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 Monday Motivation

April 9,  2012Issue No. 81
Dear
 

For those of you that celebrate Easter...I hope it was a blessed one surrounded by friends and family!

In last week's newsletter, I addressed the issue of arrogant bosses and what to do if you work for one.  This week I would like to offer insights for those arrogant bosses to take on a more servant leadership mindset by learning to become more accountable to their staff.  In the past few years I have had the chance to speak with many CEO's, directors and managers and a common theme I hear is that leadership does not like to hold others accountable. 

Read below for two powerful questions that will help a leader hold themselves and others more accountable.

Great reading,

Diane 

P.S.  Welcome to my new readers from Deposit Guarantee Corporation of Manitoba. It was wonderful meeting all of you last week and seeing your great city!

P.S.S.Please email your thoughts about these tips to diane@dianeamundson.com.  I would also love to read any questions you would like answered in future Monday Motivation newsletters.          

Can I Count On You?
 
 
When I hear or see the word accountable I often think of being dependable or getting results.  Webster's Dictionary defines accountable as responsible or liable.  One way that most leaders and managers hold their staff accountable is through performance reviews.  If you asked ten managers how they felt about receiving and giving performance reviews, most would say they would rather have a root canal performed!  The thought of giving or receiving constructive criticism is scary and keeps managers as well as employees awake at night.  

 

While these semi or annual performance reviews are critical to a team or department improving, this newsletter will not address accountability regarding the skills and aptitude needed to perform a job well, but rather, the behavior of a manager or employee that keeps themselves and others from performing at a higher level.  As a manager, I found it far easier to give constructive feedback on a task that was not being performed well versus an interpersonal problem an employee had like interrupting others or showing up late for meetings.  Something about these behavior issues kept me awake more often at night than the skill problems.
 
Thanks to author, Patrick Lencioni, who wrote a Field Guide to the Five Dysfunction Of A Team.  I have used his work for years in my facilitation of troubled teams or teams that want to improve their performance.  In his book Patrick teaches us that the inability to hold oneself and others accountable is one of the five dysfunctions of a team.  He also shows us that two powerful questions asked and answered in a safe environment will help a group become more accountable towards each other. 

 

As a leader, you need to know the answer to these two powerful questions about your own behavior:

 

  • What is the single most important behavioral characteristic or quality by this person that contributes to the strength of our team/department?

 

  • What is the single most important behavioral characteristic or quality byt this person that can sometimes derail the team/department?

 

Question for You:

 

Are you a leader that senses their behavior may be holding the team back?  Are you an employee that wants to learn what behaviors add or detract from the team?

 

Call to Action for You:

 

As a leader, you could send out an online survey with these two powerful questions but there must be a third party that is trusted, receiving the results so your staff will be honest with their responses.  Then you need to take action and not shoot the messenger.   Another way to do this would be in a staff meeting where you ask each person to give the feedback directly to you.  If you are known for being arrogant, this will not work, as people may think you will retaliate.  The only way this will work, is if you listen, take notes, ask for clarifying questions and thank each one after their responses...then take action to make the changes you are able.  The beautiful part of this activity is that others may, down the road, be willing to have these two questions answered about their behavior, if the leader listened and made changes to their behavior.

 

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About Us
 

Diane Amundson is the owner of Diane Amundson & Associates.

She has been training, speaking and consulting for over sixteen years in the areas of leadership, creativity, generational diversity, team building, sales communication, conflict resolution and strategic planning.  She has worked with Fortune 500 Companies like General Mills and Pepsi Cola along with numerous school districts in Minnesota and Wisconsin.  She  has co-authored a book titled Success Strategies: A High Achiever's Guide to Success.  She is a member of the National Speakers Association and has served as Adjunct Professor of Organizational Behavior at Winona State University.

 

She is a Rotarian that has traveled the world on humanitarian projects in Mongolia, India and Brazil.

 

Her style of speaking is informative and highly interactive.

 

  
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