"Can't You Be More Like Me"
Your Success Thought for the Week of June 27, 2007
Face it: as brilliant and proven as you are,
you still have shortcomings. For example, do
you believe the world would be a lot better
off if everyone were more like you?
You may catch yourself saying: "If only (name) were more decisive or clear-headed, or realistic, or patient like me, life would be so much easier. Our team would be far more effective. We'd make it through this project/these meetings with lightening speed." Great learning presents itself through associating with people who are not like you. Life becomes more intriguing. You are compelled to stretch beyond your comfort zone. As enticing as it may seem to surround yourself with others that think and communicate like you, in time, it would get quite boring. Here's what you'd miss:
You may have seen yourself in one of these broad categorizations. If you want to learn more about your possible limiting behaviors, switch hats in your next meeting. If you are typically the realist, try being an optimist. See how this broadens your perspective. Enjoy the shock on your team members' faces when they notice this role reversal. All that any of us want in life is to enjoy it more and experience higher levels of success across the board. This week, simply notice where you hold too tightly to your familiar role. How does this block your success? Reach beyond what is familiar to you. Even a little stretch may bring noticeable results. If you catch yourself wishing others were more like you, switch your thinking to 'what if I simply understood where they were coming from more accurately? What if I valued their viewpoint even though it is different from my own? What can they teach me? What can I teach them?' Enjoy your discoveries and have a phenomenal week. Ann
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Ann Golden Eglé, MCC
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Dear Ann,
Love your missives. I like to use them
during our staff meetings as
reminders and/or inspiration for my managers.
What makes them valuable is
their simplicity and relevancy to almost any
of life's endeavors.
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