GLOBAL EXPERIENCE  NEWSLETTERJULY/AUG 2011

Group GE 2011 

             
IN THIS ISSUE
From the Desk
Host Family of the Month
Pakistan World
Success in Sports and Life
Recipe of the Month
STUDENT FEEDBACK CORNER

 
"I could never imagine that a host family could be as friendly as Makrypodis Family since my previous Host Family wasn't that great!"
 
Janine Hartel for Makrypodis Family, Earlwood 
HOMESTAY HOST INSURANCE-PLUS

 

The homestay Host Insurance-Plus cover is AUD $100 or $110 per year depending on the cover option selected, including all statutory charges, premium and brokerage. 

 

You are not limited in the number of students you can host during the insurance year - only one confirmation of cover each year.

 

When you register with this insurance, please quote reference as follows:

AUS01

 

For further info please visit:

www.homestayhostinsuranceplus.com

F R O M  T H E  D E S K

 

Hello everyone!

 

And here we find ourselves one more time welcoming the Spring!  Days are longer, birds singing and flowers blossoming, what a wonderful time of the year.

 

I have been very blessed enjoying the past week in Cairns with my husband, my dear sister and her husband. 

 

We have been living in Australia for 32 years and this is the first time only the 4 of us enjoyed a few days away together.  Before children, friends and pets, now us.  Great time to reconnect and slow down, now ready to go back to the big smoke and flow with the last trimester of the year.

 

As usual this newsletter is full stories, recipes and inspiration so I wish you can take a few minutes to browse through it.  At present we have launched our "Host Revamp Program" so in the near future you will receive a call from one of us in the team.  The intention of this program is to continue with the ongoing update of data plus explaining to you where we are heading as a business and to invite you to participate in different forms if you wish to do so.

 

From sunny Queensland, best wishes to you all!!!

 

Sonia Ortega

Managing Director 

HOST FAMILY OF THE MONTH - JEANY IMMANUELL & RUSMIN LIONG
By Jeany Immanuell


Wow, it's such an honour to be nominated as the host family of the month.  Thank you so much for the trust given to our family to host overseas students.  It's great being a member of Global Experience Family. 

We are a family of five - me, my husband Rusmin, my mum and our two sons Nathan and Christopher.  We originally came from Indonesia.  I came from Jakarta whilst my husband from Lampung.  We love being Australian/Indonesian. 

I currently run my own bookeeping business and my husband is a taxi driver.  It was such a big challenge for our family to settle in Australia and luckily during those times we had great support from our family and friends.  I reckon that it is also an advantage of being part of a community group.  We love this country - a great multicultural country where we are going to raise our children.

It's been over 3 years now that we have been a homestay family.  I love to host students - we always treat them as our family member - as I can imagine how they feel - being far away from their own family.  I was born as the only child and really love to have an extended family.  The students are just like my nieces and nephews.

The students enjoy their staying with us firstly because they feel our home as their second home and also because of the food.  It is also probably because they feel part of our family.

The secret is to treat people with respect and you will earn that back also.  I am always open towards them because they are treated as part of the family.  I'm happy when they are happy.  It feels good to help them.

I've always been reminded that one day my son maybe will study abroad and I would like his homestay to treat him like their own family.  What you give is what you receive back.  We also need to be open to the students so they won't hesitate to ask for help if need be.  We get them involved in family activities as this is a good ice breaker.

We used to have a student who now moved to another part of Australia.  I'm so honoured that we can be of help to her, sharing our life story we have become good friends.  Also it gives me a good feeling when I can give encouragement and be a good role model for our students.

Homestay has taught me so many things especially how to care for other people and to tolerate people's differences.  Sharing is caring...

PAKISTAN WORLD

 

Agriculture is the mainstay of economy in Pakistan.  About 50 percent of the population is involved in farming, forestry and fishing that together contribute to 25 percent of the GDP.  Barring the regions  of north and the west, which are covered by mountains, the rest of the country has fertile plains where crops like wheat, cotton, maize, sugar cane and rice are grown.  The areas of Quetta and Kalat are known for their fruits and dates.  Pakistan is self-sufficient in wheat, rice and sugar.

 

Urdu is the only official language of Pakistan.  Although English is generally used instead of Urdu in this regard.  English is the lingua franca of the Pakistan elite and most of the government ministries.  Urdu is closely related to Hindi but is written in an extended Arabic alphabet rather than in Devanagari.  Urdu also has more loans from Arabic and Persian than Hindi has.

 

Islam is practised by the majority of Pakistanis and governs their personal, political, economic and legal lives.  Among certain obligations for Muslims are to pray five times a day - at dawn, noon, afternoon, sunset and evening.  Friday is the Muslim holy day.  Everything is closed.  During the holy month of Ramadan all Muslims must fast from dawn to dusk and are only permitted to work six hours per day.  Fasting includes no eating, drinking, cigarette smoking or gum chewing.

 

The extended family is the basis of the social structure and individual identity.  It includes the nuclear family, immediate relatives, distant relatives, tribe members, friends and neighbours.  Loyalty to the family comes before other social relationships even business.  Female relatives are protected from outside influences.  It is considered inappropriate to ask questions about a Pakistani's wife or other female relatives.

