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July 2011
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From the Pastor's Desk

 

Denominational Ch-ch-changes...

Tobin - color

 

I confess that it is difficult to know where to start in this writing. My intent is to keep you informed and to have a pastoral response. It is from the perspective of transparent information sharing and as your pastor that I will write this article. My own personal preferences will remain just that... personal.

 

Beginning July 10, 2011, there are two significant changes that will be adopted by the PCUSA. The first is a change to the Book of Order known as Amendment 10-A.  That is the name given to the action taken by the General Assembly of the denomination when it met last summer in Minneapolis. Any change made by the GA to our constituting Book of Order requires affirmation by a majority of the smaller regional bodies, known as Presbyteries. This particular change represents the latest development in our tradition's 30-year struggle to discern how we understand and welcome homosexual persons within the church.

 

Since 1996 the standard for ordination to the offices of Deacon, Elder, and Minister of Word and Sacrament as articulated by the Book of Order G-6.0106b required that those called to such offices in the church, "live either in fidelity within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman, or chastity in singleness." Among other things, this requirement was viewed as an attempt to prohibit self-acknowledged homosexual men and women from being ordained to these offices in the church. The amendment that has passed would replace the current standard with the following:

 

          Standards for ordained service reflect the church's desire to submit joyfully to the Lordship of Jesus Christ in all aspects of life. The governing body responsible for ordination and/or installation shall examine each candidate's calling, gifts, preparation, and suitability for the responsibilities of office. The examination shall include, but not be limited to, a determination of the candidate's ability and commitment to fulfill all requirements as expressed in the constitutional questions for ordination and installation. Governing bodies shall be guided by Scripture and the confessions in applying standards to individual candidates.

 

So what does it all mean, and why am I writing about it? For some this change in language may be cause to celebrate and for others this change in language may be cause to lament. There are people here at LBPC who represent both sides of this issue and others are struggling somewhere in between. I would pastorally ask that we quietly respect each other within this continuum.  I believe that a risen Christ is the Lord of all of us and we can mutually coexist in comm-unity.

 

The change will clear the way for some gay and lesbian persons to openly serve in the church. The standard for ordination will no longer be expressed in the limited language of sexual behavior. The governing bodies tasked with examining candidates for ordination: the Session for Elders and Deacons, and the Presbytery for Ministers (soon to be Teaching Elders), must still be guided by Scripture and our confessions. The new language reflects the divided opinion of our denomination on the question of homosexuality. The change will allow the appropriate ordaining body to ordain whom they would like according to the new language. Some will choose to ordain gay and lesbian persons and others will not.

 

Pastorally, I would again offer the following: This is one of those issues on which people of good character, strong faith in Jesus as Savior and Lord, and principles differ.  As Presbyterians, we believe that the only way we will find God's will for the church is by seeking it together-worshiping, praying, thinking, and serving alongside one another. We are neighbors and colleagues, friends and family. Most importantly, we are children of God, saved and led by Jesus Christ, and filled with the Holy Spirit, to God be all glory!

 

I am committed to creating space within the Trinity place for all to worship, pray, serve, and engage.  Like with any family conflict, there will be those who are deeply angered and hurt by this development. Some may even decide to leave. I think that would be a grave mistake. For too long (since the beginning of the church, unfortunately) the body of Christ has suffered from its share of division and disagreement. Walking away is no solution to these disagreements. If anything, walking away only makes matters worse because it shows us to be no different than everyone else. When we walk away we put our personal comfort and needs above the love Christ commands us to have for others. When we walk away the church is impoverished, because each member is precious in the sight of God and necessary to the health of the body.

 

If you were to ask me my position, I would say that I have no position because I believe that Jesus is the center of our life together. People are more important than positions. Positions get in the way of what God wants to do. So I will let God work out with each of us and therefore all of us what sanctification and transformation looks like. God be with us all.

 

The second change is a new form of government. It has been referred to as nfog. While I am admittedly less versed in this change it means that our Book of Order will significantly be reduced to accommodate many ministry situations that are emerging that do not fit our process and paradigms. The local church and Presbyteries will have more freedom to live into their mission together. We will have a way forward and still access to "operational manuals" that contain much of what was in the older Book of Order. I will keep you updated as I come to understand them myself.

