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April 27, 2009
Forget Perfect Monday Minute
Segregation to Barbie: 
A Woman Ahead of Her Time
"Betty thought it was important for her granddaughter to know that Barbie could have a career, so she helped her granddaughter make Barbie a nurse's uniform."
Her name was Betty. She was the middle child of seven children, and she wanted to be a nurse.  But it was the 1920's and her family didn't have much money.  Her father wasn't too inclined pay for an education, at least not one for a girl, so she worked her way through nursing school on her own.
 
One of her early jobs was at Grady Hospital in Atlanta, back when it was segregated. She was a skinny young blonde girl who had been raised in the South, but she quickly figured out that if she asked to be assigned to the "colored ward" she would be allowed to do more procedures.
 
There was a tunnel under the street linking the colored ward with the main hospital and the white doctors didn't make the trek over very often. So Betty found herself handling emergencies, dealing with families, and pretty much in charge most of the time.
 
She might have come into the job with some prejudices of her own, but she saw that she was needed.  So she willingly jumped in to serve a group of patients that many others neglected.
 
She didn't marry until she was 25, an age when most of her family had written her off as an old maid. She further surprised them, because instead of immediately having babies, she and her lawyer husband, moved to Washington, D.C., where Betty got her Master's Degree from Catholic University.
 
She later became the chief nurse at the U.S. Veterans Hospital in Washington, caring for yet another under-served group of patients. She had her first child when she was 31, and went back to work, becoming a working mother long before the phrase even existed.
 
She had her second child at 38. In the seven years in between her two children she co-authored, "Anatomy and Physiology," a textbook that was used by most of the medical schools in the country.
 
She went on to become a chief of Public Health Nursing, and later an instructor at American University and Education Director of a major teaching hospital.
 
Marriage at 25, a Master's after that, a big job before her first baby, a published book before her second child and a career that included public and private sector work as well as teaching at a University level. It would be an ambitious path for a woman today, but for a girl born in 1905, it was pretty big stuff.
 
Over the course of her career, Betty touched the lives of thousands, perhaps even millions of patients, students and staff.  It's hard to imagine how many hands she held, how much care she gave, how many people she taught, and how many lives she saved.
 
After she retired, she spent her time sewing, gardening, volunteering and doting on her grandchildren. Once she even made clothes for her granddaughter's Barbie.
 
By then it was the 1970's and poor Barbie's wardrobe was limited to go-go boots, swimsuits and miniskirts. But Betty thought it was important for her granddaughter to know that Barbie could have a career. So she helped her granddaughter make Barbie a nurse's uniform, telling her, "The world always needs someone who knows how to take care of people."
 
She passed away in 1989.  She was a teacher, she was a nurse, she was trail-blazer and she was my grandmother.
 
Elizabeth Ruth Carpenter Earle
1905 - 1988 
Thank You - Nurses and Healthcare Professionals
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Nurses Week
Thanks to all the nurses and healthcare professionals who provided input to help Lisa create our new healthcare topics:
 
Healthcare: What's Love Got To Do With It - Reclaiming your passion in a world bogged down financial requirements
 
You didn't become a care-provider to fill out forms, and you certainly didn't go to school so that you could spend your days worrying about insurance reimbursements.  But how do you create positive emotions in an environment overburdened by paperwork and admin?  
 
Lisa reveals the secret of reclaiming your passion for the patients, even if you're surrounded by negativity.  In this insightful and humorous presentation Lisa shares
 
     - The single sentence every patient longs to hear
     - How to diffuse negativity within the first 30 seconds
     - The three things that differentiates happy caregivers from miserable ones
 
You're not workhorse; you're caregiver, and you deserve to know how much that means - EVERY SINGLE DAY.
 
This Place Is Sucking the Life Out Of Me - How to deal with demanding patients, negative co-workers and endless paperwork without going insane
 
The patients are sick, the administrators are stressed, the families are anxious, and the whole system is overworked.  So how do you keep the negativity around you from seeping into your soul?
 
In this touching, practical keynote, Lisa talks about
 
      - How to keep the office Eeyores from sucking the life out of you
      - The difference between hope and optimism (and which one is more powerful)
      - The two-part secret of staying sane when the world around you is falling apart
  
You can be a beacon of hope in a world gone mad, and it's not nearly as hard as you might think.
 
Leading In Times Of Angst - How to create a positive environment even when if you dread going to work
 
You're supposed to be the boss, and you know that a good attitude starts with you.  But how do you muster up the enthusiasm when you're running on nothing but fumes yourself?  All the sugar and caffeine in world can't turn a bad workplace into a good one; transformation requires leadership. 
 
In this practical enlightening session, Lisa shares
 
     - The single two-dollar item that can transform any manager (including you)
     - The four letter word that is the secret of all success
     - Why faking it is the key to making it when it comes to motivation
 
You don't have to be management guru to create success; all you have to do is want the best for your people.
 
 
Click here if you're interested in having Lisa speak at your conference or meeting.

 
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Lisa Earle McLeod is an author, keynote speaker, nationally syndicated columnist, business consultant, and media personality.

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