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Issue No. 28    June 2010
Welcome! If you enjoyed last month you'll be craaaaazy about this month! The purpose of this ezine continues to be inspiration, humor, business, personal and just plain fun: aka the don't-take-yourself-so-seriously ezine.

Name in Lights
I NEED YOUR HELP, PLEEEEEASE!!
All my life has been leading up to this moment, this opportunity. My biggest goal, always, my BHAG (big, hairy, audacious goal) was to have my own national talk show. Oprah and reality TV super producer Mark Burnett are searching for the next big TV star. They ask, "Do you have a big personality and a big dream for yourself?" Well, if that doesn't describe me I don't know what does! They are looking for ME!
So take a look at my audition tape and please, please, please vote for me today...and tomorrow...and the next day, 50 times a day, until voting ends on July 3rd, the day before my birthday! Consider it a birthday present!
And feel free to send this to your entire contact list, to friends, neighbors, countrymen (and women)...tell the bag boy at the grocery store, your mail carrier, the cab driver...tell everyone to vote for me! Help my dream come true. I promise it will be an "outrageous" show.
Click here to see my audition and cast your vote:  Oprah Audition
 
In This Issue
I Love This Book!
Mikki & Friends
Biz Bytes
Creative Captions
Shoe-Be-Doo Stories
Wonderful Website-ings
Mikki Mouth
Reader Reviews
He Who Laughs...
Just Jeannie
The Happy Cooker
Fabulous Friends
Mikki's Mantra
Inspirations
Article Headline
Mikki on the Move
Speakers School
Mikki Williams, CSP

Summer
MUSINGS FROM MIKKI
Mikki speaking-cropped                                                                                        
June is for weddings, love, graduations, celebrations, and...only a month before my birthday!  Smiley FaceWoo hoo!        
Oh, where do I begin? What a fab month! Just got back from Marty Roarkmy Vistage Chair retreat (no, not a furniture company), all of us who "herd cats" for a living, i.e. facilitate CEO advisory boards. There're about 30 of us but this is the group that attended...learning and playing together at the French Country Inn in Lake Geneva, Wisconsin.

JimmyThanks to Facebook I reconnected with my college beau, Jimmy Jondreau (love the rhyming). He was in town for the national restaurant show. He's the former chef for Kelsey Grammar, founder of Food and Wine Magazine and foodie extraordinaire. Was amazing to see him again after all these years!

Had a great night out Latin Dancing, my fav, at Rumba Rumba girlswith some of my Vistage members (left to right: Gretchen HartkeMichelle Ernsdorf, and my old not in age in tenure friend Michele Goldsmith, sales queen of the boating industry.


Said "temporary" goodbye to my Vistage Member of the Year, Craig Fichtelberg. He's embarking on a new journey for his MBA at UIC. We'll all miss him and wish him greatCraig Fichtelberg success on this new chapter. Keeping your seat warm, Craig!
Oh yes, I did work this month too. Smiley Face

Marty Roark
Pictured with Marty Roark, Vistage Chair from Pennsylvania. I returned to his group to do "You've Got Personality" for his spousal retreat at beautiful Nemacolin Woods Resort.

Then to Kansas City to a member's home with Deb Niewald's group. Deb Niewirth Ironically, the hotel I stayed at had a restaurant Bronxcalled...Bronx (where I was born)!





Then, the pi�ce de r�sistance
...last Thursday, the 11th, the day after the Blackhawks won Blackhawksthe Stanley Cup, I had dinner with them at Tavern on Rush! Read all about it!
I LOVE THIS BOOK!
Book: Drive Drive
The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
Daniel Pink
 
I loved Daniel Pink's first book, A Whole New Mind: Why Right Brainers Will Rule The World (May ezine 2008, see my archives) so I couldn't wait to read this one. As a "motivation junkie" for my own life and also my career, I was anxious to absorb all he had to offer...and offer he did. He describes true motivation as autonomy, mastery and purpose and then gives us a road map (get it? Drive? road map?, lol) to make it all actionable. He uses examples from entrepreneurs to scientists as he gives you creative examples to drive (oooh, did it again!) your success. He explains that the first drive is biological, the most basic, i.e. food, shelter, the second is external as in reward and punishment and lastly is the pure joy of performing a task. It's in his exploration of that third drive where people and organizations really soar.
 