 

For most of us, our day-to-day life in Encountering God in worship, Encouraging one another in life and faith and Engaging the world for Christ will remain unchanged. 

 

Should you have further questions or comments please do not hesitate to make an appointment with me so that we can respectfully dialogue about these changes.

 

I love all of you,

 

Tobin

 

Tobin 

 

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Your Session

 

Moderator of Session

Tobin Wilson

 

Clerk of Session 

Melinda Glass

 

Encounter God in Worship

Jenna Fox

Brandon Stoy

 

Encourage One Another in Community

Norma Kastien  

Margarita Suarez

 

Engage in the World As Transformers of Culture

Steve Glass

Carolyn Carpenter

 

Property

Steve Turner

Gordon Shaw

 

Finance

Paul Larson, elder with

Anne Tiernan, Treasurer

 

Capital Improvements

Paul Larson

 

Personnel

Tim O'Brien 

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Clerk's Corner
 

Happy summer!

1.      Your session leaders continue to work hard in every aspect of your church.  They are creative, insightful, compassionate and passionate in their work and commitment to their call as elders for the work of your church. 

2.      "Super Tuesdays" - The second Tuesday of July will be a time for all of the committees and teams to meet, share information and do their work.  If you are interested in attending, come at 7 p.m. and see what is happening.  There will be a brief time for questions at each of the team meetings.  It is "Super!"

3.      In terms of finances, we, as a church, are experiencing a downward trend in our income.  The Finance group continues to watch this closely to assure that we are using our resources in the best way possible.  In that light, the actions that the session took in May to go forward with the "Commons, Fund Raising and Hiring of a Fund-Raising Consultant" were rescinded. This is a pause, not a cancellation, of the concepts and actions, until the session feels that we are in a better financial position to move this very large project forward.  Although disappointing, this was a thoughtful and intentional decision by the session.  We thank the Campus Improvement Task Force in all of the work they have done on and with the campus in the last few years.  What they have accomplished, and the path that has been set forth is remarkable.  Again, this is a pause, not a cancellation, of the Master Plan.  Many, many thanks to this great team.

4.      There will be an internal fundraising committee from the PFC team to create a plan to pay back our endowment funds that we used to complete the campus improvements to date.

5.      Please remember: in our new structure, newsletter submissions will need to go through the elder(s) in charge of that area.  This will assure communication efforts are consistent with all components of each ministry team.  If you want to submit an article and are unsure who to send it to here is a list of the elders and their areas;

Encounter:  Brandon Stoy and Jenna Fox

Encourage:  Margarita Suarez and Norma Kastien

Engage:  Carolyn Carpenter and Steve Glass

Personnel:  Tim O'Brien

Property, Finance and Capital Improvements:  Gordon Shaw, Steve Turner and Paul Larson

NOTE:  If you are on a deacon committee, those newsletter articles need to go through the deacon moderator, Beth Williams, before going to publish. We continue to work closely with the deacons and their teams as we navigate to a new structure of LBPC

6.      There will not be a regular session meeting in July and the next time we will meet will be Aug. 23, 2011. 

 

Respectfully submitted,

Melinda Glass, LBPC clerk

 

 

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ENCOUNTER

 

 

Charge: To provide for the maintenance of divine worship at all levels at LBPC as God is encountered in worship and the sacraments

 

The words committee meeting don't usually put much pep in my step, but I have to admit, I sure had fun at our first Super Tuesday event on June 14! The group of about 30 were each greeted by name and a round-of-applause (initiated by our very own Encounter elder, Brandon Stoy), which proved to bring an enjoyable atmosphere to our meeting time! Each elder attended the event, and was able to answer questions about our charge for our respective focus areas. If you didn't make it to the first event, no fear, there will be another in July! Come out for a fun time, learn what your elders and deacons are doing, get some questions answered, and perhaps find a fun project to get involved in! We will be meeting the second Tuesday in June, at 7 p.m.

