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Hello Friends:

Well, it's only May but as I write this newsletter, my beloved Mets have been in last place, then, not too long after, they were in first place.  Right now, they hover at the top of their division.  I mention this as my way of honoring them now, because as the old proverb says: This, too, shall pass" (probably by the end of the weekend).  Who knows?

Thank you for all the wonderful responses to last month's newsletter.  I was very touched, and I am happy to be of service to you.

This is the month in which we honor our mothers and all those who cared for us and nurtured us in a maternal way.  Thank you to all those wonderful women.

I am honoring the Divine Feminine this month, beginning with the main article below, and followed by weekly blog articles that touch on more about Her and meditation.

And be sure to check out the Ah-Man Blog in May to learn more about the Divine Feminine.

Until next time.



Following is a condensed version of an article recently submitted for publication at,the #1 self- improvement site on the Internet.

So what does Divine Feminine Energy mean?  What is it?  What does it look like?  How does it feel?  The answers will be different for each of us, of course.  But there are also similar characteristics that we will all experience.


In a general sense, I want to share with you the answers to those questions and more.  But before I do that, I need to define the phrase Divine Feminine Energy.  For the purposes of this article, that definition is:  "The nature of or being a deity with power of gentleness and compassion."


Now, when we tap into our being or recognize the deity of the Feminine, we are connecting to a source of power of gentleness and compassion.  That's a pretty good start, but I have to say again that it is only a start.  The Divine Feminine Energy within is so much more than words and definitions can fully express.  This power of gentleness and compassion is just a small portion of the things that we receive when in the state of the Divine Feminine.


By way of comparison, I'd like to explain the differences in Divine Masculine Energy.  Masculine is associated with words such as power . . . strength . . . self control.  The Divine Masculine would then look like absolute power, unlimited strength and total self control. And these aspects are to be sought after.  Our Divine Masculine Energy centers on obtaining, while our Divine Feminine is all about receiving.


The difference between obtaining and receiving is also at the heart of the differences between most religions/spirituality groups and mysticism.  In most religions and some forms of spirituality, you are performing acts . . . rituals . . . prayers, etc., to attain fulfillment; to make you "good enough" to have God or The Divine in your life.  With mysticism, you are aligned to the Divine Feminine aspect of God, allowing yourself, i.e., your Higher Self, to know that you are already all that you need to be in the "Divine" place.  In fact, you received all that you need before your body even came into being.


Let's now focus on how we bring ourselves into that state of the Divine Feminine.  For most of us, it's a gradual process.  There are, for lack of a better word, "steps" to take.  Listening to mantras, chants or prayers is usually a wonderful way to align yourself with the Energy.  Earlier, I said earlier that prayers are used in the Masculine practice, but notice the difference between listening (Feminine, receiving) and chanting, speaking (Masculine, achieving).  There are prayers, chants and mantras that bring us into the Divine Feminine.  Or we can also create something ourselves.


As you listen, it is important that you focus on the heart chakra.  Some traditions focus behind the chakra, while others place their focus in front of the heart chakra.  Either way works.  After a period time, depending on how long you spend meditating, you turn off the manta/chant/prayer and slip into the silence, all the while focusing on the heart chakra.  While in the silence, you can think of love itself, of being surrounded by the loving arms of the Divine Mother or being rocked in her arms, or whatever allows you to open your heart chakra more, as you feel the silence.  Thoughts will come . . . bless them and let them pass.  It is the nature of the mind to think, and for most people it can take a lifetime to fully control this aspect.  So don't force it (again, this is the masculine energy).  Allow yourself to receive, to thank the thought and then go back to focusing on the loving energy.


It is within this silence that the folks at my retreats experience feelings of completeness, wholeness, unconditional love, contentment, fullness.  These are experiences of the Divine Feminine.  She is all that and much more.


As we practice this technique daily, those feeling we receive begin to become more of a part of our lives.  They extend further and further into our day.  While being in the Divine Presence more, we begin to accept and receive her Divine plan, which is that everything is happening for a reason.  Once we are able to receive this and be in this place throughout the day, it relieves so much suffering in our lives.  Knowing all that has gone on before has helped me get to where I am today.  


And what a wonderful place that is!  Imagine walking through your day with deep feelings of love, compassion, and gentleness to yourself and those you meet.  This is our part in creating World Peace.  And all you have to do is to open your heart and acknowledge the Divine Feminine that has always been present in you, and live from your heart more and more each day.  By doing that, each of us will bring about more world peace then anything the United Nations can bring about.  It just takes one heart touching another and that heart knowing it all begins and ends with love, Herself, our Divine Feminine Energy/God within each of us.

Be sure to check out the Ah-Man Blog in May, for additional discussion of the Divine Feminine.

When it comes to learning how to cope and enrich your life, sharing the thoughts and experiences of others via blog can be effective, but nothing beats the healing impact of human interaction.  And that's what I provide at my retreats.  You will better understand your own life experiences and the resulting disconnection from your heart.  My goal - and passion - is to help you open your heart and find the freedom and joy we are all meant to experience.  Please share this information with those who have a need.

Finding Peace Through Forgiveness Half-Day Retreat

This retreat is designed for anyone who has experienced hurt in their life.  The pain we feel from being hurt continues to manifest itself in our lives.  Resentment and pain continue to affect our thoughts and the decisions we make, either knowingly or, in most cases, unknowingly.  During the retreat, I will share my own miraculous experiences with forgiveness and show how forgiveness cannot happen without healing on the Emotional, Spiritual and/or Mystical levels.  I will also expose some of the myths about forgiveness.  During the session, I will also guide attendees through meditations of forgiveness, and invite you to see opportunities to grow where there were none.  Join me to find out how to have more peace in your life about your past, and to learn the secret of being human.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Wainwright House
260 Stuyvesant Avenue
Rye, NY 10580-3115

Time: 9:30am to 2pm (includes 1/2 hour lunch break)

Fee: $60
        $50 for Wainwright House Friends

Register online at


On April 20, 2010, Michael was interviewed on the BlogTalk Radio Show "Getting On Top," hosted by Paul Morris.  He talked about The Meaning of Life with Paul and fellow guest Penny Cohen, a psychotherapist, life coach, author, counselor and lecturer. 
You can listen to a recording of the show by clicking here: The Meaning of Life with Michael Hoare and Penny Cohen.  Please note that a brief commercial has been inserted at the beginning of the recording.



For over 20 years, I have worked with men and women to help them view their issues and pain from a different perspective, and to introduce them to more choices in resolving their conflict. 
This month, I am offering ONE FREE 30-MINUTE SPIRITUAL COUNSELING SESSION TO EACH OF THE FIRST THREE PEOPLE WHO EMAIL ME AT [email protected].   Each spiritual counseling session is valued at $60. 
You can use your free session to discuss recurring issues, important decisions, painful relationships or anything else that is keeping you from enjoying your life.

Take advantage of this opportunity by being one of the first three people to email me at [email protected] and schedule your free session.



Ah-Man products serve as unique gifts and conversation starters.  This month, we're highlighting several products that were added to the site in May.  We now offer Ah-Man cookout aprons, as well as mugs and t-shirts and a variety of other Ah-Man merchandise. 


Shop in comfort online.  Just go to the Ah-Man Ah-Man Web Site and click on the Online Orders tab.

Michael Hoare, D.D., is an author, minister and certified Angel Therapy Practitioner, who has a wealth of experience and expertise in healing his own life and helping others heal theirs.
For more information, or to learn more about Michael and Ah-Man, visit his web site at and his blog at