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Design/Editor:

April Harrison

 

Monthly Contributors:

Becky Smith

Martha Hedge

 
 
Issue: # 3
May 2010
Greetings!

 

Welcome to Way of Life Coaching, LLC e-Newsletter! 

 
Ah! Spring and Grace - the two go hand in hand for me. A Mother's Day tradition in our family is to tour Duke Gardens in Durham. The rose garden is not only beautiful, but roseintoxicating. I can't wait to tuck my nose into one of the gorgeous blooms and be surprised and overwhelmed by the fragrance - lemon, lollipops, lilacs - as varied as the colors. The fragrance of some is powerful, and others, almost imperceptible. What of our aroma for Christ? May this month's newsletter allow you to tuck your nose into some basic but absolutely crucial understandings regarding grace - I pray the pure fragrance of God's aroma surprises you and lingers long enough to waft to those around you.

 

We pray that your time spent with us will encourage, motivate, and support your own personal efforts to draw closer to the One True Living God.

 

A reminder of the simple structure follows:

 

WOL Community - Quick Snips: Review of the Promised Land Living Curriculum for graduates, but applicable to anyone

 

Image Bearers - Inductive Exercises: 12 month study of 1 Corinthians 15 - Fifteen minutes to build that faith muscle!

 

Free To Good Home - No Strings! Free resources & tips for families

 

Food for Thought - Bible Enrichment: Steak-sized thoughts for hearty appetites!

 

Take Note - Up & Coming: Resources, materials, products, services, events


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Cheryl Scanlan for the Way of Life Coaching, LLC Team

We are cheering you on towards your finish line!

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In God We Trust?

See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. Hebrews 12:15

 

God's bountiful grace. How He liberally showers it upon His children - all for His good pleasure! We would be foolish to allow bitter roots to impede the flourishing growth of His grace in our lives. But we do - everyday - without realizing the blessings we inadvertently choke out. 

 

In Module 3 of Promised Land Living, we looked at a group of people who did just that - choked out the abundance God had for them. Do you recall when God told Moses to send 12 men in to spy out the Promised Land? (Numbers 13-14) All but two were filled with fear. They said, "We can't attack those people; they are stronger than we are," (Numbers 13:31). The Israelites knew they had no material weapons to overcome the enemy. They trusted in "horses and men" rather than in God.

 

Their misdirected fears gave rise to grumbling and complaining and a root of bitterness infected the whole camp. They were more afraid of the enemy than God. How could they have possibly forgotten the God-factor, after all the miracles they had personally witnessed?Yet, don't we tend to do the same?

 

Fear is not the real problem; it's what we do with fear that is the problem!  Clarity dispels fear. When we clearly see obstacles in light of God's power, fear is abated. The psalmist says, "In God I trust; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?" (Psalm 56:11)

 

When we don't trust in God, we grumble. When we grumble, grace get cannot abound.

 

Coaching points:

What am I longing for vs. complaining about? (Hint: They may be connected. Usually it is because I think God is not enough). Find out what I am longing for and surrender it to the Lord.

 

Complaining gives us permission to stay "stuck". What do I want to do instead?

 

How does grumbling and complaining show up in me? 

 

Where does it show up?

 

What would I like to do instead? 

When?

 

Scripture to meditate on:

 

2 Corinthians 12:9
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.

 

2 Corinthians 9:8
And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.

 

Jonah 2:8
Those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs.

 

Ephesians 4:7
But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it.


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A STUDY OF 1 CORINTHIANS 15

The past two months, we've taken a look at verses 1-11.  We've looked at what it means to "hold fast to the word" (March) and practical helps for sharing your testimony of Jesus (April). This month, we will concentrate on God's grace.

 

The Greek word for grace is "charis". Vines dictionary defines it as a benefit we receive from the gracious disposition of the benefactor. It carries with it the connotation of favor, liberality, and pleasure upon the part of the benefactor. Others have referred to grace as "God's unmerited favor". It's not anything we deserve, but something that He takes great pleasure bestowing upon us. It's a difficult concept for our earthly minds to grasp.

