Your Success Thought on "Effective Holiday Communication"
December 7, 2005
As I listened to harrowing stories of this year's
Thanksgiving festivities from clients, associates and
friends, I couldn’t help but stand back in awe of the
blend of experiences. For some, the statements
were "Wow, what a wonderful experience." For
others: “Why do we do this to ourselves year after
year?”
I heard stories of ovens on fire; tears and cruel words; physical injuries and many, many communication misinterpretations. Yet, there were also tales of creative, loving celebrations. Why do the holidays bring about such intense emotions? I happen to be a big holiday buff. I love the merriment—the music, lights, decorations, celebrations, excuses to see those whom I’ve been too busy to see all year long. I love making delectable foods, dressing up, writing each card, and selecting each gift. Clearly not everyone thinks as I do. In contemplating this imbalance of mind-sets toward the holidays, I’ve come to the following conclusion: Our holidays will be far less stressful and far more enjoyable if we will live by one uncomplicated truth: Everyone wants to be respected. There are no exceptions. If anything has gone amiss in your holiday season to date, think of how showing more respect could have shifted the energy and outcome. How do you show your respect? Here are some suggestions when communicating with associates and family alike:
Finally, please consider who you may be taking for granted. We often act respectfully toward those whom we barely know, assuming that impressions have been solidified with those closer to us. Not so. We are changing, evolving beings. Remind those all around you how important they are to you, that your goal is to create continually enhanced relationships. To do this, you are willing to communicate effectively, giving and receiving respect. Make your challenge this year to have all your holiday interactions more effective. Incorporate the above techniques that spoke to you. If you can do this during the holiday season, the rest of the year will be a cinch! Enjoy your discoveries and have a grand week! Ann
![]() Executive Coach & President Golden Visions Success Coaching, LLC
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