Article: Your Relationships are a Mirror 
Let's explore how our partners - or anyone we have a relationship
with - is a mirror for unresolved challenges and pain in our lives. Our
significant others, or potential significant others, most often play
this role and yet, the truth is, anyone we interact with is a mirror for
us. Besides our beloved, it could be a date, a co-worker, our parents,
our kids, the neighbor, even a grocery store clerk.
So what do I mean by a "mirror"? In its simplest
explanation... what we see in another - whether we like that quality or
detest it - is a reflection of something within us. We could not
recognize the quality in another if we did not know it in ourselves.
Now... that's easy to swallow when we are talking about qualities like
generosity, kindness, wisdom, abundance, happiness and the like. We
might feel good looking at another and seeing them joy-filled and
thinking, "wow... because I can see joy in them, it's in me too!" That
feels good.
It gets a little more challenging when we look at qualities like
laziness, anger, protectiveness or distance, jealously, frustration,
even hate. When was the last time you looked at your significant other
and judged them as somehow less than - lazy, incompetent,
inconsiderate, rude, disconnected? What else have you said about them? If you're having trouble thinking of something, think about the things
that frustrate you most about your beloved.
Here's the key for you... Whatever it is that you judge in
another person that upsets you... Read More
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