 

One thing that came out of our Encounter portion of the Super Tuesday meeting was the importance of providing a clean, neat, organized, and well-stocked sanctuary for our members and visitors, so that we can all enter in to worship without being distracted by missing pencils or gum wrappers littering the pews! While Brandon and I would love to be able to physically handle all that goes into maintaining the sanctuary, we have realized that two of us just cannot do it alone! We are looking for a few people who would be willing to regularly pitch in on Sundays before the service (perhaps 15 or 20 minutes before, depending on how many can help) to make sure that the pews are straightened and filled with all of the essentials! If you are willing to help out, please let Brandon or me know! Not everyone feels called to read scripture or sing in the choir, so perhaps your contribution to Encountering God in worship could be by helping us provide a lovely space for worship!

 

Jenna Fox, elder 

 

ENCOURAGE

 

Charge: To foster authentic community and encourage congregational life at LBPC

Goal: To serve as an umbrella for present and future ministries and promote communication among all ministries as well as with the congregation

Members:

Elders: Norma Kastien, Margarita Suarez

Deacon Moderator: Beth Williams

Presbyterian Women representative: Barbara Carlsen

Key leaders: Jan Cox, Penny Hickman, Natalie Sarantos and Priscilla Stephenson

We encourage you to share your questions and ideas with any of the members of this committee.

 

Support Group Leader Training

Widowed Information and Consultation Services (WICS) is a program offering support to those coping with the death of their spouse/partner. Margarita is Executive Director of WICS and wants to offer the opportunity for you to attend a special training WICS is having for support group facilitators. This training is focused on the needs of widowed individuals, but is general enough to apply to other grief issues as well. Becoming a facilitator may not be an interest, but the class may give you ideas of the grief process and how to support yourself and others during the grief journey. Dr. Bob Baugher will lead the training and Margarita will be there in a support role for the training. If you would like to attend or have any questions, please contact Margarita for more information.

Date: Saturday, Oct. 15

Time: 8:30 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Place: Lake Burien Presbyterian Church, multipurpose room

 

Are You There?

Would you like home Communion? Can you help?

There is a small group of individuals who cannot get to church and would welcome a visit and homebound communion. There is a larger group of ordained elders and deacons, some of them not actively serving but still empowered to serve, who could offer this extension of the Lord's Supper. Both these groups may grow as word gets around that we can help. If you want us to come to you on Communion Sundays, call me. If you're willing to go, teamed with at least one other and armed with preparation and instructions, your commitment would probably be for once or twice in a year. Call me to sign up or for more information.

Penny Hickman (206.248.1623)

 

The Deeds of Your Dedicated Deacons

How are the deacons evolving with the new church configuration?

 

Deacons' tasks fall under category of Encouragement: Providing food, transportation, hospitality, children's gifts, helping hands, outreach, visitation, spiritual support and homebound communion. This is the second part of an article to share what your deacons are doing and to invite you to join in the ministry that matches your situation, gifts and interests.

 

Last month I explained three of the ways the deacons are working to provide service at LBPC: the food baskets and distribution, The 'Ask Me' table, and books for kids. Here are some more of the projects:

 

Helping Hands - Andrew Carpenter

Andy works most every Sunday service assisting or subbing for Dean, who is in charge of our video and sound system, not only for Sunday but for memorial services. His task is that of infrastructure sort of help without which activities here at LBPC would not run smoothly, or even at all, like setting up tables and chairs, or directing parking for big events, organizing work parties. Andy could be called upon to organize efforts to provide work assistance to a member in need.

 

Transportation - Lee Weber

LBPC provides van transportation to many of our congregation who need a ride to church, primarily those who live in assisted living or retirement communities such as Judson Park and Wesley Homes. This is a very important ministry for those who no longer drive, or do not care to drive in inclement weather. Lee is part of a team that provides this service.

