching for Success
 
Coaching is the perfect way to commit to the success of your new 2009 initiatives.  We can help you exponentially increase the success of your initiatives by providing guidance and accountability.  If you don't have new 2009 initiatives, we can help you strategize and implement plans to achieve your goals for continued success.  You can learn more at www.josmithassociates.com or contact me directly.
Sincerely,
Jo Smith
503.234.5044
Quote of the Month for Highly Successful People

Happiness is when what you think, what you say
and what you do are in harmony. 
-Mahatma Gandhi

Lucky Women Press©