If you are a parent of a young child or you have been a parent of a young child, wasn't it a comfort to know that there were stages that your child would go through on their way to becoming an independent adult? While living through these stages may not be a comfort, knowing that they exist and will be short-lived, is a comfort.
This is also true of teams. Whenever a group of two or more people come together to work on a common goal, they will travel through a series of stages as they accomplish their goal. Each stage has certain characteristics that define it, but there is no set period of time that each stage lasts. As with your child, the length of the adolescent stage will be different for each child depending on their personality, friends and upbringing. Oh, and don't forget their hormones!
So what are the four stages that teams travel and how do you know if your team is in a particular stage? The four stages are forming, storming, norming and performing. While each team may not follow this sequence of stages exactly, many of them do, as they work together.
Forming:
- Members ask "Why am I here? Who else is here? What will we do? How do I fit? Who'll lead the group?
- Superficial and polite exchange
- Can be suspicion, fear and anxiety about the task ahead
- Tendency to avoid others or to be loners
- Very little real communication
- Very leader dependent
- Beginning to develop individual commitment to be on team
- Beginning to understand the expectations
- Beginning to develop trust
- Verbal members tend to dominate
- May be hidden agendas
- Conflicts are suppressed
- Much voting
- Members cautiously explore boundaries of acceptable behavior
Storming:
- Members may opt out
- Sense of feeling frustrated
- Members may attack personally
- Leadership may be challenged
- Cliques and alliances form
- Unsolicited comments
- Emotional reaction to task or misperceptions about task
- Personal strengths and weaknesses begin to appear
- Process issues discussed outside of meetings
- Members "jockey for position"
- Outsiders blamed for problems
- Dominated by one or two team members
- Over-structured with tight control
- Impatient with lack of progress
- Overly competitive and confrontative
- Self -serving or look out for yourself
- Frustration, anger and resistance to goals
Norming:
- Leadership issue resolved
- Structure issues resolved
- Procedures established
- Issues not people confronted
- Cohesion among members begins
- Sub-groups disappear
- Ability to remain focused to task
- Air of complacency may develop
- Activities undertaken
- Willingness to experiment
- Quiet people now contributing
- Friendly and social climate
- High concern for the needs of team members
- Unfocused, irrelevant, overly -friendly communications
- Feelings of mutual trust, respect and harmony
- Avoidance of conflict
- Focus on harmony and conformity
- Competitive relationships become cooperative
- Quality and quantity of work slowly increase
Performing:
- High involvement
- Get things done by collaboration
- Agreement on who they are, what they're doing and where they are going
- Team has clarified relationships and performance expectations
- Participation by all team members
- Cooperative and productive climate
- Open, direct, relevant and businesslike communication
- Ability to prevent or work through team issues
- Individual learning and growth take place
- Outside help and resources welcome
- Members energize each other
- Members are supportive and close, both in and outside meetings
- Sense of genuine enjoyment and informality
- Sense of effortlessness
- Decisions by consensus
- Objectives clear and sound
- Frequent review of process issues
- Problems handled creatively
Understand that each stage is not linear. What I mean is that you may spend time in "forming" and never go through "storming" as you jump to a "norming" stage. While this is rare, it may happen, if your team members have worked together successfully in the past on a different goal.
So, how does a team get out of storming? Try these tips below:
- Revisit mission/goal statement
- Revisit team rules or norms
- Review thinking style assessment and conflict modes
- Use facts as much as possible
- Learn problem solving skills
- Give specific work assignments
- Use brainstorming to diffuse emotions
- Use formal process checks
- Use a parking lot
- Plan fun activity
- Celebrate successes
- Use resource people
- Start the process of testing implementation of plan
Knowing that a team goes through stages can be a comfort, especially if you know what to do to move them from storming to performing. Try these tips and you may find yourself on a high performing team that is fun because of the camaraderie amongst your team members and the amount of work you accomplish.