Toronto, ON                                                                                              September  2007

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HypnoBirthing News
 
published by Jennifer Elliott, HypnoBirthing Childbirth Educator
 
www.lifesjourney.ca 416-462-1938




What you think about the most or focus on the most, is what will appear in your life.

Michael Beckwith
from The Secret




 
 
 
 

2007 HypnoBirthing Stats

 

births: 42

unmedicated:24

  home births: 12

intact perineums: 6

(not everyone reported)
 

Please send in your

Birth Reports so that your birth is included in these stats!
 
 
And remember to announce your births to your classmates.
They are waiting to hear your news!
 





 
 




 
 
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HypnoBirthing classes have moved!


Arthur closed his store, Four Winds, this summer to take on full time care of his one year old (HypnoBirthed) son. I am grateful for his support for HypnoBirthing and wish him much joy and satisfaction in his new role.


HypnoBirthing moved around the corner to With Child, a small store specializing in pregnancy and parenting, located at 705 Pape Ave. Check out their products and programs for parents and babies at www.withchildonline.com


The Oct 9 Hypnobirthing series will be held at Becoming Maternity, 505 Eglinton Ave. Becoming offers unique products and classes on baby care and breastfeeding which supplement
HypnoBirthing.

www.becomingmaternity.

com


 



Next 5 week series begin:



Tues. Oct 9

Thurs Oct 18

Mon. Nov. 5

Tues Nov. 20

 Thurs. Jan. 10


 
Learn more:
 
 
 
Having another  baby?
 
Take your second HypnoBirthing class for half price! Attend as many classes as you like!
 
 
 
 
 
 








UPCOMING EVENTS


HypnoBirthing Celebration

Watch for an announcement of the fall date. Meet other HypnoBirthing parents, babies and toddlers and inspire expectant parents



Yard Sale and Breastfeeding Challenge

Sat Sept. 29, 10-2

A Fundraiser for Newman Breastfeeding Clinic and Institue of Toronto

at the Canadian College of Naturopathic Medicine
1255 Sheppard Ave E
at Leslie

Participate to set the record for number of breastfeeding mums and babies at 11 AM

More info: mom2momdani@gmail.com





Greetings!

 
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Creating your Birth Environment

I hear all kinds of reasons for birthing at home: "Birth is not a medical event;" "There is no temptation of pain medication;" "I'm afraid of hospitals;" "It's one less trip to make." One woman recently explained it a little differently to me. She confessed that she tends to be a rule follower. She believes that in hospital she would be conscious of hospital policies and practices rather than tuning into her own needs. In short, she is concerned that she would be a compliant patient focussed on meeting the requirements of others, rather than an autonomous birthing woman, following the lead of her body.

She may also be aware that research supports her choice of birth place. A 2005 Canadian study found that for low-risk woman homebirth is just a safe as hospital birth for mothers and babies.  Perhaps more so if we consider that medical interventions such as augmentation of labour and episiotomies are more common in hospital and the risk of the mother or baby getting an infection is also higher.

Whether you plan to birth at home or hospital consider that you will likely be spending most of your labour, if not all, at home. Begin to think about the environment that will best support the opening of your body. Many mammals in labour (think of dogs and cats) seek a warm, dark, private place, a place of safety. Where might you find this in your home? For some woman it's the bathroom, already a private place. You might sit on the toilet, perhaps facing the tank and leaning into a pillow. Or relax in a bath or shower, the room softened by candlelight and perhaps scented with lavender, your Hypnosis CD or calming music playing in the background. Likely you'll move to other rooms as well but may want to create a similar mood there.

The physical environment will support your relaxation and focus. A positive emotional environment is also important. You may appreciate the gentle, encouraging reminders and touch of your partner and other support people. Make sure that everyone attending your birth trusts that birth is a normal life event. Birth is not a spectator sport, so invite only those who have a role, even if it's as photographer or caterer.

As you tune deeply into your body you become less and less aware of the outside environment. With your partner acting as liaison with hospital staff, or with your midwives, you can safely go deeper into relaxation, ignoring distractions. In this deeply relaxed state the location may be unimportant as you focus on drifting deeper into your birthing body, trusting that it will tell you when to let your support people know that you are ready to bring your baby into the world.

Have a safe, relaxed birth, wherever you are!


Jennifer

HypnoBirthing Childbirth Educator


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A dad tells the story of his son's beautiful HypnoBirth. Note that they were encouraged by hospital staff to stay home even when the surges were quite close. Meaghan waits until she feels she is ready to go and then births a few hours later after relaxing in the Jacuzzi.


The Birth of Alec

Our little guy arrived at 21:37.  Alec J weighed in at 8lbs, 2oz.

The delivery was absolutely beautiful.  Meaghan started labouring at home at about 10.30 AM. She handled it pretty well on her own but around 13.30 she called me and told me to come home.  Contractions were 3 to 4 minutes apart, and we called the hospital and they told us to wait as long as we could before coming in.

