l-r: Mike Tyson (boxing), Darryl Strawberry (baseball), Michael Vick (football), Jason Shirley (CSUF football)
There
are countless stories of black college athletes posed with celebrity, potential
wealth and promising professional careers only to have those opportunities
taken away due to criminal behavior and poor decisions. From the recent FSU
football player, Jason Shirley and convicted murder Terry Pettis to even the EdisonHigh School and college student
athletes killed the car attendance; these young black men have lost
opportunities that many aspire to. Many
ask the question: Are these results solely the responsibility of the young men
or are others partly to blame? And if so, who?
Here
are some responses to an article on www.blackprof.com. Originally I was going to extract information from the comments but I think some of the
issues couldn't have been better stated.
Personal Responsibility
"Why are we supposed to
feel sorry for them when they break the law? Are they not adults? Are they not
over 18? See, I have a hard time feeling sorry for them when they go out there
and break the law. It should be common sense, after all, they do live in America, but I guess common sense isn't all that common anymore. But, someone needs to tell them the list of
DO'S and DONT'S. And, if I knew that this was in place, then I REALLY
wouldn't have any sympathy. Because, you and I both know that, because they are
athletes, everything has been excused away for them, so when the REAL WORLD slaps
them silly, it's a shock to them, and a shock that usually costs them their
future."
"I get it. They screwed up!!! They deserve
whatever punishment they receive!!! You can't possibly see my posting as an
apology for them. I always call for personal responsibility. But when schools
make millions, they have a strategic opportunity to stop these boys from
getting into trouble."
Parents & Families
"Most people thus far as
saying there need not be any community solutions because this is a 'personal
problem'. If they were raised properly by their parents by 18 they should be
able to make some intelligent decisions. Some of the stuff these fools do is
asinine."
"Parents need to do their
job. But let's deal with the reality on the ground. It's fair to call parents
to do their job."
In
the recently published Come on People (read an excerpt on Amazon.com),
co-authored by Bill Cosby, it speaks to the lack of parenting and that many of
the problems in the black family stem from absence of father and positive male
figures. But is that the only possible
response?
Universities
"Some believe universities
have failed to supply young athletes with proper mentoring and active
monitoring to protect them from over exposure and poor decision making. Of
course, these young men bear responsibility for their actions as well. Yet,
given the psychology of superstar status, celebrity and the rags to riches
stories, most of these young men have in common, they are not nearly equipped
to handle the transformation without guidance. Moreover, these young men
generate, untold dollars in revenue for their respective schools. Surely, they
can afford to expend a few dollars counseling and guiding them."
"But, I also blame the
colleges. The colleges need to have, on
retainer, a hard middle-aged Black man that sits these folks down at the
beginning of the semester and tells them the rules of LIFE for a Black Man."
One
reader gave the following recommendations for colleges and universities to
avoid further loss of life and livelihood:
1)
Assign a guidance counselor and require check-ins
2)
Require counseling to explore their minds and make future recommendations
tailored to their needs.
3)
Require athletes to live on-campus in monitored facilities, in terms of going
and coming. This would assist universities ability to limit the gift culture,
access to alcohol, drugs and women.
4)
Implement random drug testing and rehab for violations, not suspension.
It Takes a Village
Why should young people be allowed to go down the wrong path
because their parents' failed them? If others
around them can see the problems ahead and take a few measured corrective steps
to avoid calamity, where is the harm? It's
wrong to watch someone go the wrong way if you can offer a word to steer them
in the right direction.
I want you bloggers to
consider the measured steps that can be taken to assist young athletes whose
parents have failed them before they get into trouble. Remember when these
young men go down, they take, in part, the dreams of many younger and older
black boys and men with them. When we work together to help them, we help
ourselves as well.

Great Read:
Forty Million Dollar Slaves:
The Rise, Fall, and Redemption the Black Athlete
By William Rhoden
A New York Times sports columnist for decades, Rhoden chronicles
a sweaty history that has meant wealth but not always progress, and
prosperity for the black athlete-the $40 million slave-who is far from
free. Review Excerpt by Mother Jones
Buy it @ Black Books Plus