Sarah Susanka's Not So Big Minizine, Article 9

January 2010
Issue: 3
The Year End Review: A Tool for Finding Your Own Not So Big Life 
 
The Not So Big Life paperbackAll of us have dreams for ourselves and our lives, but sadly, most of us don't live them because we never take the time to listen to what our hearts long to do.  In The Not So Big Life, I encourage readers to engage in an exercise I call "The Year End Review" in order to find the true meaningfulness they long for.    
 
The GardenWhether or not you have read the book, this is something that can add a lot to your experience of each year as well as to your life as a whole.  And as what you dream of one year comes into being the next, it can prove to be quite an eye opener. 

The goal is to set aside a few hours at the end of each year to conduct a review of all the significant things that have happened over the past twelve months and to give voice to your heart's longings for the coming year. 

Here's what you do:
 
1.  Create a special Year End Review Journal in which to record your observations each year.

2.  Visit www.notsobiglife.com and download the pdf that accompanies the blog entry titled, Making Time for the Year End Ritual.

3.  Answer the list of questions related to the significant experiences of the past year, to your current life, and to your heart's desires.

4.  Read through the past years' entries, notice how you are changing, and what desires from previous years have begun to come into being over the past twelve months.

5.  Close the journal and don't look at it, or even try to remember what you wrote, until the same time next year.
 
Watch yourself grow to your true potentialThat's all there is to it.  Just like taking photographs of our children as they grow up, this exercise allows you to watch yourself grow into ever more of your true potential.  It's astounding to see, and will offer you that doorway into the meaningful life you've been longing to find.  Try it.  It is the best present you can give yourself this holiday season.

Finally, you can click here to read about my own experiences with the exercise last year.  If you do engage the exercise yourself, I'd love to hear what you discover, which you can post in a reply to this blog.




Be patient with all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves....Live the questions now.  Perhaps you will then, gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answers. 

--Rainer Maria Rilke




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