So for those of you whose extent of motivation exploration is centered on how to get your kid to clean his/her room or your spouse to take out the garbage, I strongly urge you to "drive" (I couldn't resist) immediately to get your copy.  Happy Reading!
 
Mikki & Friends
Mikki will be teaming up with some of her fabulous friends and peers to create unique training days.

Mikki in lavenderTHE NEXT TELESEMINAR: font-size: 24pt; Brian Beaulieu
Conversation with Mikki and Brian Beaulieu,
one of the country's most informed economists (one with a personality, I might add!) and Chief Economist for Vistage International, the world's largest executive organization.

The Future is Your Decision
  June 30th 12:00PM CDT
 
The US and global economies are in business cycle ascent. Just how long and how strong the rising trend is going to be for you depends on the actions you take now. We will be looking at what the leading indicators are telling us and seeing into the future through the macroeconomic lenses of taxes, demographics, inflation, and interest rates.

Put it on your calendar for June 30, 2010
Call in number: 724.444.7444
Call ID: 75014


                              Or  CLICK HERE to listen online

You've Got Personality!
Remember that Lloyd Price song, You've Got Personality? Well, you all have one; in fact you have a style uniquely your own, formed by your own self perception, how you think others see you and by your genetics and life experiences. Helping people discover their personality style using the Personal Profile System, commonly known as DiSC, is one of my favorite tools. By helping people discover that they behave differently in different environments they can recognize and understand this in others. This helps in sales, customer service, leadership, teamwork and relationships to foster understanding in dealing with other people. The actual profiles are self-scoring so people can use them on their own but then, of course, they wouldn't benefit from my stylized, informative, humorous presentations. Smiley Face
 
Who do you think you are? At home? At work?
 
D- Demanding, impatient, decisive, risk, ego, control, competitive.
I- Influencing, emotional, trusting, generous, people, sensitive
S- Steady, family oriented, friendly, loyal, patient
C- Critical, competent, conservative, conscientious, cautious
 
You just thought of others too, didn't you? Your spouse, your boss, your kids...?

"You WOWED our members at Nexstar's Super Meeting in Atlanta! Everyone enjoyed your great sense of humor and how you were able to connect specifically to them during your presentation. You could have heard a pin drop in the room while you were speaking, as everyone was captivated."
Sandie Jacobson
Nexstar Network
CREATIVE CAPTIONS
I love creativity and as a wordsmith I love double entendres, alliteration, onomato... whatever the heck that one was. One of my quirky habits is collecting names of businesses that display any of the above. Here are two of my favorites:

A Sweetbar Named Desire  (Dessert Caf�)
submitted by Ken Alan. Thank you, Ken!

Shoe storeAnd this one, submitted by my buddy and "sole" sister and fellow Chair in Colorado, Janet Fogarty, for this double-whammy of a creative caption AND feeding my other passion of shoes.
www.solefoodshoes.com


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I hope you'll continue to send me ones you know of.
Please send to mikki@mikkiwilliams.com
 
SHOE-BE-DOO STORIES
Shoes-June10Yes, I own about a billion pairs of shoes. And each pair has a story to inspire, a lesson to be learned, a laugh or an "aha!"

There are some Vistage groups that I speak for over and over again and thankfully Don Riddell in California is one of those wonderful Chairs who, along with his lovely wife Sharon, I can now call friends.
Dana Borowka has attended all of my presentations and by his own admittance is a self proclaimed "Mikki-junkie." I just did a webinar for his company, Lighthouse Consulting Table One. I digress! Anyway...they know I love gourmet Don Riddelldining so they had told me about a unique dining experience called Table One, in the kitchen of the Hotel Bel Air. So with some other friends and another one of my favorite Chairs/friend, Larry Cassidy, I got to wear these oh-so-fabulous shoes to the ever-chi chi hotel.  It was an amazing (and costly) experience but hey, I'm all about experiences! Smiley Face
 
WONDERFUL WEBSITE-ings
I come across so many and so many are shared with me that I thought I'd share with you.

bing.com/travel
Forecasts fare prices and shows if likely to rise or fall at different times of the year based on historical data.
 
