Most adults acknowledge that drug and alcohol experimentation by teens is risky and can lead to serious trouble. But some say "it's only marijuana," or "it's only alcohol." However, the world has changed, and so have the drugs. What was once excused as a "rite of passage" for some teens is now shown to have harmful and, sometimes, lasting effects.

Even with the best parent involvement, there are no guarantees. So it's important to know the signs and symptoms of drug use and to take action if you see your child displaying them. 

There is no easy way to figure out if your teen is using drugs or alcohol. Many of the signs and symptoms are typical teenage behaviors. However, as you start to recognize more and more of these signs and symptoms in your teen, a picture of drug or alcohol use may begin to become clear. For a more detailed list by substance, please click here.

• Changes in friends
• Negative changes in schoolwork, missing school, or declining grades
• Increased secrecy about possessions or activities
• Use of incense, room deodorant, or perfume to hide smoke or chemical odors
• Increase in borrowing money
• Evidence of drug paraphernalia such as pipes, rolling papers, etc.
• Bottles of eye drops, which may be used to mask bloodshot eyes or dilated pupils
• New use of mouthwash or breath mints to cover up the smell of alcohol
• Missing prescription drugs-especially narcotics and mood stabilizers

If you've discovered that your child is drinking or doing drugs, the first thing you need to do is take a deep breath. You are not in this alone - there are many people who can and will help you. Start by talking with people you know, such as family members, friends, teachers, counselors, sports team coaches, clergy, and your doctor.   All of these people, along with many on-line resources, can help you get focused and determine what to do.

You can never be too safe or intervene too early - even if you believe your teen is just "experimenting." Casual or experimental use can quickly turn into abuse, dependence or addiction; leading to accidents, legal trouble, and serious health problems. If you are at all concerned about your child - you can and should intervene by:

• Setting tighter limits with clear consequences.
• Getting outside help and support.
• Having productive conversations with your child - remain calm, share your concerns and listen.
• Closely monitoring your child's behaviors and activities.

Visit Time To Act for a parent checklist with information, tips and video to help guide you through the steps above.