Our logo
 Impassioned Connections
 
April  2008
 

coupleWelcome New Subscribers! 

 
Welcome to the premier edition of Impassioned Connections. Impassioned Connections is our new monthly newsletter designed for couples wanting to enhance their relationship and sexuality.
 
Inside every issue, you will find informative facts, tips and strategies, quotes, product reviews and more, all to help you build more connection and passion in your relationship. 
 
We will also feature a monthly "Q & A with The Love Birds" section, where couples can get answers to their relationship and sex questions. So, for future newsletters, we invite you to submit your relationship and sex questions to us at TheLoveBirds4u@yahoo.com.
 
We're glad you signed up for our newsletter and we wish you deeper connection and passion in your relationship!
 
 
Many blessings,
 
Chuck and Jo-Ann
The Love Birds
Your Relationship and Sex Experts
 
 
** Please feel free to share this newsletter with other couples you know!
 
Relationship Spring Cleaning
 
Spring is a rejuvenating season, a time for new beginnings.  This is also a time when we start our spring cleaning activities.  These are traditional activities of cleaning up and organizing areas of our life after the long winter season.   We  typically focus on spring cleaning our house, vehicles, office spaces, yard, etc.  However, we tend to forget one very important area of our life...our relationship with our partner.   
 
In these busy times, it is very easy to neglect our relationship and take our partner for granted.   Thus, instead of making spring cleaning of your house a priority, take some time to focus on your partner and nurture the connection and passion in your relationship.  Remember the saying, "where the attention goes, the energy flows".  Why wait any longer...today is a great day to start putting more energy in your relationship!
 
Here's a good way to start..
  1. First, both of you, take a few minutes to complete our FEATHERS Relationship QuizThis will help you identify the areas of your relationship that need more attention. 
  2. Next, sit down together and discuss your relationship results.  It's very important to be honest with each other.  Also, discuss your "vision" of each area (what you would like to see).
  3. Then, pick the areas of your relationship you want to focus on first and decide on a plan of action. 
  4. Finally, implement your plan of action.  Remember, you're a team, thus you need to work on these areas together.  Also, change is sometimes difficult, so it's important to support and reward each other.
Don't forget to check out our recommended resources on our website.  You will find many books, videos, and products that can assist you with enhancing your relationship.  
 
And always, if you want help with this process, please feel free to contact us.   We would love to assist you on your journey!
 
Wishing you much "relationship spring cleaning" success,
 
 
Chuck and Jo-Ann
The Love Birds
Your Relationship and Sex Experts
 
 
PS.  Please feel free to share Impassioned Connections with couples you know and encourage them to subscribe Ask them to log on to www.TheLoveBirds4u.comThanks so much in advance!
 
Q & A with The Love Birds
 
Q:  I am 23 years old and have been married for 4 years now.  I used to want to have sex but lately, I have no desire.  I love my husband very much and would appreciate any feedback on what to do.
 
A:  Thank you so much for your question.  We see many women that are struggling with low or no sexual desire.  There are many possible causes for low sexual desire.  First, it is important to rule out a medical cause especially since low sexual desire can be caused by some medications (ie. birth control pills or anti-depressants) as well as hormonal imbalances or low testosterone (yes, even in women!).  So, we suggest that you talk to your doctor about your concern.  Low sexual desire can also be caused by stress or fatigue.   Hence, it's important to make sure you are exercising, eating healthy, getting plenty of rest/sleep and managing stress in healthy ways.  
 
If the above factors are not the cause, then you may want to seek the help of a sex therapist to see if there are other issues such as depression, relationship conflicts, body image issues, or a history of sexual trauma causing the low sexual desire.  We hope this helps!
 
About "The Love Birds"

We are Board Certified Clinical Sexologists and relationship experts that show couples how to discover more passion and connection in their relationships.  We coach couples together (co-coaching) which offers a unique and balanced male/female perspective and approach to helping our clients with a variety of relationship and sexual issues and concerns. As a happily married couple, in addition to our advanced education and training in relationship and sexuality issues, our knowledge of relationships also comes from true, real-life experience.

Charles (Chuck) C. Bird, Ph.D., RN, Dip.ABS is a Registered Nurse, Board Certified Clinical Sexologist and relationship expert providing coaching services with his wife in the Tampa Bay area. Dr. Bird earned his Doctorate from The American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, Masters degree from Maimonides University, Registered Nurse degree from St. Pete College and his Bachelors degree in Psychology from the University of Central Florida. His coach training is from The Institute for Life Coach Training. Dr. Bird is a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexology and a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT).

Jo-Ann H. Bird, Ph.D., LMHC, NCC, Dip.ABS is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, National Certified Counselor, Board Certified Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist and relationship expert providing coaching services with her husband in the Tampa Bay area.  She received her Doctorate from The American Academy of Clinical Sexologists at Maimonides University, Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling from Nova Southeastern University and a Bachelors degree in Psychology from the University of South Florida. Dr. Bird's coach training is from The Institute for Life Coach Training. She is a Diplomate and Supervisor of the American Board of Sexology and a Qualified Supervisor with the State of Florida. Dr. Bird is a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT).

** We are also proud members of The Greater Brandon Chamber of Commerce. 

In This Issue:
Relationship Spring Cleaning
Q & A with The Love Birds
About "The Love Birds"
 Inspirational
Quote:
 
"Remind yourself daily that there is no way to happiness; rather, happiness is  the way."
 
~ Dr. Wayne Dyer
 
 
Did You Know...?
 
Research indicates that sexuality begins prenatally and continues throughout our lifespan.
 
 
 
Book Of The Month:
Patti's book
 
We love this book and think you will too!  This is a great book for couples wanting to enhance their connection and passion.  It is very easy to read and understand.  It also makes a wonderful gift for any couple! 
 
Buy Now!
 
 
Quick Links:
 
 
 
 
Sign Up For 
Impassioned Connections
 Now!  
Upcoming Workshops:
 

 

  • Our new "Feathering Your Nest" series is coming to our Brandon location!  This is an 8 week workshop for couples wanting to enhance their relationship.  Each week we focus on one of the eight  F.E.A.T.H.E.R.S. in our model.   The fee is $400.00 per couple for all 8 weeks.  This is just $50 per couple for each workshop!  We are in the process of scheduling dates for this new series.
  • Our next free "Q & A with The Love Birds" workshop for couples is scheduled for Friday, April 11th, at 5:00 - 6:00 pm at our Brandon location.  Take advantage of this free opportunity to ask the experts questions about relationships and sexuality.  You KNOW you have questions, so here's your chance!  All questions will be submitted anonymously at the beginning of the workshop.   

** Registration is required for both workshops!  Spots for these workshop fill up quickly, so please contact us so we can add you to the list! 

Contact Information:
 
 
Mailing address: 150 E. Bloomingdale Ave., Ste. 163, Brandon, FL 33511

Office telephones: (813) 769-9039; Cell: (813) 546-1740; Fax: (813) 672-6630

Email: TheLoveBirds4u@yahoo.com

 
Please feel free to forward the Impassioned Connections E-Newsletter to friends and family, but please forward in its entirety. The Impassioned Connections E-Newsletter is written by The Love Birds. Copyright (c) 2008 The Love Birds. All rights reserved.