Is there a part of you that you don't let out to play? Have you wondered if there's more to
sex than what you've experienced so far?
Are you curious about aspects of sexuality and intimacy that you've never
explored? Are you sometimes
embarrassed or even ashamed of your sexual desires? Do you even know what your
full sexual potential really is? Is sex a topic that's hard to talk about -
even with your lover or best friend?
I find these questions curious and I'm amazed by how many of
us have limited our sexual exploration and expression. One of the "7 Secrets", sexual and
physical intimacy play a critically important part in a healthy, happy, lasting
relationship, yet it remains one of the most repressed topics of conversation. That, combined with the different
sexual desires and needs of men and women, makes it one of the top areas of
conflict between men and women.
Over the coming weeks, I'll invite you to discover and
reveal even more of yourself - both in the bedroom and beyond. I'll be writing several new articles to
help you step more fully into your own sexual power and freedom. If you missed
it, you might check out my earlier article called,
Embracing your Sexuality,
to look at your own conditioning around sex.
Today, let's dive deeper into the idea of sexual
personalities. Each of us has
different expressions of ourselves that we bring into our intimacy (or we have
them and we deny them!) When
it comes to lovemaking we have moods, qualities, or personalities we enjoy or
are curious about. For example, most
of us know we have our slow and tender moods. We might also have our intense or hard and fast moods. Many of us, women in particular, have a
sexual personality where we want to be "taken" or ravaged (Men, love and
respect are pre-requisites!) In contrast, we might have a personality that wants to ravage or
"take". (Men, most women welcome
this in you... many crave it... it's ok.)
Did you know we have sexual personalities that...
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