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First Lady Abigail Adams lacked formal education, but her curiosity and keen intelligence made her an avid reader.  While her husband, John, was away as a delegate to the Continental Congress, Abigail struggled with wartime shortages, ran their farm and taught their four children when formal education was interrupted.  She even donated her spoon collection to be melted into bullets for the war effort.  When John was appointed as the first ambassador to former enemy Great Britain, Abigail was the first American woman presented to the royal court.  What courage that initial curtsy must have taken!

 
Judy Pearson
Judy Pearson
I am fascinated by the element of courage, and am dedicated to speaking and writing about ordinary people exhibiting extraordinary courage.
 
Greetings!
           Courage is an intriguing subject.  What causes people to react courageously in one circumstance and not in another?  Can courage be learned?  Can it be passed down to children?  Can anyone be courageous?

I was invited to the Courage Summit last fall at the Gallup Institute in Washington D.C.  Attended by psychologists, sociologists, PhD's, (and a few of us "wanna be" students of the subject), it seems that my interest in courage is nothing new. 

Cynthia Pury, a professor at Clemson University, spoke about "The Ugly Duckling," asking if courage was more than standing up to mistreatment.  Her research has led her to conclude that the label "courage" must apply to situations where the losses are greater than the gains.

Shane Lopez, from the University of Kansas, shared that even the NFL is studying courage.  They're using their research to determine the best draft picks, and not just to learn which man is a better athlete.  The teams want to know who is more likely to want the ball and perform in the clutch.

A big eye-opener came from Dora Gudrun, a psychologist from Iceland, who explained that the Icelandic language differentiates between positive and negative courage. Fifldirfska refers to an act of courage done for evil reasons, such as occurred on 9/11.  It supposes that those flying the planes into buildings were exercising courage, despite the horrific results.

In my far less scholarly world, this quote from writer Eudora Welty sums up courage nicely for me: "A daring life begins within."  I interpret that as not to put pressure on myself to be more courageous, but rather to feel more courageous.  Remember the adage, practice makes perfect?  If we practice feeling courageous, I believe when we need to act courageously, it will come much more easily and naturally.  Sort of like typing or riding a bike.

How about giving it a try with me?  I think you'll be pleased with the results!


Sincerely,

Judy

Judy Pearson
judithlpearson.com
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