June 2012 Newsletter SuccessfulCollegeParenting.com

 

Successful College Parenting Strategies

 

When you are more successful in your parenting your student is more successful in gaining skills for life! TM

 

Greetings!  
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Summer reading anyone?

 

Parents of high school and college students often ask if I have any parenting books to recommend, and then they are surprised when most of the books I suggest don't have the word "parenting" in the title.  

 

Your son or daughter benefits when you:
  •  focus on effective communication;
  • help your student to envision and cultivate whatever is next (choosing a major, summer job, graduate school, etc.);
  • acknowledge your student's competencies; what seems to be working well;
  • present opportunities for your son or daughter to strengthen or expand his or her life skills.  

With this in mind, the books listed below can contribute to one's parenting and relationship with one's student, and they can also enrich one's perspectives and interactions. 

 

Here are a few recommendations to consider:

 

The Art of Choosing

by Sheena Iyengar  

 

Let Your Life Speak

by Parker J. Palmer 


College of the Overwhelmed,
by Richard D. Kadison and Theresa Foy DiGeronimo

 

Transitions: Making Sense of Life's Changes, 
by William Bridges

 

Wishing you time to read and opportunities to optimize your parenting.

 

All the best, Kay 

Kay Kimball Gruder

Founder, Successful College Parenting 

M.Ed.& Parent Coaching Institute™ Certified Parent Coach®
   

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In This Issue
June Article: Parenting Then & Now
Did You Know: Housing needs and concerns
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This Month's Article:  Parenting Then & Now
  • In what ways can your recollections of your early parenting guide you as your son or daughter progresses through college?
  • What qualities did you exhibit when your child was learning to ride a bike or to tie shoes?
  •  Are you less patient with your college student than when he or she tried to master something new as a young child? 
  • Around what situations do you expect your student to struggle                  
     or possibly fail while at college? 

Did You Know...Parents & College Students Weigh In on Housing Needs and Concerns

As you probably have experienced, campus and off-campus housing can be a source of angst for both parents and students.  Additionally, many students seek off-campus options, for a variety of reasons, after spending a minimum amount of time living on campus. 

 

In a recent survey conducted by J Turner Research, a market research firm that specializes in serving what is called the "multifamily industry" and the National Apartment Association launched "one of the largest student housing surveys" ever conducted. 

 

"When it came to selecting an apartment, 47 percent of students cited rental rates and price as their top determinant, while parents pushed security to the top of their list. In fact, at 20 percent, rental rates and pricing ranked only third among parent respondents, who ranked security (34 percent) and location/proximity to campus (29 percent) as more important than price when selecting an apartment community for their student."

 

Other findings included in this survey can be found here.

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Sincerely,  
Kay Kimball Gruder, M.Ed., Parent Coaching Institute™ Certified Parent Coach®
 
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