Parents. The Anti-Drug

Bannockburn, Deerfield, Highland Park, Highwood, and Riverwoods

September 2011
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Don't be a party to teenage drinking


 

Greetings! 

As the new school year gets underway, so does the social scene for our teens. As parents, we recognize and value the fact that the social part of our teens lives are very important. Parties are a great way for teens to have fun, let go of some stress, and meet new people. But unfortunately, if parties are not properly planned or supervised, problems can occur.

 

According to a recent survey conducted by Parents. The Anti-Drug, over 96% of parents surveyed either disagree or strongly disagree that it is OK to let high school-aged children drink alcohol as long as adults were there to supervise, regardless of whether or not the parents had been consulted. However, when students in our communities were asked where they get alcohol from, the response was most often a. from a friend, b. at a party and c. from a parent without their permission. *

 

As parents and a community, we can keep our teens safe. Here are some tips to consider provided by Parents That Host Lose The Most.

 

*2010 Illinois Youth Survey Results

If your teen is attending a party

  • Call the parent in charge to ensure that there will be adult supervision.
  • Make certain that the host will not be providing and/or allowing any alcohol or drugs at the party.
  • Set a curfew, and make sure to have your teen check in with you when they get home.
  • Reinforce the message to your teenager that they should never allow anyone who has been drinking or using other drugs to drive them anywhere.
  • Assure your child that they can telephone you to be picked up whenever needed. 
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If your teen is giving a party

  • Help your teen plan the party. Make a guest list and invite only a specific number of people.
  • Put your phone number on the invitation and welcome calls from parents.
  • Set rules ahead of time such as no alcohol, tobacco or other drugs.
  • Let attendees know that if they leave, they can't come back.
  • Have plenty of food and non-alcoholic beverages.
  • Limit the party access to a certain area of the house/property.
  • Call parents of any teen who arrives in possession of alcohol or under the influence. If you can't get in touch with the parents, keep the teen there or call the police if necessary. You can be civilly liable if you know they have been drinking and you let them leave.
  • Make regular and unobtrusive visits to the party area with sensitivity to teens' needs for privacy and independence.

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Starting the conversation with your kids and keeping communication open isn't always easy - but it's not as difficult as you may think.  Parents. The Anti-Drug is here to provide the support, facts, and resources you may need - visit our website at www.parentstheantidrug.org or contact us at parents.theantidrug@gmail.com.

We encourage everyone to Take Time to Talk everyday.  

 

Sincerely,
 
Parents. The Anti-Drug