Greetings!
If you manage a staff, you need time set aside
specifically for communicating with them. As I
progressed through the levels of leadership in my
career, one thing became incredibly clear. When I
didn't take the time to listen up front to an employee, I
would inevitably spend twice as much time later
addressing the problem again.
My natural tendency was to make a quick assessment
of a situation and provide solutions, then move on to
the next. But this approach came back to bite me
more than once and I came to realize that perhaps I
hadn't gathered all the important data. After
assessing this process, I developed a new problem-
solving formula that I started to use with my team.
1. I took time to listen intently when a team
member came to me with an issue.
2. I repeated what I heard back to the
employee in my own words, confirming what was
being said.
3. I asked a few clarifying questions and
collected additional details to get the full picture.
Using this formula helped me pull back what I call "the
shiny veneer" that employees usually start with. For
some reason, many people tend to beat around the
bush initially. It's almost as if they need to warm up
before revealing a matter of concern. The combined
skills of listening, clarifying, and questioning allowed
me to drill deeper and get beneath the "shiny veneer"
more quickly to discover what was really at the heart of
the issue..
This up-front listening method proved to be
invaluable. Previously my rushed solutions
addressed only the surface level. However, the new
process gave me tools to slow down, ask questions,
gather facts, and consider multiple angles. It was
worth the time investment because I frequently got to
the root the first time around.
The practice doesn't require listening to someone
rattle on and on. Instead, you can direct people to
bottom line the story for you. Also, you can ask for
permission to interrupt with a clarifying question.
Here are some inquiries that keep the conversation
focused:
· How does this impact you?
· What else do I need to know about this
situation?
· What's the bottom line?
· What solutions do you have?
· How can I help?
Not only will these skills help you resolve issues more
effectively and efficiently, but there are other benefits
as well. Employees will feel supported and heard.
You will build trust and better relationships with your
team. And, you will model the process which they can
then use with their own teams, improving
communication and solutions down the line as well.
Next time you feel you don't have time to listen to the
whole story, remember that could very well be the
short cut you need to keep things running smoothly.
The benefits far out weigh the time investment and
provide better solutions in the long run.
About the author: (Paul is the President of Action
Business Advisors, LLC, an ACTIONCOACH
Business Coaching practice located in Shelton, CT.
To contact Paul, e-mail at
paullavoie@actioncoach.com or call 203.954.0035.)
We have a team meeting every Monday morning to
keep an open dialogue with our staff. We ask for
concerns and anything that our staff sees that needs
improvement in how we operate and service our
customers. Multiple perspectives always yield good
ideas and keep things fresh. Listening goes a long
way to keeping staff morale and loyalty up.
THANKSGIVING HOLIDAY CLOSURE
We will be closed Thursday and Friday in order to
allow our staff to spend time with family and friends
over this holiday weekend. As always, if you have an
emergency, we have a technician available on-call to
assist you. We at Pilothouse would like to wish all of
you a safe, relaxing holiday.
Don't forget to check your holiday schedule and
call us
before Thursday if you aren't sure.
Thank you for your continued business and trusting
Pilothouse Communications with your vital business
communications. We are here to be your business
partner in all communications- voice/data/video
security.
Sincerely,
Sue Carlson
Pilothouse Communications, LLC
phone:
203-649-6405