MIKKI MOUTH:
QUOTATIONS I WISH I'D SAID AND SOME I DID SAY!
Mikki Mouth Enjoy a quote each month from my new book - some funny, some poignant, some professional, some just darn cute! 

Marriage has no guarantees. If that's what you're looking for, go live with a car battery."
                                      --Erma Bombeck

                                     

READER REVIEWS
Just wanted you to know that I LOVE your Ezine ( I have deduced the meaning of that vaguely familiar term). It's fun, informative and sooooooo very YOU!
 
Shannon Smith from Louisiana
(I should add that Shannon was one of my very first and most talented dance students and a performing member of my dance company over 30 years ago...it's amazing the reconnections)

HE WHO LAUGHS...LASTS!
Laughing baby
 
Lions
JUST JEANNIE, THE SOCIAL MEDIA MAVEN
Jeannie WaltersJeannie Walters helps companies enter into the social media mayhem - by connecting with customers, prospects and colleagues in new and powerful ways. Tips from Jeannie:

This is Jeannie's last column and we hope you enjoyed it as much as we have in showcasing her knowledge and talents.
 
Jeannie, thank you so much for being such a great contributor this past year for helping my social networking which looked more like social not-working and for sharing these last tips with our readers.

The social media tools available today are constantly evolving. Some of my favorite features could be useful to you, too.
Facebook - Use the improved list function to keep tabs on your groups
Tweetdeck - Schedule your Twitter updates for later
LinkedIn - Use the many apps available to make your profile more robust
Link to your blog, your Twitter account and more!

 
Questions about social media? Questions about social media? Email me at Jeannie@360Connext.com
For more info see me at www.360Connext.com

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Next month look for our new social media guru, Dave Nelsen.Indy500
Entrepreneur and Social Media Guide (he says, "anyone claiming to be an "expert" might be a shyster.")

Formal Title: President, Dialog Consulting Group

Three things you should know about Dave:

1)   He's a long time CEO who's started four companies in the last 15 years, raising $70 million in venture capital along the way.

2)   He's been recognized as Ernst & Young Entrepreneur of the Year, as Tech Council CEO of the Year and as Vistage Best New Speaker of the Year.

3)   From 2005 to 2009 he was CEO of TalkShoe, a social media company now serving more than 1 million monthly listeners.

You can find more formal details here
 THE HAPPY COOKER
Little girl chef
Yes, that was the name of one of my businesses and oh, come on, I know guys cook too.

ITALIAN WEDDING SOUP  (Get it?? WEDDING Soup)
 
1/2 lb. meat loaf mix (ground beef and pork)
2 tablespoons fresh parsley
1/4 c. grated Parmesan cheese
1/2 c. bread crumbs
1/4 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. pepper
3 cloves garlic, minced
1/4 tsp. oregano
1/4 tsp. basil
1/4 c. milk
 
Italian Wedding SoupCombine the ingredients above. Form small 1/2 inch balls. Drop into boiling salted water or broth. Simmer for 10 minutes, remove with a straining spoon, place on paper towels to drain briefly, then refrigerate.



1 stewing chicken
1 onion, quartered
4 cloves garlic, minced
1 bay leaf
1 carrot, thickly sliced
2 stalks celery, with leaves, cut up
1/3 teaspoon oregano
4 peppercorns
2 tsp. salt
6 quarts water or broth
 
Simmer chicken with the remaining ingredients in the 6 quarts of water or chicken broth for about 2-1/2 hours or until tender. Remove skin and bones, cut up and refrigerate. Strain broth and return to pot.
Add 1 head escarole, torn into bite sized pieces, black pepper, and red pepper flakes, to taste. Simmer 20 minutes.
Meanwhile, break spaghetti into 4 inch long pieces and cook according to package directions; drain.
Add 1-1/2 cups prepared chicken and meatballs to broth. Simmer 10 minutes more.
Variations: White cannelloni beans may be added; ham or prosciutto may be substituted for chicken.
This freezes well and can be doubled if you have a pot large enough.