 

Grace is God saying, "I am enough for you", regardless of your circumstances. His grace empowers us in our weaknesses and supplies us with everything we need to carry out His will. Paul well knew the power and sufficiency of God's grace. His epistles liberally speak of it. Paul, the most undeserving because of his persecution of the saints, met with Him face to face on the road to Damascus and this unmerited favor resulted in much of the New Testament that has encouraged, instructed, exhorted and blessed countless Christians throughout the centuries.

 

With that in mind, let's take a closer look:

 

Step 1: Pray that God would open your eyes to what he wants you to know and understand.

 

Step 2:  Read 1 Corinthians 15:1-11.  Reread verse 10.

 

But by the grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me did not prove vain; but I labored even more than all of them, yet not I, but the grace of God with me.

 

Step 3: Answer questions based on the text

 

What made Paul the great disciple that he was?

Did God's grace prove vain (empty - no purpose) in Paul's life?

How did Paul take responsibility for earnestly employing God's grace?

In what manner did he do so?

What accomplished great things in Paul?

  

Step 4:  Further insight into Grace

 

Scripture gives us insight into God's grace and what it accomplishes:

Is sufficient for us & provides power in our weaknesses (2 Corinthians 12:9)

Helps us conduct ourselves in the world, but not by worldly wisdom (2 Corinthians 1:12)

Supplies us with everything we need at all times, in all circumstances to abound in every good work (2 Corinthians 9:8)

Has been given to us as Christ apportioned it (Ephesians 4:7)

 

There are also warnings about God's grace:

Warns us not to miss it, by allowing a bitter root to choke it out (Hebrews 12:15)

Those who cling to worthless idols, forfeit God's grace (Jonah 2:8)

We are urged to "continue in the grace of God" (Acts 13:43)


Step 5:  Putting into action

 

What will make you a great disciple of Christ?

How are you using God's grace to serve Him?


What is your responsibility for effectively employing God's grace?


What role does humility play in relationship to service and grace?


Where has pride crept into your service?  

 

For an in-depth look at grace visit HERE: 

 

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Free To Good Home

 

Over the past two months, we've looked at cleaning strategies you can share with your children. But what's more important (and more palatable!) than cleaning? Eating!! But before we get into the mechanics of food preparation, it would be wise to start with some basic kitchen tips and safety. 

 

  • Gas vs. Electric stove - consider differences in heating.  Consider too that an electric burner remains hot:  Therefore, never put a pan back on an electric burner after draining water, unless you put a bit of water in the bottom of the pan to prevent it from burning.
  • Tips for opening stubborn can lids:  rubber cap, counter tap, knife knick about the edges.
  • Turn burner off before removing pan - always a good habit to form!
  • Oil too hot = spontaneous fire! Don't put out with water.
  • Fire extinguisher - do you know where it is? How to use it? Expired?
  • Roll up sleeves while cooking.  Watch dangling robe sleeves or loose sashes near open flames!
  • When taking something out of the oven, oven mitts on both hands helps prevent burns.
  • Check oven mitts - are they worn through? Any hot spots?  
  • Turning pan handles inward while cooking help prevent accidental spills.
  • Using two hands to drain or carry help prevent accidents.
  • For safe handling of all meats - wash after touching!

 

For more kitchen safety tips, click HERE:skillet


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Food For Thought

The Aroma of Graceroses

How pleasant it is to walk outside and smell the honeysuckle. We have banks of them behind our house. Last week I went looking for them and my untrained eye couldn't find any. Today the vines are loaded with blooms and to find them I only need to follow their fragrance, their aroma.

