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April Harrison


Editors:

Zane Creamer

April Harrison

 

Monthly Contributors:

Becky Smith

Martha Hedge

 
 
Issue: # 4
June 2010
Greetings!

 

Welcome to Way of Life Coaching, LLC e-Newsletter! 

 

People disappoint, plans detour and projects take longer than expected. Ah yes - life is messy isn't it? In all its messiness, we tend to make things even messier by creating all sorts of systems, methodologies and patterns for living to clean up our act (and everyone else's). After all - if they would just behave in a way I could manage, then I could handle life!   

 

This newsletter is going to challenge you to open up to the possibility of your messy life getting every messier! Messier because you might realize your current methods have been hurting you and others. Messier still, in that you might find you've been believing and acting on lies for awhile now. And the mess of all messes - acknowledging that God is in control and not you. Now for the great clean up! Truth. That simple? Yes.

 

Put down the laundry basket, close down that email, silence your phone. While life might get a bit messier for awhile, God has been patiently waiting to enter in partnership with you. Will you let Him make a clean sweep?

 

A reminder of the simple structure follows:

 

WOL Community - Quick Snips: Review of the Promised Land Living Curriculum for graduates, but applicable to anyone

 

Image Bearers - Inductive Exercises: 12 month study of 1 Corinthians 15 - Fifteen minutes to build that faith muscle!

 

Free To Good Home - No Strings! Free resources & tips for families

 

Food for Thought - Bible Enrichment: Steak-sized thoughts for hearty appetites!

 

Take Note - Up & Coming: Resources, materials, products, services, events


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Cheryl Scanlan for the Way of Life Coaching, LLC Team

We are cheering you on towards your finish line!

Way of Life Community

Tear Down Those Walls!stonewall

 

We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:5

 

Close your eyes and picture a desert scene - hot, dry, barren, and fruitless. This was the Israelite way of life for almost 2 years, after 400 years of slavery in Egypt. Now, close your eyes and picture what the Promised Land must have looked like - lush, fruitful, welcoming, and full of promise. They must have been crazy not to want to enter, right? But most of the Israelites saw impossible obstacles blocking the way. They preferred circling in the desert - or even worse - heading back to slavery in Egypt! They viewed their move into the Promised Land through the eyes of man, rather than God.

 

Promised Land Living is all about moving out of our own desert into the spacious, fruitful land of blessing that God has prepared for us before the foundation of the world! We can be victors, overcomers and conquerors in this fallen world.


Desert living is full of fear, frustration and failure. Satan, the father of lies, uses lies in attempt to steal our joy, destroy our hope. Lies have been whispered to us all our lives, often without our knowing it. They likely started small, over time gaining mass and volume to the point they start to appear as insurmountable walls. We bump into these walls of lies at every turn and they block the way to our Promised Land rest. If you want to know more about the rest given to us through Christ - please read Hebrews chapter 4, marking every place you read Sabbath or rest - eye opening, isn't it? Lies seem powerful until they are put into the context of God's power. The same power that raised Jesus Christ resides in all believers. Do you understand? Do you believe? Then you can be more than a conqueror!

 

So - Are you ready to unpack a lie in your life? In Module 3 of Promised Land Living, we learned a specific tool to help you do that - The Seven Step Shift - and in Module 4, we discussed replacing lies with truth. Let's begin! 

 

Step 1:  Note the symptoms (Irritability? People-pleasing? Specific fears? Control freak? Lack of peace?)           

 

Step 2: Identify the lie (as opposed to God's truth about the matter)

                    

Step 3: Ask, "Will I tolerate the lie?" (do I want to break through that insurmountable wall?)     

 

Step 4: If not, then confess that you have believed a lie and ask God, "What truth WILL replace the lie?" (gleaned from God's word)                 

 

Step 5: Recite the truth (memorize & recite whenever that symptom arises)

         

Step 6: Ask God to show you one small step towards Truth (this involves active surrender)

                  

Step 7: Take the step (take your thoughts captive)

                  

The longer we live with lies, the more "comfortable" we become with them and the harder they are to let go. We've spent a lot of time pleasing that person, avoiding that fear, controlling that situation - you fill in the blank. This Shift Process is not a one-time event and then we're done. It's a continual process of taking these lies captive and renewing our minds with God's truth. Set your mind to practicing this shift and let those walls of obstruction come tumbling down!

 

Ask yourself: What do I think will happen as a result of shifting?

 

Scriptures for meditation:

 

1Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship.  2And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.  3For through the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has allotted to each a measure of faith. Romans 12:1-3

 

3For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh,  4for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses.  5We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, 2 Corinthians  10:3-5

 

8Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.  9The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you. Philippians 4:8-9


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A STUDY OF 1 CORINTHIANS 15

 

Before we delve into today's study, let's step back and put this letter into perspective. Paul is writing to the church at Corinth to address several problems and questions that arose since his earlier visit. False teaching had crept into the church causing some believers to be confused or doubt. One sect, the Sadducees did not believe in the resurrection as noted in Jesus' reply to them (Matthew 22:29-32) regarding God being a God of the living and not the dead. Do you know that you serve a God of the living and not the dead?

