FACING THE ENEMIES WITHIN
by Jim Rohn
We
are not born with courage, but neither are we born with fear. Maybe
some of our fears are brought on by our own experiences, by what
someone has told you, by what you've read in the papers. Some fears are
valid, like walking alone in a bad part of town at two o'clock in the
morning. But once you learn to avoid that situation, you won't need to
live in fear of it.
Fears,
even the most basic ones, can totally destroy our ambitions. Fear can
destroy fortunes. Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if left
unchecked, can destroy our lives. Fear is one of the many enemies
lurking inside us.
Let me tell you about five of the other enemies we face from within.
The first enemy that you've got to destroy before it destroys you is indifference.
What a tragic disease this is. "Ho-hum, let it slide. I'll just drift
along." Here's one problem with drifting: you can't drift your way to
the top of the mountain.
The second enemy we face is indecision.
Indecision is the thief of opportunity and enterprise. It will steal
your chances for a better future. Take a sword to this enemy.
The third enemy inside is doubt.
Sure, there's room for healthy skepticism. You can't believe
everything. But you also can't let doubt take over. Many people doubt
the past, doubt the future, doubt each other, doubt the government,
doubt the possibilities and doubt the opportunities. Worse of all, they
doubt themselves. I'm telling you, doubt will destroy your life and
your chances of success. It will empty both your bank account and your
heart. Doubt is an enemy Go after it. Get rid of it.
The fourth enemy within is worry.
We've all got to worry some. Just don't let it conquer you. Instead,
let it alarm you. Worry can be useful. If you step off the curb in New
York City and a taxi is coming, you've got to worry. But you can't let
worry loose like a mad dog that drives you into a small corner. Here's
what you've got to do with your worries: drive them into a small
corner. Whatever is out to get you, you've got to get it. Whatever is
pushing on you, you've got to push back.
The fifth interior enemy is over-caution.
It is the timid approach to life. Timidity is not a virtue; it's an
illness. If you let it go, it'll conquer you. Timid people don't get
promoted. They don't advance and grow and become powerful in the
marketplace. You've got to avoid over-caution.
Do
battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears. Build your courage to
fight what's holding you back, what's keeping you from your goals and
dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the things
you want and the person you want to become.
To Your Success, Jim Rohn
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