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October 2011

Welcome to Jewish Family Network!
 

Jewish Family Network (JFN) connects young families raising Jewish children ages 0-5 to each other and the Jewish community. JFS of Metrowest and JCCs of Greater Boston have joined together to engage parents across the region. To find out more about JFS and its services, click JFS. To find out more about JCC and its programs, click JCC.

 

Have a fun-filled year with JFN!  

Jewish Family Network offers

events, classes, and connection!

 

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In This Issue
Save the Date!
Sukkot Celebration
Welcome Baby!
Russian Jewish Community
Play Dates and Get-Togethers
Parent-Tot Classes
Sharing Our Stories
Happy Birthday, October Babies!
Adoption Discussion
Wendy's/Adoption Choices Collaboration
Events and Resources
Community Connections
Tot Shabbat
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Save the Date!
Flooky and the Beans Concert

Friday, Nov. 11
10 a.m.
For families with children 2 years and up
$10/adult; $8/child
Purchase tickets here!

Spend the day off from school with JFN, singing and dancing to family favorite Flooky and the Beans!

Open house for ELC begins at 9 a.m.; concert begins at 10 a.m.:
JCC Early Learning Center, Wayland
141 Boston Post Rd.
(at Temple Shir Tikva)

For more information, please contact wayland-elc@jccgb.orgor 508-358-5331.
Pick Apples with JFN in Private Orchard Today!
Fruits of the Harvest: A Fall Holiday Celebration

Sunday, Oct. 2
10-11:30 a.m.
For families with children 2 years and up
$15/family (includes snack and apples)
Register here!

The fall holidays on the Jewish calendar are a time for reflection and renewal (Rosh Hashanah), forgiveness (Yom Kippur), and gratitude for nature's harvest (Sukkot). Please join us for this celebration of the season as we have the orchard to ourselves for holiday- and harvest-related Sukkot activities -- and lots of apple picking!

Meet at the barn at:
Carver Hill Orchard Annex
Annie Moore Rd., Bolton
 
For more information, please visit jccgb.org/metrowest, or contact metrowest@jccgb.org or 508-879-3300.
Welcome Baby!

Have you had or adopted a baby in the last six months? Are you expecting soon, or do you know someone who is?

 

Let us welcome your baby to the Metrowest Jewish community with a visit and a gift!

 

Welcome Baby! has welcomed 133 new babies to our community already! Welcome Baby! visits new parents with babies aged newborn to 6 months and gives them a complimentary gift basket filled with high-quality baby gifts. Welcome Baby! connects new parents to resources, family activities, and new friends. If you have a new baby or know someone who does, and would like to connect, sign up here!

 

Welcome Baby Registration

 

Find Welcome Baby! on Facebook! Our Welcome Baby! page is filled with lots of great parenting information, including ways to connect with other families with a child aged newborn to 1 year. We hope you'll "Like" us!

добро пожаловать! 

 

Engaging Our Russian Jewish Families
in Jewish Community Life


JFN is excited to announce our latest outreach program! A grant from the Genesis Fund is enabling us to reach out to Russian Jewish families throughout Metrowest. By developing collaborative relationships, we are identifying and connecting with members of this large and vibrant community through engaging programming and activities. 

 

As part of this program, JFN is also doing special "Privet Malish" visits -- Welcome Baby! visits with gift baskets and resources tailored for Russian Jewish families. 

 

If you are interested in learning more about our programs or "Privet Malish," or if you know someone who is, please contact our Russian community connector, Luba Olshan, or Malka Young for more information.  

Play Dates and Get-Togethers

with Heidi, Nissa, and Amy!

Free!

 

South Area (Connector: Heidi Anderson)

Medway Playground Meet-Up

Thursday, Oct. 6
4-5:30 p.m. 

Might be our last chance to meet at a playground before the cold weather sends us indoors. Please join Heidi and her kids for some witching-hour fun! 

