Shabbat in a Box 

4 Fridays, March 9, 16, 23, and 30

10-11 a.m.

Register here!

MetroWest Jewish Day School 

29 Upper Joclyn Ave., Framingham

For more information, contact metrowest@jccgb.org or 508-879-3300. 

How to Create a Family-Friendly Seder

Free!

Register here by March 9. 

JCC Early Learning Center, Wayland parent Jody Gladstein leads a workshop on how to plan a Passover seder that will keep your entire family engaged and will help your seder become a meaningful and memorable experience for adults and children alike.

To add a little community spirit to the workshop, please submit your favorite Passover recipe to the ELC office by Friday, March 9. Copies will be distributed.

Or, if you're really in the Passover spirit, please bring a sample of your favorite holiday dish to share.

For more information, please contact 508-358-5331 or wayland-elc@jccgb.org. 

Have you had or adopted a baby in the last six months? Are you expecting soon, or do you know someone who is?

Let us welcome your baby to the Metrowest Jewish community with a visit and a gift!

Welcome Baby! has welcomed 152 new babies to our community already! Welcome Baby! visits new parents with babies aged newborn to 6 months and gives them a complimentary gift basket filled with high-quality baby gifts. Welcome Baby! connects new parents to resources, family activities, and new friends. If you have a new baby or know someone who does, and would like to connect, sign up here!

добро пожаловать! 

Engaging Metrowest Russian Jewish Families in Jewish Community Life

A grant from the Genesis Fund is enabling us to reach out to Russian Jewish families throughout Metrowest. By developing collaborative relationships, we are identifying and connecting with members of this large and vibrant community through engaging programming and activities. 

As part of this program, JFN is also doing special "Privet Malish" visits -- Welcome Baby! visits with gift baskets and resources tailored for Russian Jewish families. 

If you are interested in learning more about our programs or "Privet Malish," or if you know someone who is, please contact our Russian community connector, Luba Olshan, for more information.   

Play Dates and Get-Togethers

with Our JFN Connectors!

North Area (Connector: Amy Kohen)  

Monthly Drop-In Playgroup in Acton 

Wednesday, March 14

9:30-11 a.m.  

Free! 

Central Area (Connector: Nissa Weiss) 

Late-Afternoon Playgroup 

Mondays, March 5 and 19

3:30-5 p.m.

Free!

Working moms, this group is for you -- and for anyone whose kids need a little playtime in the afternoon! JFN mom Jen Lerman will run this drop-in playgroup. A perfect chance for you to meet other parents and for kids to have new friends to socialize with!

Special thanks to Jen for suggesting this idea and for volunteering her time to put it into motion!  

475 Franklin St., Framingham

Playtime Meet-Ups

Every Tuesday morning, March 6, 13, 20, and 27      

9:30-11:30 a.m.  

Free! 

Please join Nissa for this weekly drop-in playgroup. Perfect for kids up to 4 years, and for moms, dads, and caregivers of all ages! A light snack will be provided for the kids.   

JFS Children's Room 

475 Franklin St., Framingham 

Shalom, Shabbat!

Thursdays, March 15 and 29     

4:30-5:30 p.m.

Free! 

Welcome Shabbat with music, laughter, and friends of all ages! With a little bit of Hebrew and a whole lot of fun, Nissa will lead singalongs and playtime in a warm, inviting setting.  

For more information about any of these Central-area activities, please contact Julie. 

South Area (Connector: Heidi Anderson)

Why is Tuesday morning different from all other mornings -- at least at JFS? For many families, Tuesday mornings are spent in the JFS Children's Room at Playtime Meet-up, run by Nissa Weiss. There are toys, there are crayons, there are snack crackers -- but exactly who is this playgroup for? Without question, the adults enjoy it just as much as the kids. Whether families have been coming for a few weeks or a few months, they all speak of the warmth and friendship they feel in that room. In this interview, I spoke to a few of these people, parents and grandparents from disparate backgrounds and at different stages in their lives, but who all have a common destination every Tuesday morning, from 9:30 to 11:30.

Arinne Braverman and her wife, Carrie, live in Needham with their two sons, 22-month-old Noah and 3-month-old Jacob ("Coby"). Currently at home on maternity leave, Arinne will soon be returning to work full-time for Hillel, where she is a program director. For now, though, she is taking advantage of her newfound playgroup as long as she can.

Arinne, what is it about the JFN playgroup that makes you pack up the two boys each week and schlep out to Framingham?