Meaghan had a bath, we used the relaxation techniques (including the partner's script, which worked great).  Around 16.30, Meaghan decided she was ready to go to the hospital.

When she was examined at the hospital, Meaghan was 3 cm dilated (and a bit disappointed).  Her waters were broken (she was ok with this) and went to 4. We got in the Jacuzzi around 17.30 and Meaghan zoned out completely, using the techniques and staying totally calm and relaxed.

I did the best I could to comfort her, applying cold cloths, talking her through the contractions, reminding her to breathe. A mere two hours later, and after 20 minutes of a really intense transition (the only time she was close to losing her focus), Meaghan was fully dilated and ready to push. (She tried the "breathing out" technique but it really didn't work for her.)

Two more hours of pushing (really tough for about 30 minutes at the end) and Alec was born. She took her time with the crowning which seemed to give her time to stretch.

The entire process was very calm and relaxed.  I made it clear to the staff  (and it was clear from our demeanours) that we didn't want any yelling or shouting, and they respected our wishes. 

Alec was very quiet when he was born. He was big and healthy and we're all doing great.

We wanted to thank you for your help; we probably wouldn't have made it through without your guidance and techniques.

Drew and Meaghan
 

 
 

Research: It's OK to eat in labour
 
A randomized study of 2,426 birthing women in the UK, published in the May issue of the American journal Ob.Gyn News, found that there was no increase risk to women who ate in labour.

Vomiting was not more common among women who ate. The most feared complication of food intake during labor-pulmonary aspiration of gastric contents, especially while under general anesthesia-did not occur. The restriction of food intake dates from the 1940s when general anesthesia was more common if a Caesarean was required. Today epidural or spinal anesthesia is the common anesthetic for surgical birth.

The researchers found that eating increased women's satisfaction with their births. Not all women chose to eat and very few did so during second stage.

Many practitioners believe that nourishment and hydration are necessary for the labouring body to have the energy for labour. However, a very relaxed labouring woman may not require much nourishment, particularly in a short labour. Listen to your body.


 



SEVEN MINUTES TO MAGIC!

By Nancy Ross, Imago Relationship Therapist
 
 
Having a baby is a big and wonderful transition in your life. Caring for your little one can be completely absorbing. This shift in your attention, and new demands on your time, can distract you from caring for your relationship with your partner. Psychotherapist Nancy Ross offers a quick way to ensure that you keep the love and emotional connection between you as you move into parenting. She advises:

Commit to 7 minutes a day. Start and your partner will quickly catch on.
 
1) Take your partner's hand, or sit across from your partner over morning coffee, or grab them as they head out the door in the morning.
 
2) Look at your partner with soft, gentle eyes.
 
3) Choose to use a kindly tone of voice and say, "I really appreciate that you------" and tell them something you remember that they did recently. Easy things, like: made coffee this morning, brought home milk last night, helped one of the kids get dressed, remembered to call mom, are wearing something you gave them as a gift ages ago, smiled at you a couple of days ago. Whatever. Remember something you might well have noticed before but simply didn't mention.
 
4) Ask your partner to repeat what they heard you say so it lands and both of you know it really happened.
 
I predict the following: initially you will feel silly, your partner will laugh at you in embarrassment and say something like, "What?" Just smile and repeat your thank you. Then leave it at that.
 
Do this morning and night for 3 days, 3 1/2 minutes each time. By the 3rd day ask for an appreciation in return and consciously note how it feels to give and how it feels to receive. Giving daily appreciations and expecting to receive them in return, obviously requires doing something to be appreciated for. What wonderful positive energy you are welcoming into your family every day.
 
Nancy Ross is an Imago Relationship Therapist, Advanced Clinician and Workshop Presenter. Find out more at www.bloomingrelationshiptherapy.com



 
 
Birth in the News

On Aug. 18 the Ottawa Citizen discussed "The New Normal: Increasingly, Giving Birth is a Medicalized Procedure." Writer Elizabeth Payne expresses concern over the rise in medical interventions. She suggests that medical practitioners have lost sight of what a normal birth is and may intervene in almost all births, rather than patiently waiting for birth to unfold. Some physicians  have perhaps never attended a birth completely free of medical interventions. Certainly it is a rare doctor who has attended a homebirth.

CNN followed with "Five Ways to Avoid a C-Section"
Here are their suggestions:
1. Don't get induced unless medically necessary.
2. Labour at home until you're approximately 3 centimetres dilated
Many women are at home for much longer, heading to the hospital when they sense they are close to birthing. Ed.
3. Choose your hospital and your practitioner, carefully
4. In the delivery room, ask questions if your practitioner says you need a C-section
5. Get a doula.


 
 
 


The way a baby is received and welcomed at birth can have a big influence on how the baby adjusts to the new outside environment.


Contey & Yakikawa
from CALMS - A Guide to Soothing Your Baby