 

Oakland Park 

70-76 Oakland St., Medway

(located next to the Senior Center) 

 

Tales and Tunes for Tots

Friday, Oct. 28

For kids ages 0-3 with an adult

 

Friday mornings are for little ones at the Holliston Public Library. Come say hello to Heidi as she joins the Holliston community for stories and songs at this family event. Afterward, you can head over to Coffee Haven together for a treat and some coffee talk! 

 

Holliston Public Library                 Coffee Haven 

752 Washington St.                     76 Railroad St., Holliston 

 

Central Area (Connector: Nissa Weiss

Playtime Meet-Ups

Every Tuesday morning, Oct. 4, 11, 18, and 25 

9:30-11:30 a.m. 

   

Please join Nissa for this weekly drop-in playgroup. Perfect for kids up to 4 years, and for moms, dads, and caregivers of all ages! A light snack will be provided for the kids.   

 

JFS Children's Room 

475 Franklin St., Framingham 

 

Shalom, Shabbat!

Thursday afternoons, Oct. 13 and 27

4:30-5:15 p.m.

 

Welcome Shabbat with music, laughter, and friends of all ages every other week throughout the fall! With a little bit of Hebrew and a lot of fun, Nissa will lead singalongs and play time in a warm, inviting setting.  

 

This group meets after school and is perfect for kids of all ages, including older siblings.

 

Thank you to Shillman House in Framingham for sharing their beautiful space with our families.  

   

Bistro Room at Shillman House 

49 Edmands Rd., Framingham 

 

North Area (Connector: Amy Kohen) 

Drop-In Playgroup

Wednesday, Oct. 26

9:30-11 a.m.

 

Join Amy for a fun-filled morning in Acton. A great opportunity for the preschool crowd and their adults! 

 

JCC Early Learning Center, Acton 

133 Prospect St.

(at Congregation Beth Elohim)

Parent-Tot Connections

MetroWest Boston Stroller Strides@Shir Tikva 

Beginning Thursday, Oct. 27

9:30-10:30 a.m.

Register here!  

 

Stroller Strides is a 60-minute total body workout that moms can do with their babies. It includes power walking/running and intervals of strength and body-toning exercises using exercise tubing, the stroller, and the environment. Stroller Strides provides a safe and convenient way to ease back into aerobic activity -- and to ease back into socializing and connecting with other moms.

 

The Stroller Strides class will meet every Thursday at the front door of Temple Shir Tikva in Wayland, outside if weather permits; inside if it's below 40 or raining. Stroller Strides is taught by certified instructors and is a great workout for any level of exerciser.

 

For more information regarding the program, please visit their website or Facebook page. Registering for this program registers you in any Stroller Strides class in MetroWest.

 

Temple Shir Tikva 

141 Boston Post Rd., Wayland 

 

Monday Music, Movement, and More!   

Two 8-week sessions: Oct. 24-Dec. 12; Jan. 9-March 12

9:30-10:15 a.m.

For children ages 0-2, with an adult 

$225 for both sessions, or $125 for each

Register here

 

Session 1: Sing 'n' Swing 

Get ready to move and groove in this fun and interactive class. Children and adults will use a variety of rhythm and melodic instruments to sing, dance, play, and stimulate senses. Experience the joy of singing and music making, and learn why music contributes so much to overall child development. Everyone will leave this class singing and smiling from ear to ear!  

    

Session 2: Jump 'n' Roll

Tumble on everything as we play a variety of group games, climb through obstacle courses, and create silly movement motions.  Children and adults are active participants in this class as we get our whole bodies moving!

 

Classes will be held at:

Temple Israel of Natick

145 Hartford St.     

 

Little Wigglers  

Fridays, Oct. 28-Dec. 9 (6 weeks)
11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m
For children ages 6-12 months, with an adult
$90
Register here!

It's a mobile world! Learn ways of playing with your baby while enhancing his or her motor, social, and cognitive abilities. Class includes music with songs and instruments as well as games and fun activities that support development.