 

Homebound Communion - Penny Hickman

LBPC has a tradition to take Communion to those who are not able to attend church. This is one of the ways to keep those no longer able to come to worship embraced by the arms of the congregation. They are still very much a part of our whole, and certainly welcome to the Lord's Table - sometimes take-out is needed. Anyone who has been ordained as an elder or deacon, present or past, can participate. And more participants are needed. Penny would like to expand this ministry beyond Wesley Gardens to some of our brothers and sisters who are house bound in other living situations. It is a blessing to those we visit and actually the bigger blessing comes to us as we visit with them.

 

Friend to Friend - Beth Williams

Historically deacons have visited the sick for comfort, prayer and companionship. The deacons would like to enhance and strengthen this ministry to members who become ill, injured or infirm, or those who have lost loved ones. Deacons want to know of needs in our church community and to try to help with a visit, prayer, a card, or a meal-some gesture that says we care. Please let Beth know if there is someone who would benefit from this support. If it is a hospital call, please let Tobin know and he will call Beth if desired.

 

Connections - Peggy Meyer

This ministry is somewhat nebulous specifically but its goal is to connect members of the body so that we are not just arriving at church, maybe having a cookie, and scattering for the week. We are a congregation and community. It is to try to connect members' talents, interests and gifts with those of others in service to the whole. Right now it is with sharing information - trying to make certain that all of us know of the vibrant life here at LBPC and all the opportunities there are to put your gifts to work with and for others.

 

Assimilation of New Members - Sarah Fox

This is an essential ministry and Sarah is meeting with Tobin and Beth to brainstorm ways to welcome new members warmly. To really get acquainted. Packets of information? Get-to-know-each-other dinners? One suggestion Sarah (as a new member) had immediately is WEAR YOUR NAME TAGS. Not only to the service but also to the coffee time. It is SO hard to remember names even for those of us who have been attending LBPC for years. If you do not have a nametag let Rhonda at the "Ask Me" table know. Or, ask any of the deacons and we will see that you get one. Interested in helping our new members? See Sarah Fox.

 

JAN MANTLE IS READY TO TAKE ANY EXTRA FRESH FRUIT YOU MAY HARVEST FROM YOUR GARDEN. SHE WILL TAKE IT TO THE FOOD BANK. BRING IT TO SUNDAY SERVICE, OR CALL JAN 206.241.8323 IF YOU NEED SOME ASSISTANCE WITH HARVEST.

 

Your deacons: Beth Williams (moderator), Lee Weber, Jan Mantle, Rhonda Duncan, Cindy Waddington, Jennette Robertson, Paul and Lisa Larson, Penny Hickman, Andy Carpenter, Sarah Fox, Lolly Parker, and Peggy Meyer

 

Peggy Meyer

 

Thank You

My family and I wish to thank everyone who helped us during Don's memorial service. We appreciate the kind support.

Sincerely,

Greta Norling

 

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ENGAGE

  

Charge: To provide for spiritual nurture and growth for all ages to an engaging faith that articulates the Gospel with words and demonstrates the Gospel in love, justice and action

 

Carolyn Carpenter and Steve Glass, Chairs; Committee members: Gail Lane, Sharon Larson, Sally Mackey, Melinda Mackey-O'Brien, Sarah Pham (staff) Linda Shaw, Nola Sparks, Judy Todd (PW Women), Sonya Vasilieff, Don Weber, Dawn Wilson, Dee Wix.

 

 

Sarah Pham 

 

Children's Department

Our summer program was officially launched on June 28 and we are excited to have three interns on board for the summer. If you see them around, please welcome them to the LBPC/UGM team. They are:

 

Tai Weinman. Tai is a senior at the University of Washington, double-majoring in English and Psychology.Tai This is her third summer working with Union Gospel Mission at the Lake Burien site. She loves LBPC and all the wonderful community service she sees being done through the church outside of UGM's program. Tai looks forward to coming back every year and she is definitely excited for this summer!

 

AndersAnders Dallum. Anders graduated from the University of Washington this past spring. He spent the past few years volunteering with kids at the Union Gospel Mission's Hope Place Shelter and he's looking forward to working in Burien with the elementary kids this summer.

 

Jessica Stocks. Jessica is 21 years old. She is a proud member of theJessica Dawg Pack at the University of Washington. She's pursuing political science and will be joining the Marine Corp after she graduates next year. This is her third summer working with Seattle's Union Gospel Mission as a summer youth intern and she plans to return every year possible!

