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Practical Parent Education Newsletter 

December 2010
                                       
In This Issue
PPE's Next Step
Parenting and the Holidays
Managing Intensity
Building Parents' Capacity as Stakeholders
PPE Training Schedule
 

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Announcing...PPE's NEXT STEP!

Practical Parent Education, LLC, (PPE) has announced the second phase of its Parent Engagement Program for Schools.  NEXT STEP is an intense one day workshop for PPE trained facilitators who have been using the PPE program.  It is designed to help the facilitators identify their families' assets as well as their program needs for the next year and to design a program to meet those needs.

According to Lucy Long, Ph.D. PPE's Director of Operations, NEXT STEP answers the frequently asked question "How do we get parents to come?"  Tested in late 2010 using PPE's Profile of Families Checklist, this new product directs each school facilitator(s) in planning unique parent engagement activities for their unique needs. 

Although a large body of research indicates that children's home environments and their parents' engagement with their schools are powerful determining factors to their academic success, there are still gaps in how schools want parents to engage and how parents are willing to engage.  NEXT STEP is designed to close those gaps. 

Currently operating in thirty six states, Japan and Mexico, Practical Parent Education has been providing curricula, training, evaluation tools and consulting for schools and other family education groups for   twenty-six years.   As a family education program based on theories of family systems and ages and stages of children, it serves families from the time their children are born until the children are career ready.  NEXT STEP is now available to all PPE trained parent educators to provide focus for their programs.

To schedule a NEXT STEP training, please call 877.340.6262 or email ppe@practicalparent.org.

Parenting and the Holidays

PPE's own Dr. Ann Corwin appears on parentsask.com with her "Holiday Survival Guide", sharing her insider tips for "surviving" the holidays with ease. Each episode will cover topics such as "How to Teach Gratitude", "Secrets to Preventing a Spoiled Child", "Dealing with the belief in Santa" and other common issues parents deal with around the holidays.

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Managing Intensity - Even During the Tough Times
By Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
Author Raising Your Spirited Child and Sleepless in America

     Christy dashed through the door knowing that if she did not feed her four-year old son immediately the remainder of the evening would be a complete disaster.  But when she placed the plate of food in front of him instead of eating, he jumped out of his chair.  "Come back and eat", she instructed.  He returned to the table, fidgeting and squirming merely picking at the food.  She did not need this.  It had already been a long frustrating day at work.  This time she commanded, "Eat!"

     Moments later he nearly fell out of the chair.   Clenching her jaw, her voice tightened into a growl she threatened, "Sit down and eat or I'll take away your food!"  This time he lasted fifteen seconds before he was out of the chair again.  Now she was trapped.  Knowing full well he needed to eat, yet fearing that if she did not follow through she would be in worse trouble she grabbed the plate and flung it onto the counter. 

      "You can't starve me to death!" he shrieked and bolted for the refrigerator where he yanked out a juice box.  Furious, Christy lunged for the container just as he flipped it open.  The contents splashed cold and sticky, smack across her face and all over the floor. That's when she grabbed him - and he punched her. 

    "How do I stop my child from hitting me?" is a question parents frequently ask me and I am always forced to respond with another question.  What happened before he hit you?

 

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Building Parents' Capacity as Stakeholders

Parents are the biggest stakeholders in the education process. 

They have the most to give - they spend more time with their children during the first twenty-one years than educators spend. 

They have the most to lose - if schools fail, their children are at risk for incarceration and substandard job opportunities. 

They have the most to win - if schools succeed, their children will be critical thinkers who are compassionate and responsible and they will take good care of their parents in their old age.

So why is it that we have to work so hard to get parents engaged in their children's learning?  According to Kathleen Hoover-Dempsey and Howard Sandler at Vanderbilt University, there are three factors that influence the choices that parents make about being involved in their children's education:

How parents develop their job description as a parent.   What do they think they are supposed to do to help their children?

How confident parents feel about their ability to help their children.  Many parents throw up their hands and quite trying to be effective parents.

Whether parents feel invited - both by their children and by the school. Although helping parents with their parenting practices has traditionally not been a part of a public school educator's role, it is today.  Dr. Joyce Epstein lists assisting families with parenting as one of her keys for effective parent engagement programs.

The Pew  Charities Trust research reports that parenting practices are the single most definitive predictor of social ills such as teen pregnancy, juvenile delinquency, drug use, truancy and dropout.  When the school and the community partner with parents to support their parenting efforts and to build their parenting capacity, everybody's job get easier.

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    Initial Parent Educator     Training Schedule

LaJoya, Texas- January 18-19, 2011 (full)
Luling, Louisiana - January 18-19, 2011
Highland Park, Michigan - January 19-2011 (full)
DeSoto, Texas - February 8-9, 2010
McKinney, Texas - February 10-11, 2011
McKinney, Texas - May 2-3, 2011 
McKinney, Texas - July 18-19, 2011 


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PPE wishes you and yours a wonderful holiday season!