    

Little Waddlers

Fridays, Oct. 28-Dec. 9 (6 weeks) 

10-11 a.m.

For children ages 12-18 months, with an adult 

$90

Register here!  


Watch out, here they come! Your baby is in constant motion now, exploring everything! Learn ways to play and interact with your waddler while enhancing motor, social, cognitive, and language abilities. Class includes circle time, music, books, and lots of activities that support development.

 

Little Wigglers and Little Waddlers both meet at:

Children's Room, JFS 

475 Franklin St., Framingham 

 

For more information about any of these classes, please contact 508-879-3300 or metrowest@jccgb.org.

Aaron Stevens:

Traditions from the Heart, in the Home 

by Julie Wolf, JFN Newsletter Editor 

 

Aaron Stevens is a full-time lecturer at Boston University, where he teaches in the computer science and economics departments. Born in Ohio, he grew up in Montreal and later lived in the Midwest before moving to Massachusetts. He and his wife, Jennifer, live in Natick with their son, Caleb (5), and their daughter, Elisheva (3). In this interview, Aaron talks about the lifelong importance of music to his Jewish experience and why he cherishes his neighborhood and values his synagogue congregation, but why, for him and his family, Jewish community begins at home.

 

Aaron Stevens and Family 

 

While you were growing up, your dad lived in Indiana, where he is a rabbi. I wonder if there's anything you'd like to share about having a father who is a rabbi. Rabbis are more approachable now, in general, than they were in previous generations, but I think many people still feel a distance between themselves and rabbis.

I think a lot of people still have trouble approaching rabbis. In general I never have, because I know that rabbis are people, too. They go to the grocery store, the dry cleaners, and even take out the trash and mow the lawn. My father has been the rabbi in Munster, Ind., for 23 years, and he has several -- but not that many -- congregants who call him "Mike," which he appreciates. One of his closest friends, Howard, still calls him "Rabbi." It's kind of funny when they start a phone call. My dad: "Hello?" Howard: "Hi, Rabbi, Howard. " My dad: "Hi, Rabbi Howard, Mike Stevens."

 

How did you choose Natick as your home?

We already owned a house and had lived in Watertown for seven years, and after Caleb was born we started looking for a little more space -- and another bathroom. We considered several towns but settled on Natick Center, and our neighborhood in particular, because of its location within walking distance to the commuter rail and the small neighborhood elementary school within walking distance from our house. We're really glad with these choices.

 

We live on a wonderful street with many other young families. Any summer or fall afternoon is like a block party, with kids playing outside and adults chatting, often with shared glasses of wine or beer. It's rare when there are no other kids to play with. We have a neighborhood school which is a short walk from home, and Caleb already knew several classmates from the street or from swim lessons at our local swimming pond. We have some great friends among our immediate neighbors and are friendly with all of them. I wouldn't want it any other way.

 

Music is a great way to connect with people, especially young kids. You were a song leader in NFTY [North American Federation of Temple Youth], and now you help lead Shabbat Rinah services at Congregation Beth El in Sudbury. Did you seek out this opportunity yourself?

I've had several song-leading positions since moving to Boston, including at the now-defunct Progressive Chavurah and Congregation Am Tikva of Brookline. I've also had some opportunities to song-lead at Northeastern, Harvard Hillel, and some private occasions -- weddings, etc. Playing music and leading others in song is absolutely central to my Jewish experience, so when we first visited Beth El, it was something I mentioned to the people I met. I was able to join Cantor Lorel Zar-Kessler in helping to create the Shabbat Rinah service [literally "Shabbat of Joyous song," a participatory service designed for all ages], and I've been having a great time joining in. This year we have scheduled Shabbat Rinah about every six weeks or so.

 

Do you perform or lead classes elsewhere, or just at Beth El?

My full-time job is as a lecturer at Boston University, with appointments in computer science and economics. I play music for fun with some of my neighbors, but nothing paid! I've been playing with my neighbor who is a professional cellist, and recently we added a drummer and hope to perform in the next several months.