I decided to give the group a try after e-mailing the coordinator, Nissa Weiss, while still recovering from the birth of our second child. I'd had a c-section and was eager to get out of the house and meet other mommies, but couldn't yet handle the physical tasks involved in driving the boys there solo. Nissa hadn't even met me yet, but generously volunteered to help out in any way she could -- and she's a mom of three herself! I was very touched by her offer of support for a newcomer -- the group felt haimish [Yiddish for "homey" or "friendly"] before I'd ever even attended!

I did a structured Mommy-and-Me-type class with our first son. If I had known about the JFN group at that time, I would have attended with him as well. The things that set JFN's group apart in my mind are 1) it's Jewishly affiliated; 2) it's facilitated by Nissa (yay!); 3) it's free; and 4) it's so easy to participate! It's a drop-in group, which makes participating stress-free. Unlike the class I'm taking with my second child now, if you're "late" or if it's inconvenient to attend one week, it's not an issue.

I was delighted to see that the group was Jewishly affiliated. Before our children were born, we attended shul weekly. Since the boys can't help being disruptive during services at this age, we only make it to temple a few times a year for now. We "do Jewish" at home on our own, but try to take advantage of every opportunity to provide them with a Jewish community experience as well. Noah, my 22-month-old, LOVES to be read to, and I was thrilled when I saw all of the new Jewish books in the play space. He enjoys reading a new book from the JFN space during each visit.

It's also really helpful to have a contained space to play in when you have "two under two in tow." If you have to attend to the needs of the infant, your toddler can't wander off too far! And having a space that both gives free snacks and allows snacks to be brought in from outside (food allergies) and has free parking and a bathroom with a diaper changing station is all an added bonus!

Steve and Phyllis Smoller live in Framingham and look after their granddaughters, Addison and Hadley, every Tuesday. Addison was under 2 and an only child when her grandparents first learned of the playgroup, and now she's 3 and a big sister. These days, Phyllis stays home with baby Hadley, but Steve and Addison are still regulars on our circuit.

Steve, you and Phyllis were two of our very first grandparents to come to playgroup regularly. What was it about playgroup from the start that made it become a regular destination for you?

We liked the informal format of the program. It allowed for Addison to interact with other kids when she wanted to and play by herself when she wanted to.

Have you tried other activities with Addison?

We did try another program for little ones, but found it was too structured for Addison. She rapidly lost interest in a lot of things that they tried to do with the kids. She really prefers to do her own thing and go at her own pace. 

As an activity that you and Addison participate in together, is it especially meaningful for you?

It is a time that I get to spend with Addison, just the two of us, but, because the program is so informal and not a structured one, she gets to choose when she wants to be with me and when she wants to be with the kids or alone. I enjoy watching her do her thing, and I also enjoy watching the other kids of various ages doing their thing.

Susan Glueck and her husband, Rich, live in Ashland with their sons, Nathan (6) and Parker (20 months). Susan is an involved, active parent and has participated in many activities, both formal and unstructured.

Susan, you've got a busy schedule now, with Nathan in kindergarten and Parker still a baby. What is about playgroup that makes you come back every week, and what does it mean to you -- and Parker, too -- to see some of the same faces each week?

The second child often gets shortchanged in the friends department since the first child has had longer to establish relationships with other kids (as has the mom with those kids' moms). I want to make sure Parker gets to make his own set of friends. Plus, it is hard to find other parents whose kids are spaced four-plus years apart like mine, which would make a "two-fer" play date easier. We go back every week because a) nothing beats a free playgroup; b) Parker remembers the names of most of the regular attendees; and c) it is a chance for me to socialize with other adults and get out of the house while Nathan is away at kindergarten. We had a regular playgroup for Nathan for almost four years through our local MOMS club which disbanded when most of the parents had additional kids, and I really miss it. This is helping fill the gap.

A medical social worker for 40 years, Marsha Farmelant retired in April 2010 to take care of her grandson, Orion. Adjusting to her new role was difficult at first, but she credits playgroup with easing the transition.

Marsha, how did you find out about this playgroup in the first place? And is there something particular about the JFN playgroup that makes you keep coming back and that is perhaps more comfortable for grandparents than other groups?  

Last May, I went into JFS to bring a donation on my mother's behalf. I saw Malka [Young, Director of Community Impacts for JFS and a personal and professional friend] there, and we began to chat. I told her about taking care of Orion, and actually how lonely I had been the whole winter previous, because of the social isolation (newly retired -- quite an adjustment), the bad weather, etc., home most of the time without social connections in my new job as grandma. I had actually lost 15 pounds because I lost my appetite completely -- to the point that my PCP was quite concerned about my health. Malka was quick to tell me about the playgroup that meets weekly, and she took my e-mail address. Soon I was getting newsletters, etc., and began to have something to look forward to.

