A Thought on 'Listening In Stressful Times'
December 15, 2004
A silent curse that accompanies our holidays is that we allow stress to block us from listening to those closest to us. We get caught up in increased obligations and too easily neglect this simple, respectful and vital courtesy. We even forget to listen to ourselves.How apparent is it when you are not listening, even over the phone! Trust me-pretty apparent. While the effect on others may not be expressed verbally it is dramatic.
Think of someone who typically shows little interest when are speaking to them. What is your opinion of this person? Is it someone with whom you would like to spend time? Would you trust this person with your business?
As if the additional time crunch is not enough, other aspects of the holidays interfere with our ability to listen. Physically, unless we are careful, we consume more sugar, sleep less and are exposed to minor illnesses. Mentally and emotionally we are on overload.
In The Zen of Listening, Rebecca Z. Shafir provides a few techniques to heighten your listening skills through stressful times at any time of the year:
Some other techniques I'd love to see you consider are:
Listening is important in any relationship. It is also a fun way to expand who you are and what you know. Who doesn't want to have more fun during stressful times? This week, see how listening, truly being present and listening broadens your experiences. Don't forget to listen to the rare and beautiful silence as well.
Enjoy your discoveries!
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