 

We each have an aroma, a distinctive scent. Our aroma has to do with our presence, that quality that makes us who we are. We've all experienced the atmosphere when a rude, disgruntled person leaves the room. They leave behind an unpleasant aroma. And we've experienced the pleasant fragrance of someone who was gentle and thoughtful and kind.

 

Just as I could not distinguish the honeysuckle vines from the other wild greenery until it bloomed, so others can only know we are Believers when we have the fragrance of Christ. "For we are the sweet fragrance of Christ [which exhales] unto God, [discernible alike] among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing;" (2 Cor. 2:15 AMP)

 

It's difficult to describe the presence of God. We can use words like peace, joy, a sense of light, feelings of love and comfort. But I would add to those words: fragrant. I have experienced His fragrance during a special time of great need-a time when Grace was all I had to hold on to. His presence surrounded me with a gentle fragrance sweeter than any scent I've ever smelled. His aroma was part of Himself.

 

We are a part of Him if we've been born again. (John 3:3) We aren't honeysuckle vines even though sometimes our actions may look like we've "died back in the winter" of our humanness. We have a choice about the aroma we release. We can leave the odor of the "flesh" or the sweet aroma of Christ. If we permit it, Grace empowers us to become like Jesus. The more like Him we become, the more we leave behind a sweet aroma everywhere we go.

 

Martha Hedge © 2010


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Take Note
ACT! COACH TRAINING:  30 CCE Units
 
This course is designed with the believer in mind.From the start, practice using coaching tools from a Biblical worldview. The overall course objective is to develop a quiet coaching presence so that the Holy Spirit is doing the work and not you. The goal of this training is to invigorate you so that you can in turn, do the same for others.
 
What to expect from this program:
 
An exploration of the 11 core competencies viewed through a biblical lens, 15 modules of training, 3 of which are coaching-only modules, with CMCC and MCC Tracy Stevens, a thirty-year veteran of the industry:
  • Practice observation techniques from a new angle using a new lens
  • Keep conversations from stalling through reflection techniques
  • Create safe environments for exploration
  • Build powerful questions that create movement
  • Understand accountability and celebration from a biblical perspective and learn how to incorporate into coaching relationships
Who this course designed for:  
 
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Business Leaders: Who want to create environments that increase awareness in order to draw out the best in their people.
Coaches: Who want to explore a biblical worldview of coaching and simultaneously hone their coaching skills.
 

Tracy Stevens
Meet Tracy your Trainer:

 

In addition to her work as an Executive Coach, Tracy Stevens facilitates programs on a wide variety of contemporary business and leadership topics, including business teams, communication, change management, public speaking and diversity in the workplace. Tracy is a published author of several leadership, coaching and business development books and has developed a self-study system - "The Success Circle(TM) Four Styles to Championship Communications".  She has authored 10 professional coach training programs and numerable courses, most of which have been awarded ICF Accreditation or continuing coach education units.

 

Trained in professional and corporate coaching by Corporate Coach U (CCUI), Coach U, CoachWorks International, The Experiential Learning Center and The Center for Creative Leadership, Tracy has obtained the highest designation in the profession of coaching - Master Certified Coach from the International Coach Federation. She continues to expand her skills through continued education and experience. She is a Senior Faculty member of Coach U, Corporate Coach U's (CCUI) Corporate Coaching Program and former Director Accredited Programs CCUI. Tracy is also a Certified Winslow Behavior Assessment Specialist. She is a certified assessment analyst in the PCSI instrument and also administers the popular DISC and PIAV assessments.

 

Professional affiliations include, the Christian Coaches Network (CCN), the International Coach Federation (ICF), The Worldwide Association of Business Coaches (WABC), The Independent Consultants Association (ICA).

 

Teleclass/Webinar for those with webcam capability

 

July 15th - October 21st 2010

7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

 

Cost:  $497.00

 
For more information call:  919.749.1800 or visit:  
 
 
Sincerely,
 
Cheryl Scanlan, Founder
Way of Life Coaching, LLC
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