The Buddha on how to handle other's anger: don't take the gift!
Here is a story:
A woman, whose son had left her to become a disciple, confronted the Buddha and showered him with great anger. She was a widow and her son had been her sole source of support. She poured out a great virulent wrath in the Buddha's face.
The monks watching were shocked.
The Buddha said nothing to defend himself - after all, her son was taking active steps in the path towards the liberation - couldn't she understand that?
When the woman left they asked why he listened, did nothing, but, seemingly, took the abuse.
The Buddha said two things:
1. She was suffering and we must show compassion for all who suffer
2. I did not have to accept her "gifts'."
(The story ends with the Buddha telling her the son to go and take of his mother and that he could always return.)