 

Male friends often walk holding hands or with their arms around each other, but men and women hardly ever display any form of physical affection in public.  There is a fair amount of touching between men and men and women and women during conversations.  This is not the case between genders.

 

Pakistani's tend to favour a mix of indirect and direct communication.  When speaking to people older than oneself, the style is mostly indirect.  When speaking to people one's own age or younger, the style is usually direct. 

 

Avoid talking about Islamic religion in an insulting manner.  Even slight criticism or humor is to be avoided at all costs.  Humor plays a part in communicating but it's best avoided using it until a friendship is established.  Sarcasm does not usually translate well and it's best to not make jokes about ethnic and/or religious issues.  It tends to be considered acceptable to interrupt and talk over people during conversations.  When asked to do something it's best to avoid answering with a direct "no".  The better answer could be something like "I will try" or "it's possible".  Pakistanis will often answer with "Inshallah" or "God Willing".  

 

If invited to a Pakistani's home, bring the hostess a small gift such as flowers or quality chocolates.  Men should avoid giving flowers to women.  Do not give white flowers as they are used at weddings.  If a man must give a gift to a woman, he should say that it is from his wife, mother, sister, or some other female relative.  Do not give alcohol.  Gifts are also opened when received.  Gifts are given with two hands.

 

If you are invited to a home you will most likely have to remove your shoes.  Check to see if the host is wearing shoes.  If not, remove yours at the door.  You also need to dress conservatively and may arrive an hour later than the stipulated time when invited to a party.  Guests are served first, then the oldest, continuing in some rough approximation of age order until the youngest is served.  You will be urged to take second and even third helpings.  Saying "I'm full" will be taken as a polite gesture and not accepted at face value.

 

 SUCCESS IN SPORTS AND LIFE
 
For many, success in sports and in life is "winning".  It is considered to be the ultimate goal.  In life, winning is the acquisition of power, prestige and financial wealth.  In sports, it is winning a game or a championship - not according to Coach John Wooden.

To Coach Wooden:

"Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of your self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming."

 

John Wooden has widely been regarded as the best college basketball coach in history.  He was the first person ever to be enshrined in The Basketball Hall of Fame as both a player and a coach and his 10 NCAA Championships at UCLA have neer been matched.

 

The keys to his success in motivating and inspiring his players (including Kareem Abdul Jabbar and Bill Walton) are the same principles that make one's life a success.  His players have said that they don't recall Coach Wooden ever stressing the importance of winning a game.  For him, it was about sticking to the fundamentals.

 

On the first day of practice at the beginning of a new season he would say to his players that he wasn't going to talk to them about winning or losing because that was a by-product of preparation.  He preferred to focus on the process of having them become the best team they were capable of becoming. 

Even when he taught English in high school he recalled seeing parents criticize their children for receiving less than an A or B.  He wanted to communicate the message that success in life isn't just about how much stuff you have or how powerful you've become; it's about finding peace of mind in knowing you are the best you can be.

At the heart of his coaching were the principles of excellent physical condition, skill and team spirit with preparation being the outcome.  To Coach Wooden: "Failing to prepare is preparing to fail".

This also holds true for success in living a productive and meaningful life.  You must prepare yourself by acquiring the necessary life skills and then work to become the best that you can be.

Coach Wooden also emphasized building character rather than reputation.  He felt that you should:
  • Learn as if you were to live forever; live as if you were to die tomorrow.
  • Never compare yourself to others.
  • Success is not trying to be better than someone else - which you may never be; instead it's learning from others and striving to reach your own level of competency.
  • Only you can determine whether or not you put forth your best effort.
  • Never permit yourself to become too involved with things you cannot control since it will adversely affect the things you can control.

When John Wooden graduated from grade school, his father gave him a piece of paper with a creed written on it which has helped him throughout the best and most difficult times in his life.  He lives by the seven points of it each and every day - personally, professionally and spiritually.

 

John Wooden's Seven Point Creed

  1. Be true to yourself
  2. Make friendship a fine art
  3. Make each day your masterpiece
  4. Build shelter against a rainy day
  5. Help others
  6. Drink deeply from good books
  7. Pray for guidance and give thanks for your blessings every day

Coach Wooden was one of the most successful and respected coaches ever because he emphasized that true success in life in personal responsibility, integrity and hard work.

 

He stressed that being prepared and being the best that you could be was the ultimate goal.  It was no coincidence that winning happened to be the by-product.

 

(Adapted from www.essentiallifeskills.net)


RECIPE OF THE MONTH - Tikka Boti

 

 

 Ingredients:

1/2 kg cubes of beef 

2 tbs raw papaya (grinded)

1/2 tsp ginger (Adrak) paste

1/2 tsp garlic (Leshan) paste

1/2 tsp salt (according to the taste)

2 tbs yoghurt

1 tbs chili (Lai Mirch) powder or you can also use 1 tbs chopped green chilies

 

Methods:

1. Mix together all the spices, yoghurt and papaya and coat the beef cubes with it.

2. Leave to marinate for 5-6 hours preferably overnight.

3. Grill/barbeque over charcoal.

4. Serve with mint (Podina) chutney, yoghurt, onion rings and naan.

 

Serving: 2-3 persons

 

  

"You cannot dream yourself into a character: you must hammer and forge yourself into one."


- Henry D. Thoreau -