• choosing the easy tasks first?
• putting off chores you don't like until later, or tomorrow?
• purposely distracting yourself to avoid facing something?
• shuffling around that stack of papers on your desk that seems to keep growing?
• staying up late watching TV ?
• spending too much time on the computer when you know you must be somewhere soon?
• eating sweets and telling yourself, "This is the last time?"

If you said "yes" to any of these questions, or if others examples come to mind, then I invite you to look beyond these tasks and ask yourself, "Where else in my life do I display that very same type of behavior?" 

• Am I a procrastinator? 
• Do I avoid?
• Act lazy?
• Am I undisciplined?
• Do I self-sabotage?
• Do I spend too much time focusing on the small details?
• How often do I say the words, "I'll do it tomorrow?"  
• Am I a great friend to others, but don't seem to make time for myself?

Creating a life you love, requires a vision, goals, and plan of action. Most of all, it requires that you make choices that are in alignment with your road map.  Do you notice that you are meeting your goals or do they only feel like far off dreams?  Perhaps, because up until now, you have not been aware of how the little choices in your life reflect the larger picture of your life.  Okay . . breathe . .