 

In other news...Vacation Bible School is quickly approaching, and I am in need of some more people who are willing to help me serve the youth of the community Aug. 29-Sept. 1. Here are the positions that need to be filled and ones that have already been filled:

 

Preschool/Kindergarten Leader: ____________________

Chef Basil (Assembly Leader): ___________________

Scraps the Raccoon (Puppeteer): _____________________

Bible Storyteller: Clyde Sparks

Music Leader: _________________________

Discovery Time Leader: Carolyn Carpenter

Recreation Leader: _______________________

Craft Leader: ___________________________

Snack Leaders: Dawn and Maddie Wilson

Mission Leader: __________________________

Lead Decorator: Penny Hickman

 

As you can see, there are several positions that need to be filled and people who are needed to help out on different teams (decorating, actors with the Bible Storyteller, etc). If one of these jobs isn't speaking to you, we also need people who would be willing to follow the children around to the various stations since this is a rotational model VBS. Please pray about getting involved in this year's VBS and look out for us in this year's 4th of July parade in Burien!

 

In Christ,

Sarah Pham

 

Hospitality House

The house is in serious need of bus passes (ticket booklets can be purchased at Bartells, etc.) as well as paper goods (toilet paper, paper towels and the items listed on the June donations list), pajamas in large sizes, vinyl shower curtain liners (heavy duty), bath mats, washcloths and net balls for showering rather than sponges. Items can be dropped at the HH office.

 

Peggy Meyer

 

 

Thank You from Presbyterian Women

­­­­­­On May 22, our annual Alice Winters' Silent Auction was held following worship. We thank everyone who contributed donations and who made bids at the auction. Also, some made separate contributions as well. We are pleased to announce that thanks to your support, we raised over $850 for the support of the Rev. Alice Winters in Colombia. Alice has ministered to the Colombian people for over 35 years. She inspires all of us as she keeps on with her devotion and dedication to the Colombians who have faced volcanoes, floods and earthquakes just during the years that she has served there. This country has also faced the temptations of giving in to the drug lords who want them to grow the plants that provide cocaine. We are grateful that you also care about the Colombians. Thank you. 

 

 

School Supplies for Seahurst School

This is the seventh year LBPC has collected school supplies for Seahurst School. Eighty percent of the students at Seahurst are part of the free or reduced lunch program. Knowing this helps us be aware that many children will not have the school supplies they need. You can help by purchasing some things or, if you would rather, you can make a monetary donation to LBPC, marking that it is for "Seahurst School Supplies." The Super Shopper will do your shopping! Bring your donations to LBPC on any of the first three Sundays of August.

 

What should you buy?

Needed items are pens, pencils, crayons, rulers, notebook paper, erasers, notebooks, spiral notebooks, backpacks.

 

Thanks to all of you for your on-going support for our neighbor school.

Nola Sparks, 206.824.3186, nolasparks@msn.com

 

 

From the Health Care Team

Drowning in Clutter? Here's How to Tell If You Have a Problem

Disorganized, messy surroundings can lead to stress, depression and anxiety. But help is available.

A potentially problematic tendency to pack too many possessions into available space affects up to five percent of American adults, many of whom are senior citizens who have spent a lifetime accumulated belongings. Their compulsive cluttering can range from a mild problem with messiness to hoarding so severe that experts have proposed classifying their behavior as a mental disorder.

 

"Everyone has some drawer or shelf that is overfilled with belongings, but some people have collected so many objects that they have difficulty functioning normally in their living spaces," explains Jessica Rasmussen, MA, a Clinical Psychology Fellow in the MGH Department of Psychiatry. "People with more serious hoarding problems tend to have difficulties with organization, making decisions and impulse control. The longer the problem persists, the more distressing it becomes, and the more difficult to deal with."

 

The good news is that there is help for over-accumulators of all stripes. Self-help strategies can restore order to the lives of people who are merely chronically disorganized. For people with severe problems, treatment with medications and/or talk therapy can often reduce or eliminate hoarding symptoms. A recent study suggests Internet treatment may also be effective.