FUN, FABULOUS, FEARLESS FRIENDS
If any of you remember the movie or Broadway show "Auntie Mame" or if you're old enough to admit you remember it, then you might recall that Mame was famous for her eclectic circle of friends. I pride myself on that same principle of knowing so many diverse people and calling many of them my friends.

Brian Beaulieu2INTRODUCING...this month's teleseminar guest,
Brian Beaulieu
 
Brian and I met years ago when I brought him in to speak to my Vistage groups. He's coming back for the third time on June 16 and 17th, so let me know quick if you'd like to be my guest, or join us for the teleseminar (info above) You simply do not want to miss hearing him!
We got to be friends as we kept winding up sharing the same platforms at various conferences around the country, the last one in the Cayman Islands. I used to tease him that I always followed him on the programs because he gave everyone the bad news and I had to come on and cheer them all up. Smiley Face
One of the country's most informed economists, Brian Beaulieu has been an economist with the Institute for Trend Research since 1982, serving as a principal and its CEO since 1987.  At the Institute, his focus is research into using business cycle analysis and forecasts to increase business profits
He is co-author of Make Your Move, a great book on how to increase profits through business cycle changes. 
Brian is a principal and Managing Partner of ITR Capital Partners and is an active member of its Investment Committee. He's also the Chief Economist for Vistage International, a global organization of CEOs comprising over 14,000 members.
Brian has been providing workshops and economic analysis seminars across the US to literally thousands of business owners and executives for the last 28 years.  During that period he has also been consulting with companies who need a domestic and global perspective on how to forecast, plan, and increase their profits based on business cycle trend analysis.
His views have appeared in/on: the Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Barron's, USA Today, CNBC TV, FOX Business TV, Knight Ridder News Services, Reuters, CBS Radio, The Washington Times, Forbes, Atlanta Journal Constitution, KERA TV, Canadian TV, and numerous other outlets.  He is a regular columnist and contributing economist to national trade associations and publications. 

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Be outrageous...it's the only place that isn't crowded.
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  INSPIRATIONS
As the wordsmith that I have always been, from my high school honors in English (and French) to my calling as a professional speaker, each of the "inspirations" that I share every month are from years and years of collecting words that have inspired me.
 
Over the years I've been inspired by a few marriages, so much so that I tell everyone about these couples every chance I get. I asked my favorite married folk to share with you the secret of marital bliss and longevity. Now I get the chance to share it with you...in their own words.

Linda and Jean PierreLinda and Jean Pierre Marques
Who knew a Frenchman born in North Africa would meet and marry an American-Armenian from Los Angeles and be celebrating their 25 years together (and 20 married years)? It has been a deep love and friendship, and each year it gets stronger and stronger. The amazing thing is that, even today, people still ask us if we are on our honeymoon. We feel the biggest factors in a long, happy marriage besides a deep, true love, is unconditional love, respect, compromise and communication with your partner.
Click here to read what they say about each other. You'll love their heartwarming and funny stories.
Susan and Rick  Roman
Susan and Rick Roman
Rick and I had our 29th wedding anniversary on May 22nd. In those 29 years we have had 2 children (Angela, 27 and Dominic, 22), lost three out of four of our parents (my Mom died before Rick and I met), moved only twice (which may be why we are still married), and have run The Signature Room at the 95th for 17 of those years! At the altar, one of the three priests that witnessed our nuptials (you can never have too many of those, you know) asked us who will be the boss? Rick and I looked at each other like a couple of deer in the headlights and I blurted out, "He wears the pants in the family, I just tell him which ones."
Read the rest of their story
TITILLATING TRIVIA
Many years ago in Scotland , a new game was invented. It was ruled "Gentlemen Only, Ladies Forbidden"... and thus the word GOLF entered into the English language.
MIKKI ON THE MOVE
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Steve Conine
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Mikki Williams, CSP is a professional speaker/trainer, specializing in business dynamics and human potential as well as a Resource Speaker for Vistage International, the worlds largest CEO organization.  She is a small business consultant, runs tri-annual Speaker Schools, Chairs two Executive Think Tanks, affilated with Vistage International and is a Life Architect, helping people design their lives and businesses through a coaching model. To learn more about Mikki Williams Unltd. and all the services provided
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