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March 27, 2010
Journey Beyond art, man on road to sunrise
Journey Beyond Set for August 25-29 in Indiana
People Can Change has scheduled its much-anticipated Journey Beyond experiential personal-growth program for:
 
 Wednesday afternoon, August 25,
through Sunday morning, August 29,
in Indiana, south of Indianapolis.
 
Journey Beyond is an advanced-level, 4 day, 4 night program for men who have completed Journey Into Manhood and also done other significant personal-growth work, such as:    
  • individual therapy or life-coaching;
  • regular participation in men's groups that focus on emotional processing and self-discovery;
  • Floyd Godfrey's "Adventure in Manhood" outdoor adventure program; and/or
Journey Beyond builds on principles taught in Journey Into Manhood and the New Warrior Training Adventure, including
  • Authenticity, integrity, and connection to feeling
  • Knowing your life's mission and living in mission
  • Internal and interpersonal connection to masculinity
  • Overcoming body shame and sexual shame
Journey Beyond takes men deep into the masculine archetypes of Warrior, Lover, Magician, and King -- in both their Golden states and Shadow poles. Particular focus is on
transcending shadows in a man's Warrior and Lover states.
 
Journey Beyond helps men take a hard look at their shadows around the feminine, and face emotional obstacles that may be blocking them from engaging with women more powerfully. 
 
Journey Beyond helps men deepen intimacy in 4 key relational areas of their lives:
  • with self
  • with the masculine, internally and externally
  • with the feminine, internally and externally
  • with God, or a Higher Power or Higher Purpose
 
 
 
What Past Participants Experienced
 
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"Journey Beyond re-affirmed my personal journey to wholeness, helped me reconnect with brothers in fun and wholesome ways, and stretched me in many ways toward my goal of relating to the feminine."

 

"I cannot describe the massive impact this weekend had on my life.  JIM was truly amazing, and catapulted me to a new level in my journey.  JB, however, was light years more transformational for me.  Of course, I was ready for it, open to it, and hungry to work on my issues.  But I never imagined how it could open my eyes to a new world of possibilities.  It's as if JIM lit a small portion of my journey, but JB illuminated the entire path, both behind me (where I've been) and in front of me, as well as radiating to my surroundings."

 

"I have felt warrior energy and much of it seems to be staying with it.  I can access it when I need it--this is a big step for me because in the past, warrior energy from myself or others felt threatening.  I feel assertive and direct."

 

"I am noticing new things about women.  I feel very 'separate' and 'other' from women."

 

"I am feeling much less anxiety about being around men in a variety of settings and situations."

 

"The biggest outcome for me was revealing the severity of the wounds I sustained from my mother, providing an opportunity to confront the shadows, and opening a new vision of the feminine and how to interact with it and love it in new and exciting (and more fulfilling) ways."

 

"I feel more in touch with my warrior and lover, I feel my masculinity more strongly and more often.  I feel more secure and confident."

 

"The weekend also is helping me evaluate my career path and where I want to go with my life."

 

"I now understand the importance of including my wife much more in this journey.  I grasp the importance of being emotionally connected to my wife, not to leave her out because of my involvement with my JIM brothers."

 

3 friends"It got me much more in touch with my warrior power."

 

"It has brought me so much closer to my wife, my God, other men, and myself.  I have so much more confidence now, and I have realized the importance of my wife and I healing together, not just me by myself."

 

"I felt even more of a man. I am more respectful of the women in my life."

 

"As a result of the weekend, one or more of my serious blocks to relating to women are gone."

 

"I worked through two major pieces related to men's bodies."

 

"I developed a deeper confidence in myself and my judgment."

 

"I find myself noticing women more and seeing them as humans instead of things to be feared/hated."

 

"I discovered that I have a lot of Warrior energy, which I like.  It complements my Lover energy. I miss the men from the weekend and realize that I need to establish more regular healthy contact with men."

 

"I went in with expectations of solidifying my resolve to a heterosexual life.  The JB experience went above and beyond any possible expectations I could have had, and helped me learn more ways I can cope with my feelings."

 

 
Questions? Contact Rich Wyler, founder and director of People Can CHange, at 434-985-8551 or rich@peoplecanchange.com
How To Apply for Journey Beyond
 
Journey Beyond is not filled on a first-come, first served basis, like Journey Into Manhood.
 
Instead, men need to apply and have their applications approved by a small volunteer team of senior staffers.
 
This is to ensure that Journey Beyond journeyers are well prepared for an intense and potentially triggering experience, and that they have significant follow-up support resources in place.
 
To fill out an application, click here.
 
The application may take as long as 20 minutes to complete.
 
Application deadline is Saturday, May 1, 2010 
 
You'll be notified by Saturday, May 15 if your application has been approved. There will also likely  be a waiting list in case anyone who is approved ends up declining.
Cost: US$875
 
Covers:
  • 4 day program
  • 4 nights stay at large, private camp
  • All meals
If your application is approved, your first payment (US$300 deposit) will be due on June 1, 2010.
Travel Information
 
If you are flying to the Journey Beyond location, you will fly into the Indianapolis International Airport.  Your flight should land by 12 noon on Wednesday, August 25.
 
Your return flight can be made for any time Sunday morning. Early morning flights are acceptable.
 
(Exception: Men flying to Europe may need to take overnight flights leaving late Saturday night).
 
People Can Change will arrange carpools from the airport to the camp and back.
 
Caution: DO NOT BOOK YOUR FLIGHT UNTIL YOUR APPLICATION HAS BEEN APPROVED BY PCC and we have received your initial $300 deposit.
Applying to Staff
 
We need a dedicated volunteer staff of about 32 men to make Journey Beyond happen.
 
If you have completed Journey Beyond as a journeyer, or have staffed previously, and would like to apply to staff this year, please fill out an online application by Thursday, April 15.
 
People Can Change Position Statement on New Warriors
 

     "A great many men who are on a healing journey out of unwanted same-sex attractions (SSA) have benefited from the ManKind Project's New Warrior Training Adventure and follow-up Integration groups, including most of the senior People Can Change leadership.

 

    "However, as powerful and impactful as New Warriors can be for many men, the board of directors of People Can Change does not universally recommend New Warriors to every man who struggles with SSA, nor does People Can Change recommend New Warriors without reservations.

 

     "...We strongly recommend that any man on a journey out of SSA be firmly grounded in his commitment to change and in his personal faith before going through the New Warrior initiation weekend.

 

     "The bottom line, of course, is that every man must make his own decision and take responsibility for doing his own work..." 

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To request a copy of the complete PCC position statement on New Warriors, along with survey results of Journey Into Manhood graduates who have also completed the New Warrior Training Adventure, email rich@peoplecanchange.com