 

Do you feel it's important for families with young kids to be involved and active in their local Jewish community?

This is a very difficult question to answer. I think community is great, but I feel that Jewish identity begins at home. We have regular Shabbat rituals and a special Shabbat dinner every single week, and have a large Sukkot party every year.  

 

For parents who are interested in instilling Jewish traditions in their kids at home but who may be less comfortable than you are with having the background or knowledge to do so, what do you think are some good options for them?

Growing up, Friday night dinner was always a special occasion, so we make it special in our house, too. On other nights, we eat at the small table in the kitchen, but on Friday we eat in the dining room. We have a brief ceremony of blessings and give the kids turns with blowing out the match or uncovering the challah. Each kid has their own Kiddush cup so they can look forward to enjoying the grape juice after the blessing. They love challah. We've made it a ritual by repetition, and they don't know any other way. I was surprised when my daughter, perhaps not yet 3 at the time, sang all the words to the Kiddush -- the long version. But I guess hearing it 100 times left a lasting impression.

 

Are any of these traditions holdovers from your own childhood?

I remember always having Friday night Shabbat dinner at our house. Even when my brother and I were going out afterward, we always had dinner together, and often had guests over. We do the blessing over the children, which I did not grow up with, but otherwise the tradition is similar.

Celebrating Our October Babies!

 

Happy Birthday


They grow up so fast, don't they?

 

Wishing a very happy birthday to all the October babies in our community!

 




Sarabeth L.
of Framingham turns 1 on Oct. 7.
Mark M. 
of Holliston turns 3 on Oct. 8.
Alex S.
of Framingham turns 2 on Oct. 13.
Ashley S.
of Ashland turns 1 on Oct. 16.
Kobe R.
of Ashland turns 4 on Oct. 17.
Max R. of Framingham turns 4 on Oct. 24.

JFN wishes all our October babies and their families happiness and joy in the coming year!

Let us wish your baby a happy birthday next month. Click here for Birthday Wishes.

Adoption and the Jewish Community:

A Conversation About Family, Identity, Diversity, and Change 

Wednesday, Oct. 5

7-8:30 p.m.

Free

Register here

 

JFS is proud to be a co-sponsor of this important conversation with Adam Pertman, author of Adoption Nation: How the Adoption Revolution Is Transforming Our Families -- and America, and Jayne Guberman and Jennifer Sartori, co-directors of the Adoption and Jewish Identity Project.

Pertman's book is an in-depth exploration of how adoption has changed dramatically in recent years, especially through the expansion of international, transracial, gay and lesbian, and open adoptions. Following a reading from the book, Pertman, Guberman, and Sartori will lead a discussion about how religious, social, and cultural issues unique to the Jewish community can intensify the complex questions of identity, allegiance, and belonging common among adoptees and their families.

A reception with the presenters will follow the conversation.

Temple Reyim
1860 Washington St. (Route 16), Newton

For more information about JFS' adoption services, Adoption Choices, which serves families of all religions and backgrounds,
visit the website or contact adoption coordinator Dale Eldridge.
Wendy's/Adoption Choices Collaboration
Now through Halloween

Halloween has long been known as a time for giving out candy, but thanks to Wendy's and JFS board member Bill Zanke, it's now a time of giving as well.

For the past several years, Wendy's franchises owned by Mr. Zanke have donated all the proceeds of sales from Wendy's Halloween Jr. Frosty coupon booklets to Adoption Choices.

The closest participating Wendy's location is on Route 9 near Route 495. To simplify things, JFS has purchased booklets that you can buy directly and pick up at JFS' Framingham office at 475 Franklin Street.

Jr. Frosty coupon books are $1 each. Each booklet contains 10 coupons for a free shake. The coupons are a special treat for kids in your neighborhood -- and a great way for you to support adoption. The proceeds will go toward placing a child with her or her new family, or toward the counseling and home studies service provided by Adoption Choices. Last year more than $20,000 was generated for Adoption Choices through the sale of these coupons!

