Your Success Thought on "Artful Appreciation"
November 23, 2005
An individual who feels genuinely valued will go to the
extra distance for the person or scenario responsible
for creating this uplifting sensation.
Effectively-communicated appreciation is win/win
scenario in
every respect, yet many of us neglect this
fundamental key to fun, healthy, burgeoning
relationships.
What better time than Thanksgiving to explore appreciation, gratitude and the rewards of a well-placed ‘thank you’? To more fully understand it’s impact, think of the result of not feeling valued. This happens in relations across the board—partnerships, marriages, parent/child, best friends. Divorcees often tell me: “I no longer felt appreciated or valued so I was no longer engaged in making our relationship work.” Appreciation is a simple thing. It doesn’t take more time. The key is to 1) have it be a way of living, not merely a tool to pull out when it's convenient and 2) communicate it in a way that is heard. Showing authentic appreciation to someone in a manner in which they really ‘get it’ is a true art. Here are what I believe to be the crucial elements.
Consider these quotes as you ponder artful appreciation:
How can you enrich relationships through artful appreciation this week? Write out what you treasure about each person with whom you’ll interact through your professional or personal pursuits. When you see them, you’ll be prepped to sincerely deliver your message. Will they ever be surprised! Learn from their reactions. Why not broaden your artful appreciation focus into the entire holiday season? In writing your holiday greetings, add a new twist: a note about what you appreciate about the recipient. You may be surprised at how great this makes you feel as well. Next week, we’ll explore the art of ‘hearing and accepting’ appreciation when it is directed toward you. This is something in which few of us are accomplished. Enjoy your discoveries and have a warm, wonderful, appreciative Thanksgiving! Ann
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