 

Researchers enrolled 106 adults with hoarding symptoms in a private, online self-help group and placed another group of 155 similar adults on a waiting list. The online group was required to post information monthly on steps they had taken to reduce hoarding and the progress they were making toward their goal. They were provided access to a chat group, Internet resources on hoarding, and information aimed at changing attitudes toward hoarding. Results showed that, compared to participants on the waiting list, participants in the online group experienced greater improvement and showed greater reductions in clutter and hoarding symptoms at the end of the 15-month study, according to a report in the Jan. 1, 2010, issue of the journal Behavior Research and Therapy.

 

Warning signs

Experts say these signs indicate that messiness and disorganization may be developing into a more serious problem:

·         Impulsively purchasing or saving items that are not needed, have little value, and for which there is no room.

·         Often having trouble finding things, and at times repurchasing items.

·         Losing important papers, such as bills, causing missed deadlines and financial problems.

·         Having difficulty accessing workspaces such as counters and desktops without moving objects to make room.

·         Living with doorways or pathways that are blocked by possessions.

·         Having difficulties with family members over messiness and clutter.

·         Feeling reluctant to invite people home because of the clutter.

·         Facing safety hazards because of accumulated possessions.

·         Having difficulty deciding what to do with unneeded possessions.

·         Feeling depressed or anxious about the accumulation of clutter and/or about parting with possessions.

 

Getting help

In some people, excessive cluttering may be related to mental disorders such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
For others, possessions may have strong emotional significance, or be believed to be essential for the future. Hoarding also may be a sign that an older person is overwhelmed, or showing early symptoms of dementia.

 

For people with mild clutter problems, basic self-help strategies (e.g., breaking up large tasks into small chunks, such as tackling one room at a time, focusing on dealing with just 10 items each day, or setting up an organized system for new possessions) can be very helpful.

 

"People with more serious hoarding problems-those whose daily functioning is impaired by the disorder, or who are having financial difficulties, health problems, or other issues because of their hoarding-should seek professional assessment," advises Susan Sprich, PhD, Clinical Director of the Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy Program at Massachusetts General Hospital.

 

"Family and friends can provide support by learning about hoarding and encouraging their loved ones to get help. Antidepressants and/or talk therapy can help address control issues, anxiety, depression and other feelings that may underlie hoarding tendencies, and make it easier for people with hoarding problems to confront their disorder."

 

What you can do

People who are concerned that they or a loved one might have a hoarding problem can find valuable information online at:

·         www.ocfoundation.org. This site has a special section on hoarding with information on resources, treatments, self-help groups, and more.

·         www.hoardingcleanup.com. This site has a database of qualified resources including cleaning companies, therapists and psychiatrists across the United States that are all familiar with the hoarding disorder.

Source: Massachusetts General Hospital, Mind, Mood and Memory, May, 2011

 

 

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PROPERTY AND FINANCE

   

Campus Master Plan Update

On Tuesday evening, June 28, session made the decision to pause the process for the Commons building. We have preapproval from the City of Burien along with the schematic design; however, after assessing our current-year financial position, session decided that it would be prudent to wait until after 2011 to re-evaluate the project.

 

In the meantime, we have much to celebrate! For over two years, the Campus Task Force made up of Jim Jennings, Sonja Vasilieff, Mark Rekate, Steve Turner, Paul Larson and Tobin Wilson, along with countless volunteers, have made an amazing difference to our campus. Let's enjoy our facilities and continue to maintain its beauty.

 

As promised to the congregation, we will begin the process of paying back the funds we loaned ourselves from the Endowment Fund. If you are interested in helping to develop a strategy for this campaign, please contact me at 206.914.4423 or email me at cyclist_paul@comcast.net. There are also opportunities to serve on the Property and Finance Committee and we'd love to bring on new members.

 

We appreciate your patience and support!

 

Capital Improvements Chair

Paul Larson

 

2011 Budget as of May 31, 2011

Budget             $337.950

     Income        $128,768

     Expense      $133,060

 

 

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