 

Paul challenges us in the lies that deny the power of the gospel. He begins chapter 15 by reminding them of the gospel he preached to them, that they received and now stand in (v1). He's urging them to "hold fast" (v2) to the word - to the truth - unless they believed in vain.

 

He then reminds them of the truth of "first importance" that he preached - that Christ was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures (v4). He continues on by recounting the eyewitness accounts that verified the truth of Christ's bodily resurrection. 

 

Then, at the opening of today's study in verse 11, Paul tells them... "so we preach (proclaim the gospel - the truth) and so you believed" (placed confidence in).

 

Now, let's take a closer look:


Step 1:  Pray that God would open your eyes to what He wants you to know and understand.

 

Step 2:  Read 1 Corinthians 15:11-19 (NASB)

11Whether then it was I or they, so we preach and so you believed.12Now if Christ is preached, that He has been raised from the dead, how do some among you say that there is no resurrection of the dead? 13But if there is no resurrection of the dead, not even Christ has been raised; 14and if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is vain, your faith also is vain. 15Moreover we are even found to be false witnesses of God, because we testified against God that He raised Christ, whom He did not raise, if in fact the dead are not raised. 16For if the dead are not raised, not even Christ has been raised; 17and if Christ has not been raised, your faith is worthless; you are still in your sins. 18Then those also who have fallen asleep in Christ have perished. 19If we have hoped in Christ in this life only, we are of all men most to be pitied.

Step 3:  Answer questions based on the text

A. Circle all the "if" words and see if you can make a list of all the "if-then" statements. Once you summarize them, your list might look like this:

IF Christ preached as raised from dead (v12) THEN how can you say He did not?

IF there is no resurrection of the dead (v13, 15, 16), THEN Christ was not raised (v13), we are false witnesses (v15), not even Christ was raised (v16)

IF Christ was not raised (v14, 17), THEN our preaching and faith are in vain (v14), and your faith is worthless/still in sin (v17)

IF we hope in Christ in this life only (v19), THEN we are of all men most to be pitied (v19)

B.  These "if-then" statements can be turned around and viewed in a positive way.  IF Christ was raised from the dead as stated by the truth of Scripture, THEN, what do we know to be true?

 

C.  Find the word "vain" (vs 14) and "worthless" (vs 17).  The Greek meanings for these two words are similar "empty, devoid of truth, fruitless, no purpose".In that respect, you could say, "if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is devoid of truth and your faith is worthless".

 

D.  Finally, one last word to look up and then we'll put it all together. Find the word "perished" (v18). The Greek meaning is "to destroy, kill, render useless". So, if we believe that those who have fallen asleep will not be raised bodily from the dead, then they have been utterly destroyed.

 

Step 4:  Put it all together

 

The resurrection of Christ is the cornerstone of the Christian faith. If Christ rose from the dead as both He and the prophets proclaimed, then we know:1) what He said is true 2) He is the son of God 3) He lives and represents us to God 4) our sins are forgiven 5) we will be raised 6) our preaching is worthwhile 7)our faith gives us hope and 8) we believers are the most blessed of all men.

 

Step 5: Put it into action

 

Some people at the church of Corinth believed a lie and needed to be reminded of the truth. When they originally heard the truth, they believed and put their confidence in the truth.  Satan threatened to steal that truth, thus undermining their faith. If he succeeded, it would have left their faith empty, devoid of truth, fruitless and useless.

 

Coaching questions:pinoccio

 

1.  When I believe a lie, what or who am I putting my confidence in?

 

2.  Is there a truth I knew, but now doubt?   

 

3.  What are some ways to combat my doubt?  What lie do I need to let go of?   

 

Believing a truth often means we have to give up a lie we are hanging onto. How can we do that? (ie:confess to God, speak to pastor or Bible study teacher, speak the truth to myself, meditate on the truth, walk in what I know to be true even when I have doubt).

 

We pray that this month's effort will provide you with a bolstering of your faith, a redirected confidence back in Christ so that men might see and marvel at your courage to stand in the gospel in which you believed.


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Do you remember the first time you cooked a meal without your mom's help? You know, that first "real" meal, complete with side dishes and dessert. Perhaps a meal meant to impress another. Do you remember how difficult it was getting the timing just right so everything was ready at once? Becky recalls many "How do I...?" calls back home and a stained, dog-eared copy of "Joy of Cooking" to get her through those frightful times. I remember a recipe calling for half of a bouillon cube. I tried to cut it with a dull steak knife (of course the only knives I had when first married). Three hours and seven stitches in my middle finger later, Tom and I were sitting down to dinner. I realized I had a lot to learn!

 

Depending on the age of your child, their future meal preparation may seem far off, but showing them baby steps now will give them more confidence in the future. Before you know it, teddy bears, baby dolls and skate boards will be cast aside for business clothes, laptops and big dreams. Amidst all the flurry of packing, be sure to pack in a "Joy of Cooking" recipe book!

