October News & Events
Upcoming Programs and Events 
Bowl and Candles (photo by Granger Macy)
(photo by Granger Macy)
As autumn arrives and the seasons change, Hospicare is gearing up for some new and ongoing programs to support those who have experienced loss.

Unless otherwise specified, all events take place at the Nina K. Miller Hospicare Center at 172 East King Road in Ithaca.

For a complete list and the most up-to-date information on Hospicare programs/events and dates, keep an eye on our website's "Events" page, or our Facebook page.


"Women Singin'" Rescheduled

Please note that the October and November dates for "Women Singin'" have been rescheduled to October 10th and November 7th, to avoid conflict with the upcoming bereavement event "Singing through Grief." The time will remain as usual: 5:30 - 7:00 PM.

"Women Singin'" normally occurs on the first Tuesday of the month. It is a singing circle of a cappella songs from different traditions, including harmonizing and rounds, for all women who like to sing.


Continuing Bonds Support Group Starts

This month, we will be starting a new drop-in peer support group for women who have lost their spouses/partners -- recently or a long time ago. Discussion will focus on issues pertinent to this unique loss while recognizing the importance of this continued bond in our present lives.

The Continuing Bonds Group will meet on the first and third Tuesday of the month (October 4th and 18th) from 5:30 to 7:00 PM.

As readers may recall from last month's edition, Elaine Mansfield contributed an account of her own experience with the loss of her husband, and how his role in her life has endured and evolved. She will be facilitating the Continuing Bonds group.

Please contact Elaine (elaine@lightlink.com) or Donna George (dgeorge@hospicare.org) if you are interested in taking part.


Good Grief Program: "Round & Round We Go"

Through the Good Grief Program, Hospicare offers bereavement events specifically for children ages 5 to 12 and their families. Our next Good Grief Event, "Round & Round We Go," is coming up on Thursday, October 20th, from 5:30 to 7:00 PM.

This evening event will begin with a story and then center around an activity focusing on the cycle of life. We will talk about how the cycle of life presents itself in nature and in the death of a loved one, and include what we carry forward from a deceased loved one's life. A light supper will be served.

Please register by October 14th with Kira Lallas, one of Hospicare's Bereavement Counselors, by phone (607-272-0212) or email (klallas@hospicare.org).

Help from Hospicare
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Q. I read last month's "Help from Hospicare" feature, and I feel it may have overlooked an important point: that some people actually get better on hospice. I know of someone who went onto hospice services and lived more than a year after going off. It may not be too common, but it's still deserving of mention.



Yes, it is true that some people can actually get better and "graduate" from hospice.

We know that those who utilize hospice care typically live a longer life than those who go through the dying process alone. In fact, a recent study shows that patients on hospice live an average of 29 days more than patients with the same diagnosis who are not receiving hospice services.

Hospice patients may live longer because they experience less physical and emotional suffering. After all, once someone starts hospice, they have access to a whole array of services aimed at meeting their medical, emotional and spiritual needs. With close and timely followup by the team, people's symptoms often improve and they are able to enjoy a higher quality of life. Some benefit so much that they are even able to extend their lives and "graduate" from the hospice program.

It's also important to remember that hospice is not about locking people into any one course of action forever. Patients are free to go off services at any time. For instance, if your doctor finds a new, promising treatment for your disease, you may choose to leave hospice and try the treatment. People always have the opportunity to go back onto hospice at a later time, if and when it is appropriate.

As with most aspects of our lives, the hospice journey is fraught with unexpected twists and turns. One thing you can count on is that the hospice team will walk with you -- offering support, guidance and caring along the way -- as you and your family traverse this strange and wondrous passage that we all shall meet at the end of our days.

Help From Hospicare is an advice column written by members of the Hospicare team. Every month we will feature one question in the e-news, and archive the rest on our web site. If you have a question about hospice care, pain management, spiritual matters at the end of life, bereavement, or you're wondering what to say to a friend who just entered hospice care, you can email us  and we will answer it for you. All Q&A responses will be published anonymously, and anyone of any age is welcome to ask a question!

 

**Please note, if you need to speak to Hospicare staff or have a direct patient-related question, please call 607-272-0212.


This month's question was answered by Edie Reagan, Hospicare's Spiritual Care Coordinator.

 

Read the archives online here.

 

Save the Dates!
October dates include:
  • Mindfulness Practice - Wednesdays 7:30-9:00 PM
  • Women Singin' - October 10; 5:30-7:00 PM
  • Continuing Bonds Support Group - October 4 & 18; 5:30-7:00 PM  
  • Evening Bereavement Support Group - October 5 & 19; 5:30-7:00 PM
  • Tuesday Lunch Group - October 11; 12:00 PM
  • Round & Round We Go - October 20; 5:30 - 7:00 PM (please register by October 14) 
  • Wednesday Breakfast Group - October 26; 8:30 AM

For more information on any of the above groups or events, please call 607-272-0212, or visit our web site to download a PDF of our current calendar.

Our mission is to bring medical expertise and compassionate, respectful care to people and their loved ones at any stage of a life-threatening illness, and to provide information and education about advanced illness, dying and bereavement to the entire community.
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In the News

The Annals of Extreme Surgery
In this New York Times op-ed, Columbia University professor Barron H. Lerner discusses ethics and efficacy concerns surrounding aggressive cancer treatments.

Ask the Religion Experts: How should one prepare to die?
The Ottawa Citizen poses this question to several experts with varying spiritual and humanist backgrounds, and presents an array of interpretations.

The Letting Go
Oncologist and Columbia University assistant professor of medicine Siddhartha Mukherjee muses on the often clinical detachment society has adopted towards death and its accompanying rituals.

Talking About End-of-Life Care Doesn't Raise Death Risk
A new study shows that talking about end-of-life care and having advance directives does not hasten death. 
Websites of Interest

The Dartmouth Atlas of Health Care
A project which provides information and analysis to help appraise the efficiency and effectiveness of the health care system.

Encyclopedia of Death and Dying - Continuing Bonds
Dovetailing with Hospicare's own upcoming Continuing Bonds Support Group and Elaine Mansfield's article in last month's edition, this page discusses the enduring significance of the deceased in the lives of loved ones.
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