My schedule with Orion's mother's summer hours did not lend itself to joining the playgroup. The first opportunity that came along in September, Orion and I were there! And we were so warmly greeted by Nissa and the other "mothers" -- a new and special connection for the two of us. We have a wonderful activity to do every Tuesday morning. 

Being the social worker that I have been, I have gotten to know the "core" group of mothers and children well, and even invited along another grandmother that I met at the Ashland Kidspot, to bring her little granddaughter as well, knowing that she, too, would be welcomed warmly.... We discuss issues related to the children and their well-being. Orion has had a lot of feeding issues, and I have benefited greatly from suggestions from the others about what to try to feed him, etc., and also from their concern and follow-up questions. And there are discussions about Judaica, holidays, rituals, recipes, etc.

It is a place I feel very welcome, even though I am so much older than the others. Nissa is warm, welcoming, energetic, upbeat. It's really a pleasure to go every week. And of course, Orion loves it there. He gets to play and play and play, in a clean and safe environment, with many children of various ages -- a perfect opportunity for him.

And what about this Nissa person we keep hearing about? Nissa Weiss participated in the playgroup herself before she began to work for JFN and run the show. For Nissa, it's definitely not just a job. Being part of this group is as meaningful to her as it is to the people she welcomes so warmly each week.

Nissa, how did you start coming to playgroup, and what did you notice about it that was different? What do you hope people take away from it? What do you take away from it? 

I came to work with JFN after attending the group with my youngest, Kyla, for a year. The first time I attended it was after getting, like, a gazillion e-mails from you, who I met at a Mitzvah Day picnic. I always wanted to come and see the other moms and connect with other Jewish families, which you don't really get to meet otherwise.

Once I came, I realized the importance of being surrounded by other "Yiddishe mamas." We can complain as much as we like -- and it's all good...

Since running the group myself, I can say I also see the importance of the young friendships that Kyla has. She really wants to see her friends in the "big playroom," as she calls the JFN room. I have connected to many moms in the group, but most important, I have connected to the grandparents in the group, which I feel brings a wider sense of community and to the lives of Kyla and me. 

Mama Doni: The Purim Bash Show  

Sunday, March 4

11 a.m.

For families with children ages 2 and up 

JCC members: $10/person; nonmembers; $12/person 

Boston Jewish Music Festival special family price: $40

Buy tickets here!

In the spirit of outrageous Purim fun, Mama Doni's show is filled to the brim with dancing, singalongs to catchy pop tunes, and a costume parade where kids can strut their stuff. Don't miss this festive, high-energy, interactive family rock concert with a Jewish twist! Part of the JCC Magic Ark Performing Arts Series for Families, presented in collaboration with The PJ Library.

Mama Doni makes a special guest appearance at Temple Israel of Natick's Tot Shabbat on March 2 at 5:45. Contact the temple office at 508-650-3521 for more information!  

To read more about the Mama Doni Band or to hear some samples of the music you'll be hearing, check out the band's website at www.mamadoni.com.  

The concert takes place at:  

Leventhal-Sidman JCC 

333 Nahanton St., Newton

For more information or to buy concert tickets, please call 617-965-5226 or 866-811-4111.

For more information about the Boston Jewish Music Festival, please visit http://bostonjewishmusicfestival.org/. 

Do you ever wonder where your money goes? How to set reasonable financial goals? What to do about unexpected expenses?

This free workshop series for women will help you gain control over your personal finances in a confidential and supportive group. Each participant will receive a $25 gas card.  

475 Franklin St., Framingham

RSVP to Diana O'Brien, or call 508-875-3100 x300. Space is limited.

Tot Shabbat

Shaarei Shalom    

Bring the kids (ages 2-6) to this delightful service led by Rabbi Margie Klein. The 45-minute participatory event will conclude with challah and juice and a Shabbat treat. Bring your friends -- all are welcome! 

For more information about this Tot Shabbat or to get the schedule for the rest of the year, please contact Julie Wolf. 

Shabbat Services with Rabbi Judy

Friday, March 2
10:30-11 a.m.

JFS's Kesher invites you to help Jewish seniors celebrate Shabbat with a short Shabbat service with Rabbi Judy Spicehandler. Young families and children bring joy to isolated elders. An easy way to teach your children about helping others.

Sunrise Senior Living
285 Commonwealth Ave. (Route 30), Wayland

RSVP to Nancy Fried-Tanzer if you plan to attend, or for more information about this program. 

Jewish Family Network is a collaboration of Jewish Family Service of Metrowest and the Jewish Community Centers of Greater Boston with generous support from the Metrowest Jewish Community Fund, Clare and Richard Lesser and Combined Jewish Philanthropies. Interfaith families, single parents, people with disabilities, and GLBT families are welcome.