 

Cooking 101 - Check list of some basicsspaghetti

  • Boiling water without boiling over

  • Draining & rinsing pasta to keep from sticking (also oil in water while cooking)

  • Browning meat & properly disposing of the grease in an old jar

  • Heating spaghetti sauce without making a mess of the stove

  • Reading a recipe all the way through before starting to ensure you have all the ingredients on hand

  • Systematically putting away ingredients as added to recipe, to prevent duplication in the event of a distraction. Also makes clean up easier.

  • Planning a meal for balance (protein, carb, veggie)

  • Adjusting cooking for high altitudes and convection ovens.

  • When to use glass or metal pans

  • Measuring and equivalents

 

For more information on basic cooking, here are some helpful sites:

http://www.bhg.com/recipes/how-to/cooking-basics/

http://busycooks.about.com/library/howtos/bllessonseries.htm

http://www.fcs.uga.edu/pubs/PDF/FDNS-NE-104.pdf


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Food For Thought

Shifting to Truth

Martha Hedge

 

When we are confronted with truth, we have a choice to believe it or reject it. Perhaps the most amazing rejection was by the guards at the tomb of Jesus.

 

The chief priests and Pharisees demanded that Pilate set a guard of soldiers at the tomb to prevent the disciples fromboulder stealing His body. A guard meant maybe 16 soldiers with at least four on duty all the time. Near dawn there was "a great earthquake, for an angel of the Lord ... rolled the boulder back and sat upon it. His appearance was like lightning....  And those keeping guard were so frightened at sight of him that they ... became like dead men." (Matt 28:2-4 AMP) They were there at the resurrection of Jesus!

 

Some of the guards reported to the chief priests everything that happened. (v11) And they not only rejected Truth Himself, they accepted a bribe to spread the lie that the disciples had stolen his body, a lie that is still circulated today. Amazing!

 

Have you ever wondered why Jesus stayed around for 40 days after His resurrection? (Acts 1:3)  He validated His resurrection and firmly established truth in His followers. Talk about a strong follow-up program! After the great sorrow of His death, the power of His resurrection was demonstrated personally to many people.

 

Two of those people were men on the road to Emmaus. (Luke 24 AMP) They were walking home, heartbroken. Jesus joined them and talked with them in a natural way. "When their eyes were opened and they clearly recognized Him...He vanished." They were so excited they hurried back to Jerusalem in the dark. They shifted to a personal realization of truth.

 

When they got to Jerusalem and were telling the disciples, Jesus suddenly appeared and terrified them all. (v37) But here's the key even for us today, "He (thoroughly) opened up their minds to understand the Scriptures...." (v45)

 

And how does that apply to us? Jesus will do for us just what He did for them. He took the Word (logos) that they had heard and opened their understanding so that it became living Word (rhema). For example, if we struggle with rejection, the (logos) Word says Jesus will never leave or forsake us. When the Spirit whispers into our understanding "I'll never leave you," (rhema) Word becomes living truth and displaces rejection.

 

Like the men who faced the lightning splendor of an angel from heaven at the resurrection tomb and said, "I don't believe", it is possible for us to encounter God and yet still make the choice to not believe. We must pray that God will open our spiritual eyes to help us see the Truth clearly before us. Once we believe Truth has been revealed to us personally, the shift from lie to truth is simple.


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Take Note
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This course is designed with the believer in mind.From the start, practice using coaching tools from a Biblical worldview. The overall course objective is to develop a quiet coaching presence so that the Holy Spirit is doing the work and not you. The goal of this training is to invigorate you so that you can in turn, do the same for others.
 
What to expect from this program:
 
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  • Keep conversations from stalling through reflection techniques
  • Create safe environments for exploration
  • Build powerful questions that create movement
  • Understand accountability and celebration from a biblical perspective and learn how to incorporate into coaching relationships
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Coaches: Who want to explore a biblical worldview of coaching and simultaneously hone their coaching skills.
 

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Meet Tracy your Trainer:

 

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Trained in professional and corporate coaching by Corporate Coach U (CCUI), Coach U, CoachWorks International, The Experiential Learning Center and The Center for Creative Leadership, Tracy has obtained the highest designation in the profession of coaching - Master Certified Coach from the International Coach Federation. She continues to expand her skills through continued education and experience. She is a Senior Faculty member of Coach U, Corporate Coach U's (CCUI) Corporate Coaching Program and former Director Accredited Programs CCUI. Tracy is also a Certified Winslow Behavior Assessment Specialist. She is a certified assessment analyst in the PCSI instrument and also administers the popular DISC and PIAV assessments.

 

Professional affiliations include, the Christian Coaches Network (CCN), the International Coach Federation (ICF), The Worldwide Association of Business Coaches (WABC), The Independent Consultants Association (ICA).

 

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Sincerely,
 
Cheryl Scanlan, Founder
Way of Life Coaching, LLC
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