You make us smile: 
Our heroes, Dr. Tortora and Zonta.
alex smile photoAlex and her new smile!
 
Many of you will remember the email in which we detailed meeting a young Hispanic woman, Alexandra, in the maximum security unit of the prison ...
Alexandra was coming home with the help of Redeem-Her but was in need of significant dental work to the extent that we wondered how she would possibly find work.  We sent out an email and our newest hero responded. 
 
Dr. John Tortora of Smiles By Design in Brick, NJ (www.smilesbydesignnj.com) came to our rescue.  In a series of appointments, Dr. Tortora crafted a brand new smile for Alexandra as she entered her brand new life.
 
Currently, Alexandra is working full-time at McDonalds and part-time at Redeem-Her's thrift boutique. She works with a tutor through Literacy Volunteers of America and is waiting to begin training through the Division of Vocational Rehabilitation to provide personal care in a nursing home setting.  She recently celebrated one year free from drugs and alcohol.
 
dr tortora photoWe were all so impressed with the tender loving care given to Alexandra by Dr. Tortora and everyone in his office that we all have made Dr. Tortora our dentist, as well.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Thank you Dr. Tortora!

Thank you Zonta of Ocean County!
Lori at trA huge thank you, as well, to our long time friends at Zonta of Ocean County (www.zonta.org) for their scholarship to Lori in order for her to participate in an online high school diploma program.  Currently Lori works full-time at the Crystal Diner in Toms River, and part-time at the Second Chances Thrift Boutique.  In addition, she participates in group and individual counseling, so the flexibility afforded by the online diploma is essential.  After graduation, Lori plans to continue on to college to pursue certification as a Drug and Alcohol Counselor.  Her goal is to work for Redeem-Her and we think that would be just great!
 
 
Three more Redeem-Her women are waiting for the opportunity to participate in our online high school diploma program.  Will your family, group, or church consider funding a $395 scholarship for one of them?
 
Redeem-Her's founder in the news:
trenton times logoForum explores ways to help ex-inmates make transition.
 
Sunday, March 29, 2009
BY CHRIS STURGIS
Special to the Times
 
HIGHTSTOWN--Prisons should prepare convicts to be productive, law-abiding citizens upon release, but too often they function as warehouses for low-level offenders, said the Rev. Robert T. Schulze, director of the Prison Ministry of the Diocese of Trenton.

Schulze spoke at yesterday's annual Prison Ministry Forum at St. Anthony of Padua Church in Hightstown, where about 50 people, including prison chaplains, citizens who volunteer in prisons and former inmates came together to discuss how they can help.

Schultze said in his 35 years of work with inmates, he has seen a trend toward longer sentences for nonviolent offenses, while services to help former prisoners adjust to life on the outside have waned.

The guest speaker was Assemblywoman Bonnie Watson Coleman (D-Mercer), the New Jersey Assembly's majority leader, who hosted a series of hearings last fall on the vicious cycle of re-arrest and re-incarceration.

"We have an awesome task ahead of us," she said. "The involvement of faith-based communities is so crucial, because of your legitimacy, because of what you stand for, and because of what you believe in," she said.

A group of former inmates addressed the audience, identifying themselves only by first name.

Speaking quietly and shyly, John said he made a successful transition following 17 years in the state prison system. He said he succeeded because of the chaplain and volunteers who worked with him while he was behind bars.

"If it weren't for people like you, I would have come out with a hardened heart," he said. "You preserve a soft place in the human heart in a system that often convinces us to do otherwise."

Another former inmate, Dennis, said he struggled in the halfway house to which he was released after his 25-year sentence came to close. He described himself as a career thief who knew nothing about holding a job. He only knew how to talk to others in a loud, assertive way suited to the coarse, all-male environment of prison.

John and Stacey Kindt also spoke of their incarceration for their highly publicized plan to take John's children from a previous marriage. Her conviction was later overturned by the state Supreme Court.

John Kindt said despite the public perception of inmates, he met some extremely kind people, including one who gave him the sweatshirt off of his back because he was freezing one night in a county jail.  "It was all he had," Kindt said.

Stacey Kindt has since founded Redeem-Her, an organization that gives women housing and assistance when they finish their prison sentences.
She said the ex-inmates often arrive with no driver's license, no work skills and no clothing suitable for a job interview. They receive an ex-offender ID, but it is of little value for identification because it is stamped with the words "This is not a legal document."

More information about her organization can be found at Redeem-Her.org.

One audience member, John Carlucci of St. Mary's Church in Colts Neck, said he has been visiting prisoners at Trenton State Prison since the day a prison chaplain invited him 12 years ago.  He said he now considers the inmates his friends, and his service has "put flesh on my faith," he said.

"The system believes that if you punish someone long enough, they will not want to go back to prison and will do only honest work, but the system does nothing to make them ready for honest work," he said.  
 
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