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AH-MAN FREEDOM NEWSLETTER
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News from Ah-Man
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March 2010
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Hello
Friends: It may seem strange to focus on a sobering topic such as "suffering" during March, the month that heralds spring, which is traditionally a time of birth and new beginnings.
However, there is an important lesson to be learned about suffering, and that is we often choose to suffer. But by the same token, we can also choose not to suffer. And by choosing not to suffer, you can create your own new beginning. That's what this newsletter's feature article is all about.
Also be sure to check out the Ah-Man Blog in March, for additional insights into how we can handle our choices regarding suffering.
Until next time.
Namaste,
Michael
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SUFFERING IS AN OPTION
On this beautiful planet we inhabit, the ranges of
feelings we encounter are vast. They can
go from tremendously blissful ones to immensely painful ones. That is the nature of living in the material
world...we will experience it all. Some of
us will experience more bliss, while others will encounter more pain. Why?
Well, that's for a different newsletter, book, retreat, etc.
Without a doubt, we all will experience feelings
and emotions that fall in the range between bliss and pain. However, suffering is an option. But before I talk
about the option to suffer, I want to explain the difference between suffering
and pain.
Pain is a feeling that comes from an action or a reaction of some kind. A child falls down and cuts his knee; there is
pain. A young person breaks up with her
beloved; there is pain. A parent sees his
child unable to overcome an addiction; they experience pain.
The one thing that all these scenarios have in
common is that those experiencing the pain didn't have a choice in the matter.
On the other hand, suffering is voluntary. Let's take the first example above and relate
it to suffering.
The child falls down, cuts his knee and cries. Mommy (or Daddy) cleans out the cut, kisses
the boo-boo, puts on ointment and slaps a bandage on the wound, all the while reassuring
the child that they are alright and Mommy will take care of everything. Usually, the child will just go on playing as
if nothing happened. They have had their
physical, emotional and yes, even spiritual, needs met by Mommy.
Now those of us blessed with children and the
wonderful experiences that come along with them, have encountered the following.
Sometimes after playing for a while, the
child will return to Mommy or Daddy's presence, look down at their bandaged cut
and start to cry. Why? Because they have gone back to that place of
pain and are reliving it. This is
suffering. Even though the incident is
over, when the child is reminded of the pain he once suffered, he goes back to that place of pain and, not only remembers, but feels that
pain once more.
That is the difference: pain is caused by an
action, and suffering is something we volunteer for. You can illustrate the difference between
pain and suffering in the other examples, as well.
For example, days, weeks and, sometimes, months later, the young person sees her
ex and they both start to cry. They are
reminded of the pain of the breakup and relive it.
As adults with 10...20...30...even 40 plus years of doing
something, we become hardwired to it, and we can't even see that we are causing
the suffering in our own lives. Yes,
there is pain, and there will likely always be pain to some degree or another, but
what you do with that pain is up to you.
You can choose whether to allow that pain to deteriorate into suffering.
I encourage you to visit the Ah-Man Blog all
this month, as I focus on how different religions approach suffering as an
option.
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CHOOSING NOT TO SUFFER: The Ah-Man Connection
At the
Ah-Man retreats, I will work with you to Reconnect with the painful memories to
which you are hard wired. I will then help you to Rewire and Reroute those old buried painful
memories so that you do not have to go on suffering. Those who have attended the Ah-Man Retreats and read my book, I Am Ah-Man, have begun the journey to become WHOLE.
Once you set off on that
journey, you will begin to see that suffering is, indeed, an option.
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RETREATS AND SPEAKING EVENTS
When it comes to learning how to cope and enrich your life,
sharing the thoughts and experiences of others via blog can be effective, but
nothing beats the healing impact of human interaction. And that's what I
provide at my retreats. You will better understand your own life
experiences and the resulting disconnection from your heart. My goal -
and passion - is to help you open your heart and find the freedom and joy we
are all meant to experience. Please share this information with those who
have a need.
Awaken to Your Best Self Wellness Fair & Marketplace
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Doubletree Tarrytown Hotel
455 South Broadway
Tarrytown, NY 10591
9:00am to 5:00pm
Fee: $10.00 (online
registration) or $15.00 at the door Register online at the Awaken Wellness Fair Web Site
During this talk, I will
present an overview of the new Ah-Man Freedom Retreats, with special emphasis
on the "Finding Peace Through Forgiveness" Retreat.
Finding Peace Through Forgiveness Half-Day Retreat
This retreat is designed for anyone who has experienced hurt in their
life. The pain we feel from being hurt continues to manifest itself in
our lives. Resentment and pain continue to affect our thoughts and the
decisions we make, either knowingly or, in most cases, unknowingly.
During the retreat, I will share my own miraculous experiences with
forgiveness
and show how forgiveness cannot happen without healing on the
Emotional,
Spiritual and/or Mystical levels. I will also expose some of the myths
about forgiveness. During the session, I will also guide attendees
through meditations of forgiveness, and invite you to see
opportunities to grow where there were none. Join me to find out how
to have more peace in your life about your past, and to learn the
secret of being human.
The retreat is being offered on the following dates/times:
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Opal Moon 2037 Albany Post Road Croton, NY 10520
Time: 10am to 2:30pm (includes a 1/2 hour lunch break)
Fee: $60 the day of event $45 if you register before April 10, 2010
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COMPLIMENTARY SPIRITUAL COUNSELING SESSION
For nearly 20 years, I have worked with men and
women to help them view their issues and pain from a different perspective, and
introducing them to more choices in resolving their conflict.
Starting
now, and for a limited time, I am making a very special introductory offer of a
FREE 30-minute spiritual counseling
session, valued at $60.
You
can use your free session to discuss recurring issues, important decisions,
painful relationships or anything else that is keeping you from enjoying your
life.
Email me now to
schedule your free session.
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Michael
Hoare, D.D., is an author, minister and certified Angel Therapy Practitioner, who has
a wealth of experience and expertise in healing his own life and helping others
heal theirs.
For more information, or to learn more about Michael and Ah-Man, visit his web
site at www.ah-man.com and his blog at http://www.blog.ah-man.com/.
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