To purchase your booklets (a minimum of 10, please) directly from JFS, please click here. Booklets will be available for pickup at JFS after Oct. 9.

For more information, please call JFS at 508-875-3100.
Parent Workshop 

Ikkarim: Parenting Through a Jewish Lens

A 10-week class parents of all backgrounds

10 Wednesdays, beginning Oct. 26

7:45-9:15 p.m.

$145/person; $240/couple

Register here!
 

 

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Ikkarim classes will meet at:  

Temple Israel of Natick 

145 Hartford St.


For more information or to learn about other locations for Ikkarim, please contact or 617-559-8733. This program is offered by Hebrew College and CJP's Commission on Jewish Life & Learning.

 

Preregistration is required. Scholarships are available.

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While browsing JewishBoston.com, check out Jewish Family Network's blog under Personal Stories, where you can find Julie's interviews with some of the amazing people in our community in one place.
2011 Boston Jewish Film Festival
See Life Through a Different Lens at the 23rd Annual Boston Jewish Film Festival.

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With the theme "Neighbors Near and Far," this year's festival screens 32 films and runs from Nov. 2-13, with additional suburban screenings beginning on Oct. 25 and running until Nov. 15.

AMC Framingham will host the New England premiere of Restoration (boker tov adon fidelman), a story that explores the father-son bond that exists between family and non-family alike. In Hebrew with English subtitles, Restoration was the winner of major awards from the Sundance Film Festival, Karlovy Vary International Film Festival, and Jerusalem Film Festival, as well as being nominated for 11 Ophirs (Israeli Academy Awards), including Best Picture and Best Director.

The Framingham screening is on Tuesday, Oct. 25, at 7 p.m.

To purchase tickets and for information about the films in this year's festival, visit the website.
Community Connections

Jewish Family Service of Metrowest
JCCs of Greater Boston-Metrowest
InterfaithFamily.com
MetroWest Jewish Day School
CJP (Combined Jewish Philanthropies)
Career Moves-JVS
Reform Jewish Outreach
Jewish Discovery Institute

The Jewish Birth Network  

Jewish Family Workshop 

    

Preschools

Beth El Preschool, Sudbury 
JCC Early Learning Center, Acton
JCC Early Learning Center, Wayland
Judy Gordon Nursery School, Natick
Temple Beth Sholom Preschool, Framingham

Synagogues

Metrowest Synagogues-North

Congregation Beth El (R), Sudbury
Congregation Beth Elohim, Acton
Congregation B'nai Torah (R), Sudbury
Congregation Kerem Shalom, Concord
Congregation Or Atid (C), Wayland
Temple Emanuel, Marlborough
Temple Shir Tikva (R), Wayland

Metrowest Synagogues-Central

Sha'arei Shalom, Ashland
Temple Beth Am (R), Framingham
Temple Beth Elohim (R), Wellesley
Temple Beth Sholom (C), Framingham
Temple Israel of Natick (C)

Metrowest Synagogues-South

Temple Beth Torah (C), Holliston
Temple Etz Chaim (R), Franklin

R=Union for Reform Judaism

C=United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism

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Tot Shabbat

 

Celebrate Small World Shabbat this month at Temple Beth Torah in Holliston at a service designed especially for families with preschoolers and younger children.


2162 Washington St., Holliston
Friday, Oct. 14
6:30-7:15 p.m.

For more information about this Tot Shabbat or to get the schedule for the rest of the year, please contact Julie Wolf.

Jewish Family Network is a collaboration of Jewish Family Service of Metrowest and the Jewish Community Centers of Greater Boston with generous support from the Metrowest Jewish Community Fund, Clare and Richard Lesser and Combined Jewish Philanthropies. Interfaith families, single parents, people with disabilities, and GLBT families are welcome. 
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